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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why don't you talk to people with crap profiles? If you meet someone in real life they don't hand you a list of likes & dislikes. You talk to them and find out for yourself.

Are people who won't talk to crap profiles, just really lazy and can't interact with other human beings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only three meets from fab are with men who had suuuuuuper shit profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley


"My only three meets from fab are with men who had suuuuuuper shit profiles "
mines shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a whole discourse based around crap profiles..or profiles with little or no information given..

The mindset of their owner is often to get the conversation going by asking questions whereas the person in receipt of the messages just thinks hes made no effort so i wont either...

Thats my mindset too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My only three meets from fab are with men who had suuuuuuper shit profiles "

You won’t mind talking to me then

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I'm attracted to the profile by the picture(s), to capture and keep my interest its the words,

Its often said (mainly to single guys) with so much choice what makes you different ,.. I use the same thought process if I don't know... I'll find someone who has informed me and created the intdrest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe those with the crap profiles like to keep an air of mystery about themselves to keep people guessing

I'll admit my profile isn't the best but then again it isn't the worst on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the messages are witty, sometimes the profile doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given"

However your picture is stunning

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because the context and medium matters. You work with what you've got, and when someone is selecting you, they don't say "this person could be heaps of fun down the pub", they say "based on the evidence presented, I don't see evidence that this fits the criteria".

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

As in life the first impression is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given

However your picture is stunning"

Thanks

I borrowed my mum's bra for the photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given

However your picture is stunning

Thanks

I borrowed my mum's bra for the photo"

I tried exactly the same approach and I got nothing but insults for it

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given

However your picture is stunning

Thanks

I borrowed my mum's bra for the photo

I tried exactly the same approach and I got nothing but insults for it"

thats because you put it on your head!!! you supposed to keep yer tits in it!!!!!!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There's a difference between crap & awful

Personally I wouldn't send a message to anyone who had either.

Crap, because if someone can't be bothered to spend a bit of time & effort on themselves, I'd consider they'd be the same in the way they treated others, me.

Awful, well because seeing 20 other women's fannies, faces, tits dripping cum, really doesn't inspire me to think this person respects women.

I have replied to messages from people with crap profiles, as their message had something about it.

An awful profile would just get deleted & probably blocked, no matter what they wrote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can say what we want here

Whether the words are a true reflection of the person behind them is something else

It's why I ask in my own profile that those that message me are just themselves

I don't want to meet a persona, I want to meet a person

This is not fantasy for me, it is an attempt to meet decent people, some of whom I might shag

Interaction remains more important than a first judgement

We can't all be wordsmiths, we can't all be amateur photographers, but we can de half decent

The only killer, for me, is if they go right in with the sex

1st message : Hi M8, how are you?

1st response : I'm good, how's yourself?

2nd message : Horny

And there, that story ends, often with a silent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define a crap profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given

However your picture is stunning

Thanks

I borrowed my mum's bra for the photo

I tried exactly the same approach and I got nothing but insults for it

thats because you put it on your head!!! you supposed to keep yer tits in it!!!!!!! "

Why the hell did nobody say this before

I feel so let down now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given

However your picture is stunning

Thanks

I borrowed my mum's bra for the photo

I tried exactly the same approach and I got nothing but insults for it

thats because you put it on your head!!! you supposed to keep yer tits in it!!!!!!!

Why the hell did nobody say this before

I feel so let down now "

I’ve been wearing them wrong too. I thought they were cups for your balls and your legs went through the straps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is pretty long but I do find it connects me with people who have a similar mind set as myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont read em anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does any one read profiles , then again mine is a massive splendid collection of words and dashed long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines crap, I like it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is a whole discourse based around crap profiles..or profiles with little or no information given..

The mindset of their owner is often to get the conversation going by asking questions whereas the person in receipt of the messages just thinks hes made no effort so i wont either...

Thats my mindset too"

I suppose that just means they aren't compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the messages are witty, sometimes the profile doesn't matter."

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a difference between crap & awful

Personally I wouldn't send a message to anyone who had either.

Crap, because if someone can't be bothered to spend a bit of time & effort on themselves, I'd consider they'd be the same in the way they treated others, me.

Awful, well because seeing 20 other women's fannies, faces, tits dripping cum, really doesn't inspire me to think this person respects women.

I have replied to messages from people with crap profiles, as their message had something about it.

An awful profile would just get deleted & probably blocked, no matter what they wrote. "

That makes sense. Crap vs awful.. love it

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"My profile's crap

I wouldn't talk to me

Not alot of fucks given"

Yeah but you're Sappy that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define a crap profile.."

Mine?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does any one read profiles , then again mine is a massive splendid collection of words and dashed long "

Some definitely do. I can have 200 people on the 'looked at my profile' thing, but only 1 message.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Why don't you talk to people with crap profiles? If you meet someone in real life they don't hand you a list of likes & dislikes. You talk to them and find out for yourself.

Are people who won't talk to crap profiles, just really lazy and can't interact with other human beings? "

Lack of effort with a profile would suggest a lack of effort with anything else too to me and when you have limited opportunity to meet, as I do, the key is finding people that are a likely match and appear to have similar interests etc to me - now personally most of my interaction is off the back of forum threads so the profile does take on less importance with those people.

Certainly don't think it suggests people are lazy and can't interact with others just because they look for some detail and indication of effort though - there's a world of difference between interacting here and down the pub, and having some information to work on is key.

In fact thinking about it meeting someone in a pub, if they don't give you a great deal of information about themselves, you soon lose interest, so actually the principle is still similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define a crap profile..

Mine? "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My only three meets from fab are with men who had suuuuuuper shit profiles "

So there's hope for me yet

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