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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Relative A is invited to a wedding with a plus one

Relative B is not invited

Relative A brings Relative B as their plus one.

Rude or perfectly acceptable?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Rude/wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Relative A is invited to a wedding with a plus one

Relative B is not invited

Relative A brings Relative B as their plus one.

Rude or perfectly acceptable?"

Perfectly acceptable.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Is Relative B not invited because they are a twonk? I think it's odd they wouldn't be if not. Is it a big/small wedding?

I'd probably check with the bride if B is okay as a guest.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Perfectly acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kick relative A out for being such a wally

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Acceptable. Tho if I was relative B I wouldnt go where I was clearly not wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say acceptable unless there is good reason that relative B shouldn’t be there eg a feud or maybe they have upset you in some way.

If relative A knows that it would be unacceptable.

LJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on bs crimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the relative has not been invited due to venue size, perfect solution!

If it's because there is bad blood, highly innapropriate.

I would definitely run it by the bride and groom first discreetly, it is their day after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on why b wasn't invited in the first place

..a should ask first..just in case

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's not happened to us, we got married so long ago we can't really remember who we invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's out of order, I know it would make me feel like I was pushed into a reaction. Say for example I didn't invite relative b because I didn't like them but I didn't want to disclose why, then when relative a says they are bringing them anyway it either forces you to a) have someone you don't want there b) have the confrontation or have to give explanation for reason for not inviting, which you shouldn't have to do as you can invite and not invite who ever you like to your wedding.

Rant over... sorry that made me blow my top, hate underhand, sneaky relatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it depends on why B wasn't invited. If B is uninvited for good reason then I think it's wrong to bring them along. Otherwise I don't see the problem.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is Relative B not invited because they are a twonk? I think it's odd they wouldn't be if not. Is it a big/small wedding?

I'd probably check with the bride if B is okay as a guest.

"

This

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just interested in opinions. As I said this isn't us but something that arose last year with a colleague.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I say acceptable unless there is good reason that relative B shouldn’t be there eg a feud or maybe they have upset you in some way.

If relative A knows that it would be unacceptable.

LJ"

This

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"If the relative has not been invited due to venue size, perfect solution!

If it's because there is bad blood, highly innapropriate.

I would definitely run it by the bride and groom first discreetly, it is their day after all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regarding B - why would anyone want to go to something they know they are not wanted at?

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