FabSwingers.com forum: Can’t accom. Cant travel.

By *azinga-1 OP Man
over a year ago

Scotland

So, we supposed to arrange your transport too? Ta but no.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know.

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By *azinga-1 OP Man
over a year ago

Scotland

"It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know. "

And to get to know them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People meet in hotels or clubs in their town or city.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

"It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know.

And to get to know them?"

It happens but in times when I knew our respective profiles matched, I courteously approached whoever it was. It has often led to dialogue and a meet organised.

Equally, it has met with a definite "No" but I've moved on and not taken it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play in clubs and refuse to do private meets. Point blank.

Hence can't accommodate and won't travel .

Quite simple really

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've had ladies come and stop at mine for a couple nights or more from the South Coast who have had this on their profile, and they wouldn't meet smokers as well. The mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live with a roommate and have no car and limited funds to travel.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have this for all kinds of reasons, some of which have already been said.

The other thing is some people make assumptions eg... Just because I can accommodate doesn't mean I definitely will and iv had people get funny with me when iv said no you can't come to my house right now! The responses were along the lines of "but you said you can accommodate". So I can see why people put these things on the profile.

Remember these things are often preferences and not always set in stone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, we supposed to arrange your transport too? Ta but no. "
they want you to go to them is all, hotel maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably don’t travel far and would meet in a hotel or club. It’s not a major issue.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Or maybe they only meet locally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not ask them direct people have different reasons

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I take the no travel to mean local meets only.

Whatever local means to them

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

I have this on my profile. For me it means I only meet guys from my local town. And I do not have guys in my house due to it being my family home.

It certainly doesn't mean I expect anyone to arrange my travel for me. If you're not local then we don't meet.

I've found if I put on my profile that I travel then I get messages from guys all over the country sometimes 100's of miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, we supposed to arrange your transport too? Ta but no. "

That's right...stick to your guns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have this on my profile. For me it means I only meet guys from my local town. And I do not have guys in my house due to it being my family home.

It certainly doesn't mean I expect anyone to arrange my travel for me. If you're not local then we don't meet.

I've found if I put on my profile that I travel then I get messages from guys all over the country sometimes 100's of miles away. "
local really anonymity out the window then, all meets have to be planned and if the guy doesn't mind travelling to you I don't see the problem

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

The people ive spoke with and potential meet that have had the can't accom, can't travel on their profile has usually meant that they want me to go pick them up and bring them to mine.

Which lets say they was only 30 mins away which would be fine, but a there back and there back making it a 2 hour round trip for a bit of sex just made me pass up on the offer.

Sex is nice and all but i hate driving more than i like sex haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people ive spoke with and potential meet that have had the can't accom, can't travel on their profile has usually meant that they want me to go pick them up and bring them to mine.

Which lets say they was only 30 mins away which would be fine, but a there back and there back making it a 2 hour round trip for a bit of sex just made me pass up on the offer.

Sex is nice and all but i hate driving more than i like sex haha.

I don’t think thats everyone. I wouldn’t get into a car with someone I didn’t know for starters. I find it scary that people would do that.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"The people ive spoke with and potential meet that have had the can't accom, can't travel on their profile has usually meant that they want me to go pick them up and bring them to mine.

Which lets say they was only 30 mins away which would be fine, but a there back and there back making it a 2 hour round trip for a bit of sex just made me pass up on the offer.

Sex is nice and all but i hate driving more than i like sex haha.

I don’t think thats everyone. I wouldn’t get into a car with someone I didn’t know for starters. I find it scary that people would do that. "

I didnt say it was everyone but its a lot of people over the years of being on here, where that has been the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't accommodate because we have kids and will not have any tom dick or harry in the house. We can travel to meet.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

"It can mean that the person will not invite strangers into their home or travel to them. It does not mean that they cannot make arrangements with people they do know. "

True x

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

"I have this on my profile. For me it means I only meet guys from my local town. And I do not have guys in my house due to it being my family home.

It certainly doesn't mean I expect anyone to arrange my travel for me. If you're not local then we don't meet.

I've found if I put on my profile that I travel then I get messages from guys all over the country sometimes 100's of miles away. local really anonymity out the window then, all meets have to be planned and if the guy doesn't mind travelling to you I don't see the problem

I'm not bothered about anominity, we are all here for the same reason and have had some good meets from guys in my home town. And because there's guys in my local area I don't need to look further afield. If the guy is willing to travel to someone that doesn't accommodate them then to me I've wasted their time.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I have can't travel can't accom. I meet at clubs but it doesn't stop people asking to come round or for me to meet at theirs

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Given up my car, so struggle to travel.

Decided to no longer accommodate, so as to try and filter out the married guys

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

It means I wont travel 200 miles to suck some horny guys cock. I don't accommodate and I don't visit strangers houses.

I'm happy to meet at a hotel or club

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If "can travel (local only)" were an option I'd use it. As it's not, "cannot travel" deters most of the chancers who want me to travel hundreds of miles to suck them off.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My profile also addresses the question, if people read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you are really into me you would !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Well if you are really into me you would ! "

I'm not into anyone that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if you are really into me you would !

I'm not into anyone that much. "

Damn it ! Well I hope that somebody will

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We have can't accommodate because we have a child!! But we're happy to share hotel costs or meet at theirs if we know them.

But we do travel! Depends on location, etc.

Mostly round here the single guys can't accommodate because they're playing away and we choose not to play with those who are playing away!!

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