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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you do if the hospital tells you that you have cancer there is no treatment??? Thats what I have been told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly have no idea.

I'm sorry you're facing this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id go on a crime spee earn as much cash i can for my kids nobody would get in my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be devastated...

Sorry you have been given such awful news op

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

It is too much to take on board, I would seek support from professionals. I assume you have been offered support?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm sorry to hear your dreadful news. Presumably you have been ill for a while ? Have you contacted Macmillan for support ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get everything in order and then make as many good memories as I can with the people i love.

hard I know. but I'm an end of life carer and the families always want to remember the good times.

sorry you had such crap news

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay


"Id go on a crime spee earn as much cash i can for my kids nobody would get in my way"

This xxx

But with much better spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart goes out to you fella.

I think I'd just want to make the very best of the time I had left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't know. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

I would say accept any support you're offered and spend time with people who make you happy. Make the most of each day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would let the macmillan team guide me with what to do next re financial, family etc

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Sorry to hear your news. Please take all the support and counselling that is available

For me I’d get my affairs in order and then do the things I’d want to do with my lad, family and friends to leave behind the best possible happy memories, before saying my goodbyes and heading to Switzerland

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Oh! That’s terrible news. I’m really sorry to hear that.

I think I’d arrange to spend as much time with the people that I love and care for. Maybe right some wrongs.

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

I'm sorry you have been given that news. A friend of mine was told the same thing 3 years ago" after some time she made a huge bucket list of stuff she wanted to do" and we all went on this ride of a life with her" she did not finish the list but she had so much fun doing stuff she had on her list and with her family and friends. She was 48. Perhaps when your ready it's something to think about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if the hospital tells you that you have cancer there is no treatment??? Thats what I have been told "

Sorry to hear that man.

I'm not in your shoes, so I couldn't say.

I imagine I'd rack up a lot of debt in a very short space of time, Living life on the edge. I'd tell everyone who ever meant anything to me, exactly how they impacted my life and what they meant to me.

I'd spend as much time with my children as possible. Tell them what was happening and not to worry and not be scared.

I try to do most of that anyway. Though I'm not as grateful for every day that I have and waste far too much time than I should..

.. Mate.. live.. love.. laugh.. right till the very end. Heart goes out to you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What would you do if the hospital tells you that you have cancer there is no treatment??? Thats what I have been told "

What exactly do you mean ?

No treatment necessary ?

What EXACTLY do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do if the hospital tells you that you have cancer there is no treatment??? Thats what I have been told

Sorry to hear that man.

I'm not in your shoes, so I couldn't say.

I imagine I'd rack up a lot of debt in a very short space of time, Living life on the edge. I'd tell everyone who ever meant anything to me, exactly how they impacted my life and what they meant to me.

I'd spend as much time with my children as possible. Tell them what was happening and not to worry and not be scared.

I try to do most of that anyway. Though I'm not as grateful for every day that I have and waste far too much time than I should..

.. Mate.. live.. love.. laugh.. right till the very end. Heart goes out to you. "

Definitely what Ghengis just wrote. Enjoy every day as it comes.xx

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

It's a terrible thing to have to face.

Regarding end of life care talk to a hospice. They are very helpful and professional. They give the best care and comfort in making ones last days as pain free and gentle as possible.

Talk to family and friends to make everything right and prepare a will and leave instructions for what happens afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No treatment at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No treatment at all "
that's so sad m8. I honestly don't know what i would do. Are you still mobile enough to get about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry your going through this but I'd say "doctor's, what do they fucking know".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry your going through this but I'd say "doctor's, what do they fucking know"."

I'd probably also get a 2nd and 3rd opinion.

If you only saw an NHS doctor i would do what I can before i rule out no treatment possible.

Then if there was a possibility of treatment that would potentially cost a vast amount of money I'd try and start a crowdfunding campaign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow really sad news.. so sorry you're going through that xx

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

Process it.

Get all the help you can and live your life as best you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry you have to go though this.

I hope you Don't mind me asking but when you say no treatment did they mean no way of getting rid of it or no treatment would help slow it down, abait symptoms?

Either way I hope you are having good support both professionally and personally. Xx

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Sorry to here this mate.

Love the ones near you.

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