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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it?

What does it involve?

You see people saying things like 'I like to be flirted with. It adds to the build up'

It always loses me a bit

I wouldn't even know where to start

I don't think I am a flirt

Not consciously anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through.

I like the giddy feeling of chatting with someone I fancy boosts me and makes me all girly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through.

"

Yep. I think they mean they want more than a how's the weather where you are conversation. You know when you like someone and you want to talk to them and get responses back? That sort of chat.

If you like someone you'll naturally flirt with them whether you realise it or not. I always think I'm not flirtatious in the slightest or if I am, I'm crap at it but apparently not so...

Don't overthink it and have fun with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through.

Yep. I think they mean they want more than a how's the weather where you are conversation. You know when you like someone and you want to talk to them and get responses back? That sort of chat.

If you like someone you'll naturally flirt with them whether you realise it or not. I always think I'm not flirtatious in the slightest or if I am, I'm crap at it but apparently not so...

Don't overthink it and have fun with it. "

Me?

Not over-thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m shit at it

I tried to be subtle - didn’t work

I tried to be forward - scared them off

I’ll just stick with being very boring me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't have a clue

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I think the best kind of flirting is sub conscious. If you're thinking about actively trying to woo someone then you miss out on just going with the flow and letting the natural cues and subtle signs shine through. "

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, I’m not conventionally attractive maybe a 6, Dark and Handsome but not tall.

2, Any manufactured dating scenarios just don’t work for me as they feel forced.

So with those notes out of the way on a holiday to California a few years ago after a bad breakup and illness, I simply didn’t care about pulling or flirting just having a good time.

Guess what? For an average lad I had stunning girls wanting to take me out for date nights and boy was it the best 2 weeks ever.

Just be yourself and don’t try too hard and change the frame you operate in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and let the flirting naturally come it. It will happen if there’s an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you use your body language to get someone you quite like to stay and chat to you rather than if you were trying to get out of a conversation. You can sort of tell how you use your body, ie eye contact for the one you like and shy smiling compared to preparing to walk away from the other and polite smiling. Thats basically flirting. (The first one)

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Always struggle with the flirting online....in person is usually alot more free flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You talking about in person or on line?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't a bloody clue! If I like someone a grin like the village idiot when I'm with them. That is the extent of my skills. Oh, that and taking off all my clothes. That seems to be a good indicator that I fancy someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirty banter is what it is..

You know, when you're messaging back and forth with someone you fancy and you know the feeling is mutual..and the responses just flow and it ferls good..

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I never flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never flirt. "

*snort*

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh hey Bussy

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never flirt.

*snort*"

Are you grinning like an idiot?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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that is flirting right there. Not to be taken seriously though. All real flirting happens privately

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I do it without realising, in a face to face situation, rubbish at the whole messaging. Prefer to have a cheeky laugh and go from there. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never flirt.

*snort*

Are you grinning like an idiot?"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I never flirt.

*snort*"

*Seconded snort*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never flirt.

*snort*

*Seconded snort*

"

You're here!

*whips clothes off*

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I never flirt.

*snort*

*Seconded snort*

You're here!

*whips clothes off*"

Is that flirty behaviour? It’s still a little too subtle for me

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


" that is flirting right there. Not to be taken seriously though. All real flirting happens privately "

That’s a bit harsh.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


" that is flirting right there. Not to be taken seriously though. All real flirting happens privately

That’s a bit harsh. "

Ahhh, did you just mean you?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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" that is flirting right there. Not to be taken seriously though. All real flirting happens privately

That’s a bit harsh.

Ahhh, did you just mean you? "

Yes me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I never flirt.

*snort*

*Seconded snort*

You're here!

*whips clothes off*"

Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.

Hey Nell.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You talking about in person or on line? "

Pre-meet

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


" that is flirting right there. Not to be taken seriously though. All real flirting happens privately

That’s a bit harsh.

Ahhh, did you just mean you?

Yes me "

Phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know if someone's flirting with me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I never flirt.

*snort*

*Seconded snort*

You're here!

*whips clothes off*

Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.

Hey Nell. "

That squelching noise coming from your knickers? Is that a giveaway do you think?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I never know if someone's flirting with me "

Chances are, they are

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"You're here!

*whips clothes off*

Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.

Hey Nell.

That squelching noise coming from your knickers? Is that a giveaway do you think? "

Squelching? Your incredibly sexual choice of language never fails to stimulate me in every imaginable way.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"You're here!

*whips clothes off*

Right, I've got this. I'll not type lots of words in a giddy, nervously excited way.

Hey Nell.

That squelching noise coming from your knickers? Is that a giveaway do you think?

Squelching? Your incredibly sexual choice of language never fails to stimulate me in every imaginable way."

^^ this dear reader is *not* flirting. It’s shade.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I flert all the time it's just my daft sence of humour. To be fair op it gets me into so much trouble I'd not bother and besides would you really want to make out your anything but yourself.

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