FabSwingers.com forum: Not my type

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do i always get not my type or no reply. I know that i am not much but why????

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Because you're not their type?

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you're not their type?

Jo.Xx "

This could be it?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Most likely because from the information available to them at the time, you don't appear to be their type or you are not what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do i always get not my type or no reply. I know that i am not much but why????"
because although you like the look of them you are not thier type....there will be someone whos type you are .good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The garage would scares me off tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than your not my written or spoken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because you aren’t their type....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they're looking for someone to wine/ dine/ romance/seduce them into bed, not change their ht leads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because you're not their type?

Jo.Xx

This could be it?

The rest can't be arsed to tell you.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

At least they are being honest.

I wouldn’t try a “not my type” again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s the lack of boobs. But good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a trick question?

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a trick question?

Hollyshit"

No swearing in here please

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"For me it’s the lack of boobs. But good luck!"

Now your my type

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Is this a trick question?

Hollyshit

No swearing in here please"

Oh and you!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Why do i always get not my type or no reply. I know that i am not much but why????"

Maybe ask yourself if your profile is appealingto those you want to meet.

I cannot offer you profile advice, since you haven'y asked for it, but I'd start there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a trick question?

Hollyshit

No swearing in here please

Oh and you!

Wish I could say the same

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

) "too young" "too close to where they live" (5 miles away) "too far away " (20 miles and I'm willing to drive) "too single" (FFS) and the all too common BS "not meeting anyone" (then see veris of meets after)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a trick question?

Hollyshit

No swearing in here please"

How many times do I have to tell you to stop staring at me through the bathroom window??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do i always get not my type or no reply. I know that i am not much but why????"

Ask yourself additionally who am I sending a message to? What have they written on their profile and do you fit it? Are they specific in their needs which you do not match? Are you just being desperate or overwhelmed by their Fab fame? Are they arrogant twats? You know they won’t answer. In other words. Be a bit more selective when deciding who to message.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Is this a trick question?

Hollyshit

No swearing in here please

Oh and you!

Wish I could say the same

Cheeky bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

Where's the "pondering" emoji when you need it...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I get it all the time . It roughly translates to " you're an ugly cunt , fuck off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

Maybe they are trying to be kind in their rejection, by making excuses...though they could be valid reasons

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps they're looking for someone to wine/ dine/ romance/seduce them into bed, not change their ht leads."

Hahaha! Romance a woman into bed. I knew that I was doing something wrong. Rather more pretentious than my user name is it not?

Op, I’d think it was rather self-explanatory was it not? There’s not much to be had from this website: unless of course gay men seeking “straight” men is your preference. I advise that you pop in to your local club and try your chances there. I’m a young dude and rarely get a message back here. Clubs are a bunch of fun though.

Good luck

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

Maybe they are trying to be kind in their rejection, by making excuses...though they could be valid reasons

Holly"

True, but all it does is, as the op has said, makes me think I am nobody's type. Almost wanna apply for the "Undateables"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age). "

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a tough gig for guys here. To make it less tough (in general terms) you need to market yourself as positively and appealingly as possible to the people you're looking for (without being boring, you still have to be yourself).

(this is general advice, not specific to anyone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)"

Yes, I get it in that circumstance, though, she was 44 and he 45. I guess In that case a no reply beats the reply, there’s no wonder he’s feeling a little confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)

Yes, I get it in that circumstance, though, she was 44 and he 45. I guess In that case a no reply beats the reply, there’s no wonder he’s feeling a little confused. "

You can never win on fab

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)

Yes, I get it in that circumstance, though, she was 44 and he 45. I guess In that case a no reply beats the reply, there’s no wonder he’s feeling a little confused. "

If she's looking for a younger guy (because age preferences/ age play exist) then 45 is probably way too old. Can't know.

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)"

The single girl I got the "too single" reply from actually stated in her profile "no married or attached men". I put it down to her (him?) being a time waster.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Why do i always get not my type or no reply. I know that i am not much but why????

Maybe ask yourself if your profile is appealingto those you want to meet.

I cannot offer you profile advice, since you haven'y asked for it, but I'd start there."

Agree

Also, when mailing folk, be sure that you're in their age range, etc., nothing worse that having yet another guy ignore your preferences and introduce himself like he expects to be the exception. It happens a lot!

But on the plus side... At least people are replying to you saying you're not their type. Most guys starting these kind of threads here do so because they can't even get a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)

The single girl I got the "too single" reply from actually stated in her profile "no married or attached men". I put it down to her (him?) being a time waster."

Haha women are a paradox man. Though, possibly she was looking for a couple?

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

They are all legit responses though

I wouldn’t call ‘too single’ (wtf does that even mean?) nor ‘too old’ a Legit response (they’re roughy the same age).

I think men under 30 are too young for me, even though I’m 22....so too old thing could totally be legit

Too single - maybe they prefer to meet married men because they are also married and playing away? (I know people who do this)

Yes, I get it in that circumstance, though, she was 44 and he 45. I guess In that case a no reply beats the reply, there’s no wonder he’s feeling a little confused. "

Definitely confused lol

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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

Maybe you could ask yourself the same question ., Not everybody is everyone's "type" , maybe you have seen/read a profile and thought " not my type " so you don't message , however , if this person then messaged you , how would you reply ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had responses of "not my type" "too old" (I was 45, she was 44

Maybe they are trying to be kind in their rejection, by making excuses...though they could be valid reasons

Holly

True, but all it does is, as the op has said, makes me think I am nobody's type. Almost wanna apply for the "Undateables""

You will always be somebody's type. It's just a hard graft for single men on here. Fab is not the real world and the male/female ratio is crazily swung in the women's favour. So I doubt you need to send an application off to the Undatebles

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a trick question?

Hollyshit

No swearing in here please

Oh and you!

French sandwich ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you could ask yourself the same question ., Not everybody is everyone's "type" , maybe you have seen/read a profile and thought " not my type " so you don't message , however , if this person then messaged you , how would you reply ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most likely because from the information available to them at the time, you don't appear to be their type or you are not what they are looking for. "

You are definitely educated to degree level based on your response!

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