FabSwingers.com forum: What's your profile style?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?

Reflection exercise I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humourous just to get a giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think of it as well thought out, intelligent, imaginative, humourous and a bit different but i'll leave it for others to decide whether that's true or not.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Can't remember to be honest.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We have tried to set our stall out so people get a good idea of who we are and what we're here for. Pics are a mixture but not too graphic. Trying to sell ourselves I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and keep it short but sweet. If I wrote paragraphs I'm not sure people would bother to stick around

As for pictures I just like to show my best parts

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally to just put my cards down on the table best I can. I'm not into smoke, mirrors and games when it comes to social interactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we’ve made sure there’s a good mixture of us both on our profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A “can’t be arsed” style springs to mind re mine.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I wrote it to convey What i'm like as a person, what I can offer and what i'm looking for without it being tedious or exhaustive.

In short, I aimed for a good read

As to my pics...feel free to browse and come to your own conclusions. I don't want to do what everyone else does

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?

Reflection exercise I guess. "
I’ve changed mine a few times now from being informative to being honest my pics are all body focused Rational being it’s a sex site so advertise my body and a bit of mind and attitude I think x

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My profile text is partly a way to market myself, and fortunately I can write reasonably well. I try to tell people about me and mention some things they might talk about, as well as things that just aren't happening.

My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

"My profile text is partly a way to market myself, and fortunately I can write reasonably well. I try to tell people about me and mention some things they might talk about, as well as things that just aren't happening.

My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more. "

And you’ve done a spectacular job at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumbling mind numbing stringing of unread words together, followed by wandering off into the other.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody don't even know. I just wrote what goes into my mind at that time.

Last night a guy had a car accident in my street btw

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Generally to just put my cards down on the table best I can. I'm not into smoke, mirrors and games when it comes to social interactions."

This! What you see is what you get

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I try to convey that I’m good-humoured, articulate, forthright, considerate, and highly-sexed. With my photos I want to give a good indication of what my face and body looks like, while avoiding being overly explicit. My occasional public explicit photos are usually soon relegated to friends-only or private."

You do it very well. We are similar with photos

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Text says it like it is. I'm not looking for meets and that's what it says. Pics are pretty much for my own amusement, and to update my look from time to time.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more.

And you’ve done a spectacular job at that."

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just steal cartoon musics and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Take a look!"

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple profile, pics of us both together. Profile text, location and verifications changed around depending on type of meet we want and who we want to attract.

This profile, I'm just happy if it makes someone smile.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

You do it very well. We are similar with photos

Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x "

And ? What’s my style ?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Just me, nothing more, nothing less.

People will either like it or they won’t

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We try to paint an honest picture of who we are, why we are here, and what people will get if they meet us. Then a reader is free to decide if that appeals and respond appropriately should they want to, in the knowledge of what's potentially on the table. We don't want anybody to feel misled.

For our photos, we try to be enticing and alluring to people who like our physical type, but we made a conscious decision to not to just lay it all out there. We have nudes of both of us though we never show the "money shot" and there is nothing explicit. We would rather people felt we are a present they want to unwrap but not feeling like they already know what they are getting for Christmas.

If we were going to update it, we might say something about how to approach us (we have had excellent and terrible initial messages), but we don't want to seem prescriptive or to give a template for somebody when we are not well-suited for each other. We might say something about what we don't want, but we are wary of being negative. What we may do is say more about how we like sex to be, because sexual compatibility is very important in this line.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?"

You first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my profile is honest about what I'm looking but I'm not sure what else it says about me or how it comes across to others. I get lots of messages saying people like it but I think that's probably a generic message most men send out.

My favourite pictures to take are usually just lingerie and dresses. I keep it pretty simple I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?

You first!

Very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think I need to update more about my partner though since what we want involves the two of us. But as we aren't 100% committed to the idea yet I'm not too bothered.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

You do it very well. We are similar with photos

Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!"

Ha, not for long. Mr has a good eye. You like the profile then? We have wondered if it's a bit full on. We are pretty straight-talking. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?

Reflection exercise I guess. "

I really like how your profile is written _naswingdress. I think it shows a lot of your personality and tells people about what kind of person you are.

I really don't like short profiles with nothing but hello I'm Bob looking for fun etc but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?

Reflection exercise I guess. "

If I have changed in weight, hair colour and ink then I change pics as i dont like people going on old pics.

Profile if it needs changing

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?

You first!

Very attractive. "

Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I think my profile is honest about what I'm looking but I'm not sure what else it says about me or how it comes across to others. I get lots of messages saying people like it but I think that's probably a generic message most men send out.

My favourite pictures to take are usually just lingerie and dresses. I keep it pretty simple I suppose. "

I find your profile very attractive and genuine. You have a beautiful body - don't apologise for not being "perfect", there's no such thing! You are the perfect you.

Mrs TMN x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I don't know what my profile style is. An objective opinion is always welcome

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

You do it very well. We are similar with photos

Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!

Ha, not for long. Mr has a good eye. You like the profile then? We have wondered if it's a bit full on. We are pretty straight-talking. X"

Yeah, great profile. I don’t find it boring at all. Maybe a bit too much text for some, but I like it. And your photos are FAR from boring.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?

Reflection exercise I guess.

I really like how your profile is written _naswingdress. I think it shows a lot of your personality and tells people about what kind of person you are.

I really don't like short profiles with nothing but hello I'm Bob looking for fun etc but each to their own. "

Her profile has a voice, doesn’t it? Difficult to write.

Your profile is great too. Your humour and oddballness shines through.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"A “can’t be arsed” style springs to mind re mine."

Ditto. I *could* take and use better photos as a friend kindly points out to me often.

I *could* market myself really well but right now I have no need or desire to. People I like find me anyway. I'm probably going for the ironic millennial I don't care style of profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being vague. I dont like offering a menu of myself or what Im after which I know probably isn't terribly helpful.

Whimsical I guess, which will either be endearing or annoying in equal measures. I dont get many messages anymore

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

My pictures, I'm very much going for quirky and teasing. You get enough of an idea of my body from it without me showing more. "

Love your profile - it gives a really good sense of who you are and what you want. Love the teasing pics too x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

You do it very well. We are similar with photos

Very kind, thank you. Your profile.. woah. You’re on page 3, for goodness sake!

Ha, not for long. Mr has a good eye. You like the profile then? We have wondered if it's a bit full on. We are pretty straight-talking. X

Yeah, great profile. I don’t find it boring at all. Maybe a bit too much text for some, but I like it. And your photos are FAR from boring."

Thank you. We've talked about cutting it down but prefer to have our cards on the table from the start, rather than chatting to people then finding out we're not after the same things. If folk can't read the whole thing - they're probably not for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine reflects my forthright non pc nature. I make no apologies for what some have termed my 'racist exclusion' of one particular ethnic group.

My photos are risque and deemed offensive by some, but this is serious business and my profile is a statement to how important sleeping with as many women as possible is to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?

You first!

Very attractive.

Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic

Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A “can’t be arsed” style springs to mind re mine."
omg you have a pic dated 2014 and you were wrong I read profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short and sweet like me

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Lacking substance or any great depth; simple in design, with the fat trimmed off, blunt and to the point....

... Its perfectly representative of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for amusing. It amused me while I wrote it and I've not been bothered to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you aim for when you (re)write your profile? What kinds of pictures do you like to take?

Reflection exercise I guess. "

I try to come across as a wicked gentleman in my profile text. At the moment as I am feeling filthy I I’m showing everything. I guess my profile changes with my mood

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

"Take a look!"

I like looking

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?

You first!

Very attractive.

Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic

Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer"

Ha ha! Feel free to give a more expansive answer then...Or just learn to live with the guilt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my black and white pics and I think my text is informative and to the point. Suits me fine

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I hope that is portrays friendliness and that I like my privacy and that I don’t like rude and crude.

Judging by my messages, it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.

Ask for the photos, well i must say that i don't put much thought into them. I just hold the camera and take the pic. Im not really one for filters and editing. I want the majority of the pics to be a honest image of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine pretty much says the type of guy that i am physically wanting to attract. Someone who is interested in being a mate as well as having a fun time with. The text gives and indication of the kind of person that i am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you talk nonsense???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you talk nonsense??? "
yeah thats my job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope that is portrays friendliness and that I like my privacy and that I don’t like rude and crude.

Judging by my messages, it works

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I hope that is portrays friendliness and that I like my privacy and that I don’t like rude and crude.

Judging by my messages, it works

Thanks Taff x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope that is portrays friendliness and that I like my privacy and that I don’t like rude and crude.

Judging by my messages, it works

Thanks Taff x "
my pleasure lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you talk nonsense??? yeah thats my job

And squatting to take a dump by the look of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you talk nonsense??? yeah thats my job

And squatting to take a dump by the look of things

no no no its my flasher pose in the garden

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My profile text has barely changed (odd tweak aside) since I first wrote it and has served me well - think it pretty much sums me up in as small a nutshell as I could manage, and covers both who I am and what I am looking for in a pretty non-generic way.

I add pics from time to time when I get inspiration and looking through them they mostly follow a few set themes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines just as daft as me

..I’ve gone for black and white photos for a while, so I’m not really sure what it says about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy pics..

Well apart from the last one

Highbrow humour i guess is the writing style..

Tbh no fecker evet reads it so might as well leave it blank

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Classy pics..

Well apart from the last one

Highbrow humour i guess is the writing style..

Tbh no fecker evet reads it so might as well leave it blank

Oh I don't know I saw the last one and said "oooh that's class"

Actually all joking aside, it's a little "out there" for you but I still think it's a good picture that isn't too dissimilar in style from your others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly and approachable, yet managing to get over a message about what I'm not after

I get very few messages, so either I'm a munter or those I seek are looking for different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Classy pics..

Well apart from the last one

Highbrow humour i guess is the writing style..

Tbh no fecker evet reads it so might as well leave it blank

Oh I don't know I saw the last one and said "oooh that's class"

Actually all joking aside, it's a little "out there" for you but I still think it's a good picture that isn't too dissimilar in style from your others"

It's not too 'in your face' for the subject matter... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine used to be all sweetness and loveliness. It’s gradually got more specific and to the point over time, in fact I probably sound like a right bitch but I’m actually not. It’s probably cut down the messages a little but still half the people obviously don’t bother reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines uninteresting devoid of humour but seems to work, who'd have thought

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

Mean moody and magnificent lol. I’m a sucker for a noir filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?

You first!

Very attractive.

Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic

Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer

Ha ha! Feel free to give a more expansive answer then...Or just learn to live with the guilt?"

There are both in your pictures and words many items which would wet anybody’s appetite. Sexy and confident, you two seem to know what you do and what you want.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Ours hasn’t changed in ages and probably could do with some tweaks here and there. As far as pics go, I just mess around change them about as I fancy for no particular reason. Depends on my mood.

It probably says minge unhinged in that case

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm it's well erm er long but jolly and I've been told the pictures are good

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Take a look!

Oh, I have...

Mrs TMN x

And ? What’s my style ?

You first!

Very attractive.

Thank you. Your profile is v well written and intriguing - you come across and confident and comfortable with yourself. Photos are tasteful and erotic

Thanks. Now I feel bad with my 2 words answer

Ha ha! Feel free to give a more expansive answer then...Or just learn to live with the guilt?

There are both in your pictures and words many items which would wet anybody’s appetite. Sexy and confident, you two seem to know what you do and what you want."

Guilt assuaged

Thanks, that's what we were aiming for! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terms of the text, I'm looking to meet people I can engage with mentally as well as bodily, so I want to give a sense of how I think as well as what I like sexually. Ultimately a lot of people probably just look at pictures and don't read text, so anyone who is prepared to read all my profile deserves at least a response

In terms of photographs...I'm not naturally photogenic and I'm rubbish at finding flattering angles so I have some to give an idea of what I'm like, but really I'm hoping people find a mental connection which they find attractive.

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