FabSwingers.com forum: Long term online friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have been speaking to someone on fab over the last 18 months. I would consider him a close friend. we have cammed and speak for hours most nights.

He wants us to finally meet after asking me for ages, but I have been nervous because like with most friendships either online or not, sex spoils it.

The thing I find daunting as well as the friendship thing is the fact he is a beautiful young man lol. Like one of those gym, love island guys and I am just a mum who forgot where the gym is and I like pizza too much lol. But I am confident on meets (Can be chicken before but am ok while meeting) and I'm not gonna let it put me off from meeting him

feeling lucky actually!

Just wanted to be real and know what to expect and hear people's success and not so successful stories about if this has happened to you and how it went. How's your friendship now?

Thanks

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

If you already have a great friendship meeting up won't spoil it. Having sex could I guess but surely you would only felt right and comfortable so shouldn't be an issue

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Or look at it another way, meeting up could enhance what you already have.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If you’re friends then surely there wouldn’t be any expectation of sex? Just meet up, see how it goes and take things from there. No pressure. Just enjoy.

And your figure is gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you're meeting up to socialise and bring your online friendship to real life then it will be absolutely fine and wonderful. I do think if you add sex into the mix, it could change things a little. But it doesn't mean bad change, it could enhance and make your friendship even better.

Good luck. I've seen your photos and I think you're gorgeous! He's lucky

you'll be even better in the flesh ^ . ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a splendid lovely lady Lucy and a good chum too. I am sure he will be captivated with your company .

It will be fine , we all get nervous when we meet people we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or look at it another way, meeting up could enhance what you already have.

Yes, this

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Friends in this kind of environment can just have sex as another component to the relationship, I think.

Don't be nervous, go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've cammed he knows what you look like. Don't worry.

One man I met online- utter disaster. Still causing me issues now years later. Lesson learned, trust my gut.

Another man I met online- a fabulous friend who can ground me in just a few words. Bussy is awesome.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

It’s amazing how different things can be in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are high he'll be nervous too. Sounds like you're both caring and thoughtful people. I hope you both have fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if he cares about your friendship as much as you do, it will be fine. Relax and enjoy whatever happens. Keep talking openly with each other and you’ll continue to have a fabulous friendship with benefits or not.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I made a friend last year on fab. Unfortunately shes had a few issues recently and has been available to talk to. I miss my friend

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

You've been talking for a year, he knows exactly what you look like.

He obviously likes you, for being you.

Go for it!

From my own experience.

I chatted with someone for a year before our diaries aligned & we arranged to meet.

I was attracted to him mentally, intellectually, I knew I found him physically attractive.

But I had no idea how I & of course he, would really feel until we actually met.

Was I nervous before? Think terrified was a better word!

I nearhy backed out, I got myself so wound up. Even on the train there, I was thinking "What if he hates he" "oh, just get on the next train back"

I didn't.

And I'm bloody glad I didn't.

I had an amazing evening, and 15mths later, he's still one of my best friends.

If you don't try OP, you'll always be left wondering

Go on.... Do it xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or look at it another way, meeting up could enhance what you already have.

I hope so, not in a romantic way but just make us closer?

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your a splendid lovely lady Lucy and a good chum too. I am sure he will be captivated with your company .

It will be fine , we all get nervous when we meet people we like

Thanks Taff

I hope he is!

big cwtches! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've cammed he knows what you look like. Don't worry.

One man I met online- utter disaster. Still causing me issues now years later. Lesson learned, trust my gut.

Another man I met online- a fabulous friend who can ground me in just a few words. Bussy is awesome.

Yay! A success story

thats lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink. "

Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s amazing how different things can be in person.

In a good or bad way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.

Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles

And it shows that he won't be able to cumalot according the Xabarto's theory.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Go for it OP. I seriously doubt it’ll damage the friendship. Eighteen months is a long time, if he didn’t really like you it would have fizzled out by now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.

Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles

And it shows that he won't be able to cumalot according the Xabarto's theory. "

Ok I googled it and I'm fucking baffled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"During the meet check the way he drinks his drink.

Through a straw in his nostril isn't good let me tell you, especially if he starts blowing bubbles

And it shows that he won't be able to cumalot according the Xabarto's theory.

Ok I googled it and I'm fucking baffled

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