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By * Lexi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

stockport

Do you feel you need one?

Are you a multiple meeter?

Do you put all your eggs in one basket?

Are you honest with the people your talking to with your intentions?

Personally I will never put all my eggs in one basket until like someone proves worthy of this.

I love going on socials and meeting new people. I’ve been told I need a fab diary which I’m actually considering.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

If I had one it would mostly be blank pages, tho the ones that had detail would be a fun read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol op is this your way of telling us you're really popular and get lots of meets

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I do have a FAB diary, it's intermingled with my life diary... i dont have meets, but loads of socials and stuff with FAB friends... shocking memory means I need to keep tabs on myself

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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What do you mean by "with your intentions"?

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By * Lexi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

stockport


"Lol op is this your way of telling us you're really popular and get lots of meets "

They are like buses

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By * Lexi x OP   Woman
over a year ago

stockport


"What do you mean by "with your intentions"? "

What you want the outcome to be.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lots of fab ‘goings ons’ intermingled with my normal calendar! Mostly parties and organised events that we go to with different fab friends!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I tend to focus on just one or two people at a time, and have occasional chats with others. If I was chatting away to all the people I like the look of I'd lose track. And I don't have the time to meet them all!

I don't really have intentions or an outcome that I'm aiming for as such, I just let things evolve naturally and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m really stupid. Flirt loads but go cus on one at a time- often a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel you need one?

Are you a multiple meeter?

Do you put all your eggs in one basket?

Are you honest with the people your talking to with your intentions?

Personally I will never put all my eggs in one basket until like someone proves worthy of this.

I love going on socials and meeting new people. I’ve been told I need a fab diary which I’m actually considering.

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I don’t need a diary

I am open about my intentions. I think it is important and does prevent being at cross-purposes. Being clear early on is really helpful because it changes the nature of conversations.

I am working on building a few good conversations as I don’t have the time for too many, but I love meeting people in one-to-one settings or small groups, either socially as friends or with a view to something more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Do I need a fab diary? Yes, because I love diaries so any excuse is good enough. I like going on socials so one could be handy.

I don't know what a multiple meeter is - meeting people multiple times? More than one person in a short time frame? But whatever it is, I'm probably not.

I'm clear about what I hope would happen if I have a clear idea about what I would like to. Most of the time I have no idea what I *really* want to.

I don't understand the eggs in one basket analogy applied to here, apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I dont need one, as it would be empty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol op is this your way of telling us you're really popular and get lots of meets

They are like buses "
you wait hours then 30 cum all at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol op is this your way of telling us you're really popular and get lots of meets

They are like buses you wait hours then 30 cum all at once"

No that’s a bukkake

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I “chat” to many but focus on one, meet wise, especially if the chemistry is good.

I get a lot of “chatters” rather than “meet now” types. Which works for me and works well.

I’m fairly open and honest on here. I’m just looking for one man to sex up often.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No as it has to fit round family life, kids activities and work and leisure. Can't see it overtaking any of those in the near future.

Jo x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

If you're a woman on fab and you enjoy and are keen on meeting people you may very well need one

Doesn't work that way for the majority of us men. We consider ourselves fortunate when we get a social or more.

I'm very upfront about my intentions for being on fab and what I expect and look for. I think its best to be transparent from the outset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to get caught up in the excitement of meeting someone so I focus on one at a time.

I like chatting to others too though, that's the thing about being up here and using the forums, most of the people you get chatting to are hundreds of miles away so it's rarely more than chatting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you're a woman on fab and you enjoy and are keen on meeting people you may very well need one

Doesn't work that way for the majority of us men. We consider ourselves fortunate when we get a social or more.

I'm very upfront about my intentions for being on fab and what I expect and look for. I think its best to be transparent from the outset."

It's hard sometimes to avoid the jealousy thing. I play my cards close to my chest re my diary and intentions most of the time, having learned that being completely open is unwise.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Someone's explained the eggs in one basket thing so I get it now. Thanks S.

Erm, I tend to only talk to a couple of people at a time with a view to meeting them. I talk to lots of people because I'm a talkative sort but generally it's difficult for me to maintain the chat I want before I meet with more than one. Most of the time I'm a bit too nervous about suggesting meeting so it's just waffle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

No

Yes usually

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally talking to two or 3 people at a time with a view to meeting and no priority meet whichever one is free when we want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol op is this your way of telling us you're really popular and get lots of meets

They are like buses you wait hours then 30 cum all at once

No that’s a bukkake"

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Only usually for social events, as I normally attend quite a few around Ireland and also pop over to the UK for the MLS. When I am meeting, I tend to have just 1 or 2 semi-regular meets... Guys I've made a good connection with who are on my own wavelength. I've learned not to put my eggs in one basket unless someone really proves worthy, as those baskets can be fickle things lol, and just when you think you've found a good one they'll vanish or they'll get distracted by other eggs. Right now I'm very happy with my basket... It's a damn fine one

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Someone's explained the eggs in one basket thing so I get it now. Thanks S.

Erm, I tend to only talk to a couple of people at a time with a view to meeting them. I talk to lots of people because I'm a talkative sort but generally it's difficult for me to maintain the chat I want before I meet with more than one. Most of the time I'm a bit too nervous about suggesting meeting so it's just waffle. "

Meli take the “bull by the horns” and suggest meeting up, what have you got to lose ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a woman that uses a spreadsheet for meets...

Lots of tick boxes... good kisser, name, height... size... all sorts...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

For me I don’t have a separate diary but yes meets go in the diary, as I don’t get much free time and well they are normally booked at least a month in advance.

All my eggs in one basket, definitely not at the moment. I meet who I wish to meet when I can and also talk to others, some just general matter and others with the possibility of maybe down the line it will happen.

I’m quite clear with all that they need to be patient to find a matching date. For those I’m already scheduled to meet, I’m also open that I’m meeting others

Those I’m meeting we are normally in daily contact prior to the meet, helps build the connection and then swap messages afterwards. For those you wish to see again, it will naturally happen as part of the communication others it just fizzles out and we touch base with the odd hi, how’s you.

Fab life is an ever changing world, but life out of here will always take priority.

I will say though there is one I’m honoured to call my friend and can’t see that changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I don’t have a separate diary but yes meets go in the diary, as I don’t get much free time and well they are normally booked at least a month in advance.

All my eggs in one basket, definitely not at the moment. I meet who I wish to meet when I can and also talk to others, some just general matter and others with the possibility of maybe down the line it will happen.

I’m quite clear with all that they need to be patient to find a matching date. For those I’m already scheduled to meet, I’m also open that I’m meeting others

Those I’m meeting we are normally in daily contact prior to the meet, helps build the connection and then swap messages afterwards. For those you wish to see again, it will naturally happen as part of the communication others it just fizzles out and we touch base with the odd hi, how’s you.

Fab life is an ever changing world, but life out of here will always take priority.

I will say though there is one I’m honoured to call my friend and can’t see that changing"

Nice! Enjoyed reading that. Makes sense

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"For me I don’t have a separate diary but yes meets go in the diary, as I don’t get much free time and well they are normally booked at least a month in advance.

All my eggs in one basket, definitely not at the moment. I meet who I wish to meet when I can and also talk to others, some just general matter and others with the possibility of maybe down the line it will happen.

I’m quite clear with all that they need to be patient to find a matching date. For those I’m already scheduled to meet, I’m also open that I’m meeting others

Those I’m meeting we are normally in daily contact prior to the meet, helps build the connection and then swap messages afterwards. For those you wish to see again, it will naturally happen as part of the communication others it just fizzles out and we touch base with the odd hi, how’s you.

Fab life is an ever changing world, but life out of here will always take priority.

I will say though there is one I’m honoured to call my friend and can’t see that changing

Nice! Enjoyed reading that. Makes sense "

Thanks... I do sometimes ramble haha

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