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Can you meet someone from a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been talking everyday to a man i met on a sex site for 8 months, we have recently met and it was amazing, so much so that we are considering going into a relationship and giving meeting other people up.

Do you think this could work? is it possible to meet and have a normal relationship that started on a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah of course it is, but you need trust or it probs wont work !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We do

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like any relationship, if you try hard and are happy then it works. It depends also if you intend to still play with others? and if so are you both happy with this?

Good luck xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There will be no playing with others, he is happy for me to stay on here to chat and i trust him. We are quite realistic about things just dont want to go into something that may not work..

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By *stwoforfun2Couple
over a year ago

South Suffolk Area

Yes, it absolutely can work. It's no different to giving up your freedom as a so called vanilla single is it. It's down to how much you want something, or someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" just dont want to go into something that may not work.."

if you dont try you will never find out,

the very best of luck and really hope it works out for both of you.

awwww , i love a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is a new relatioship then you need time for that relationship to blossom without others and to build foundations if you are both honest with what both of you want then go for it and good luck.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

dont be afraid of what might be, just be excited.....

good luck to you both

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you never get any guarantees for any relationship, even if people (strangers on the internet) tell you it could work or not.

Trust your own instincts. If it feels right, go for it! It's great that you have met someone special, so enjoy it!

All the best to you two!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can work if u both want it to, andif u still want fun but not willing to meet just plat on the cams, good luck 2 u both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it can work .. so why not give it a go x Best of luck hope it works out for you both xx

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

i once thought i met someone special, but i was in front of a mirror.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you meet someone from a sex site ?

Is nt that why we are here .

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Finding someone special can happen anywhere. It's all about being attracted to each other, being honest and developing trust - the same in any relationship.

Only thing you have to get straight is the answer to the inevitable question of 'so, where did you two meet then?'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes i think it is possible, there are a lot on here that will testify to that.

What i dont think you can do is come on a swingers site just looking for the right person as so many just want nsa.

But it does work and good luck to youxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a risk of meeting someone you click and hit it off with to the extent that you want them all to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be totally honest i wouldnt have a relationship with someone i met off here, but i know many who have, some its worked for some it hasnt, like anything in life i guess

If its what you want them go for it, what have you got to loose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd follow most peoples advice... shag me first, just in case we click even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite possible to have a normal relationship after meeting on a sex site

I personally know two couples who were singles that met through fab forums they were all regular forum posters

They are now no longer on site and living a very happy life

(im still in occasional contact with one set and they are loving it)

Could i give it up? or would i expect someone to give it up for me?

No personally not

I hope it all goes well for you both and wish you every future happiness xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regret the things you haven,t done babe.. not the things you have.. Go for it... Good luck and keep us all informed !!! xx Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pessimist in me says that yes you can develop a monogomous relationship with someone you met on a sex site but go in with your eyes wide open because if you are living miles apart you have no way of knowing if the other is keeping to the bargain. A lot of men don't like their partner shagging other men whilst he is happy to continue putting it about. What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't grieve over.

Be wary, and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you're honest about how you feel, what you want and what you want from the relationship then the fact you met here shouldn't matter. There are couples out there who meet "normally" and break up after a few weeks!

Good luck to you. Wish you well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding someone special can happen anywhere. It's all about being attracted to each other, being honest and developing trust - the same in any relationship.

Only thing you have to get straight is the answer to the inevitable question of 'so, where did you two meet then?' "

Was it in front of a nice open fire?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been talking everyday to a man i met on a sex site for 8 months, we have recently met and it was amazing, so much so that we are considering going into a relationship and giving meeting other people up.

Do you think this could work? is it possible to meet and have a normal relationship that started on a sex site?"

It's how me and Jen met... never looked back!

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By *laggieWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Whatever..IF you're both happy..then go for it !!

All my best wishes.

( one word of caution - did he give up a relationship to get into your life ?..

- if so, be very wary.) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were both free and single and havent rushed anything, thanks everyone for your advice, we are going to give it a shot, and see how it goes. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just go for it

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