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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently had a couple the deal was the male to leave us together so she enjoys herself with me and me her obviously then she goes back and tells him how and what we did,his way ok.Goes ahead then the male kicks off that she enjoyed it, fucking prick my point is if you are unsure about sharing your Mrs don't bother, be a man and let her enjoy herself if you can't deliver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people really don’t know how they’re going to feel until it’s done.

No point in slagging him off - how was he to know?

And how do you know he can’t please her?

You got a shag out of it, don’t be so ungrateful

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Quite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people really don’t know how they’re going to feel until it’s done.

No point in slagging him off - how was he to know?

And how do you know he can’t please her?

You got a shag out of it, don’t be so ungrateful "
wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very mature attitude op

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Some people really don’t know how they’re going to feel until it’s done.

No point in slagging him off - how was he to know?

And how do you know he can’t please her?

You got a shag out of it, don’t be so ungrateful wtf"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very mature attitude op "
why don't you agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit disrespectful to bring it public and slate the husband. You don't know them or their relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit disrespectful to bring it public and slate the husband. You don't know them or their relationship. "
I do known for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit disrespectful to bring it public and slate the husband. You don't know them or their relationship. I do known for years"

Doesn’t mean you know their relationship. No one other than them themselves will truly know what their relationship is like

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By *musedforlifeMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Some people really don’t know how they’re going to feel until it’s done.

No point in slagging him off - how was he to know?

And how do you know he can’t please her?

You got a shag out of it, don’t be so ungrateful "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit disrespectful to bring it public and slate the husband. You don't know them or their relationship. I do known for years"

In that case that's worse where is the trust and respect for others private affairs .. Glad your not my friend

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

So basically what you are saying OP, is that you shagged somebody elses's missus and he got a strop on?

Bravo, what a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the response you expected OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit disrespectful to bring it public and slate the husband. You don't know them or their relationship. "

True. This would be terrible for her hubby to hear.

Have a heart man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically what you are saying OP, is that you shagged somebody elses's missus and he got a strop on?

Bravo, what a guy "
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the response you expected OP? "
response is irrelevant just stating a fact some men can't handle it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit disrespectful to bring it public and slate the husband. You don't know them or their relationship.

True. This would be terrible for her hubby to hear.

Have a heart man. "
not like that really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the response you expected OP? response is irrelevant just stating a fact some men can't handle it"

Yes, some men can’t. And that’s okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the response you expected OP? response is irrelevant just stating a fact some men can't handle it"

You're right, they can't.

I think people are just pointing out its jot very nice to slate someone on a public forum about something so personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So basically what you are saying OP, is that you shagged somebody elses's missus and he got a strop on?

Bravo, what a guy lol "

Not funny OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people really don’t know how they’re going to feel until it’s done.

No point in slagging him off - how was he to know?

And how do you know he can’t please her?

You got a shag out of it, don’t be so ungrateful "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you change your profile name, doesn't make you king cuck

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just because you change your profile name, doesn't make you king cuck"
it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair! The husband knows what swinging is? But maybe he didn't know until it happened. Everyone's fucked by the sound of it! Hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically what you are saying OP, is that you shagged somebody elses's missus and he got a strop on?

Bravo, what a guy lol

Not funny OP "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people really don’t know how they’re going to feel until it’s done.

No point in slagging him off - how was he to know?

And how do you know he can’t please her?

You got a shag out of it, don’t be so ungrateful "

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

Bit of an own goal,there OP I think your attitude will have not done your image any good with other couples on here

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I recently had a couple the deal was the male to leave us together so she enjoys herself with me and me her obviously then she goes back and tells him how and what we did,his way ok.Goes ahead then the male kicks off that she enjoyed it, fucking prick my point is if you are unsure about sharing your Mrs don't bother, be a man and let her enjoy herself if you can't deliver "

She may have enjoyed herself however the hubby didn't end of!

It's not nice for the couple to slate them on the forums, let's hope they don't read then.

It's also a good filter to those that do.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Not the response you expected OP? response is irrelevant just stating a fact some men can't handle it"

I think the response you got would have been somewhat different had you of worded your OP a little differently and more sympathetically to the gentleman concerned - and even then the discretion angle would be questionable.

Some guys may think they're ok with seeing or knowing their partner is with someone else but until they actually do so they can't know for sure, and maybe that was the case here. It actually takes a lot of guts to be able to do so, and not find it strange, or be a little affected by it - in fact for some it can be complete anguish, even for guys who have a regular Hotwife scenario part of the thrill is knowing they will go through that anguish.

So to slate this guy for getting upset when push came to shove is not particularly fair at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd best not let you shag my missus then, innit...

Steve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of an own goal,there OP I think your attitude will have not done your image any good with other couples on here "
love threads like these their a great filter

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Nice to see that respect and integrity hasn’t been forgotten in the world of swinging

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wow.

Maybe he realised they made a bad call by choosing someone so cunting disrespectful to their relationship and that's the real reason he kicked off.

I'd be fucked off if B enjoyed spending time with someone who clearly had no fucking respect for me.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people here have long memories too OP, bear that in mind when you next feel like exercising indiscretion.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Just wow.

Maybe he realised they made a bad call by choosing someone so cunting disrespectful to their relationship and that's the real reason he kicked off.

I'd be fucked off if B enjoyed spending time with someone who clearly had no fucking respect for me.

P"

Best, and by best I mean worst of it is, the OP seems to think it's hysterically funny.

It's an eye roller for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wow.

Maybe he realised they made a bad call by choosing someone so cunting disrespectful to their relationship and that's the real reason he kicked off.

I'd be fucked off if B enjoyed spending time with someone who clearly had no fucking respect for me.

P

Best, and by best I mean worst of it is, the OP seems to think it's hysterically funny.

It's an eye roller for sure. "

I've got warped humour and I'm disgusted

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently had a couple the deal was the male to leave us together so she enjoys herself with me and me her obviously then she goes back and tells him how and what we did,his way ok.Goes ahead then the male kicks off that she enjoyed it, fucking prick my point is if you are unsure about sharing your Mrs don't bother, be a man and let her enjoy herself if you can't deliver "

Did you spend all that time pumping your body up just so you could gob off on the internet?

Seems a waste to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently had a couple the deal was the male to leave us together so she enjoys herself with me and me her obviously then she goes back and tells him how and what we did,his way ok.Goes ahead then the male kicks off that she enjoyed it, fucking prick my point is if you are unsure about sharing your Mrs don't bother, be a man and let her enjoy herself if you can't deliver "

Just stumbled across this thread and have to say that you actually have a point OP, at least to start with, but the way you deliver it changes it dramatically and you come across as callous, disrespectful and pig ignorant.

If you'd said this;

"I recently had a couple the deal was the male to leave us together so she enjoys herself with me and me her obviously then she goes back and tells him how and what we did,his way ok.Goes ahead then the male kicks off that she enjoyed it, my point is if you are unsure about sharing your Mrs don't go ahead with it to start with without considering it first?"

However instead you called him a defamatory name (completely unnecessary) and made the cast iron assumption that they were merely swinging because he wasn't man enough to satisfy her (which could well be complete rubbish, P and I swing because it adds another fun naughty dynamic to our relationship. As far as sex goes we're the best sex partner each of us has, that's one big reason why we've chosen each other!)

And you made this half-arsed opinion in a public forum. I appreciate that this post was probably made fresh from heated emotion, but all it will do is to reinforce the general opinion on Fab that the husband was right to kick off as he didn't want to bring an uncaring, slow-witted lummox into their relationship. This opinion WILL be reached by practically everyone who reads this thread guaranteed, whether it has grounds or not, so if I were you I'd do yourself a favour, plead with admin to have the thread removed, and think very carefully about posting again when you're in the heat of the moment as a strop is never a good place to be in when airing your gripes.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not what you say it’s the way that you say it that counts.

Did he kick off with you or was it hearsay from her? If the latter then you have to suck it up and move on as it’s their relationship to work through not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently had a couple the deal was the male to leave us together so she enjoys herself with me and me her obviously then she goes back and tells him how and what we did,his way ok.Goes ahead then the male kicks off that she enjoyed it, fucking prick my point is if you are unsure about sharing your Mrs don't bother, be a man and let her enjoy herself if you can't deliver "
maybe that was part of the act in there head and he wants to angry fuck her after you have no clue what there relationship is we only have your word she enjoyed it dont we so its a little offside slating the guy after bet you said fuck all as he kicked off

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