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By *ndybuzz1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Would it be so wrong if i fucked my daughters best friend? Shes just turned 18 and has asked me to fuck her.

She has an amazing figure and has given an amazing bj but thats all we did so far. Now she wants me to well u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is 18 and the age of consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you value the relationship you have with your daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think OP?

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Pulls up a chair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude, you've already had a BJ, pretty sure you're way past the line of respect for your daughter at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ummmm....

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I would imagine her father would be thrilled and would shake your hand after he punched you into onlivion! Your daughter would be disgusted most probably....just my opinion

Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude, you've already had a BJ, pretty sure you're way past the line of respect for your daughter at that point."

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

May not be wrong legally but totally inappropriate morally.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Depends how much you value the relationship you have with your daughter. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be taking advantage, even though she is over the age of consent. and if your daughter finds out it may fuck up their friendship and yours with your daughter.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Why not ask your daughter.

Personally I wouldn't have any sexual contact with my kids friends no matter what age.

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By *ndybuzz1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away"

How would you feel if your best pal fucked your daughter?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away"

Bit late

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By *ndybuzz1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Thats a fair point

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's pervy even though she is old enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not ask your daughter.

Personally I wouldn't have any sexual contact with my kids friends no matter what age. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away"

You've already crossed the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go ask her dad if he would fuck your daughter and see how you feel about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how much you value the relationship you have with your daughter. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart not your cock

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

This thread is going to be fun I got the popcorn

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancied (still do tbh) the pants off my best friends dad. I wouldn’t, and would never have slept with him if I had the opportunity. Value my friendship too much. She sounds like a shit friend as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a comedy thread surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fancied (still do tbh) the pants off my best friends dad. I wouldn’t, and would never have slept with him if I had the opportunity. Value my friendship too much. She sounds like a shit friend as well. "

And I’m not even pals with her anymore!

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Go ask her dad if he would fuck your daughter and see how you feel about that. "

Exactly! And at the age of 18(although it's past the age of consent), I have never met (or indeed was) a very worldy wise young lady. Sounds like you would soon be reaping a huge amount of trouble

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mate it’s wrong on so many levels I’m 29 and 18 is too young for me what did u know at that age fuck all how many mistakes did u make a shit load she is a kid plenty of sexy women out there and I ant gonna get started on the whole daughter thing !!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When I was 18 my friends dads were invisible to me except as chauffeurs on nights out. How times have changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly is the objective of this post OP ? You say you have already crossed the line sexually with this (legal aged ) teenage girl, so obviously you have no moral dilemma about sexual contact with her. Is this post a boast ?

Cause I suspect a mid forties guy in a position of trust with a 'just turned 18' girl, bragging about her figure, her blowjob skills, and her begging you to 'you know' her....that's far to the other side of the scale from impressive in my eyes.

Maybe rethink public face pics on here for your daughter's and all her 'just turned 18' friends' sakes, as they probably wouldn't be so proud of being implicated in this scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not asking for opinions rather bragging about what you have already done.

How would you feel if your mate had fucked or given a BJ to your teen daughter?

I don't care if she is above the age of consent and asked. It's creepy and just wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I was your daughter I'd disown you. I think if I was her friends dad I'd make you wish you were never born.

Good job I'm neither.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a parent I treated my sons friends who visited exactly the same as my own child. Those young adults parents have put you in a position of trust, and you've abused it in my opinion.

P

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"As a parent I treated my sons friends who visited exactly the same as my own child. Those young adults parents have put you in a position of trust, and you've abused it in my opinion.

P"

I 100% agree.

There is no way I could even look at them in a sexual manner.

I'm paranoid about other adults around my kids.

Jo.Xx

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

You sound like a predator......just turned 18 so bj was when she was 17?....eeessshhh horrible to think your daughter's friends are being ogled by you....

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"This thread is going to be fun I got the popcorn "

Is it sweet & salty? Pass some this way if it is please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Great idea to share this on the forums Op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Follow your heart not your cock "

Feel like this is the wrong way around

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"This is a comedy thread surely.

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Or a fantasy?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS "

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ...."

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants"

Thought he wanted his daughters best pal?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants"

Called human nature love, people react to things that they see as wrong........so leave the gullible out of it either way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s got Alzheimer’s and the woman he refers to had just turned 18, 70 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

Thought he wanted his daughters best pal?"

Fuck me how many pics do you take a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

Thought he wanted his daughters best pal?

Fuck me how many pics do you take a day "

I take about 1 a month at most. But with a gorgeous body and face like mine, I really should be taking more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away"

Yes. I really don’t think your daughter will welcome this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

Called human nature love, people react to things that they see as wrong........so leave the gullible out of it either way...."

Human nature is also to realise this is a piss take and not react... Or maybe that's just me. Either way you are gullible if you believed it lol. Not saying you do before you bite my head off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

Thought he wanted his daughters best pal?

Fuck me how many pics do you take a day

I take about 1 a month at most. But with a gorgeous body and face like mine, I really should be taking more "

My maths must be wrong then as I've seen a new one everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

Thought he wanted his daughters best pal?

Fuck me how many pics do you take a day

I take about 1 a month at most. But with a gorgeous body and face like mine, I really should be taking more

My maths must be wrong then as I've seen a new one everyday "

Are you referring to the fact that I’ve changed my profile pic? It’s a few months old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As if this happened some people on here are so gullible FFS

Oh do you know what, even if it's not true the idea is wrong to some ppl so expect the posts, so gullible no ....

It's defo wrong but I don't see why people reply so seriously giving the bloke what he wants

Called human nature love, people react to things that they see as wrong........so leave the gullible out of it either way....

Human nature is also to realise this is a piss take and not react... Or maybe that's just me. Either way you are gullible if you believed it lol. Not saying you do before you bite my head off "

Even if it isn't true, there could be someone out there wondering if it's ok to make a move on their childs friend. This thread could give them food for thought

P

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Would it be so wrong if i fucked my daughters best friend? Shes just turned 18 and has asked me to fuck her.

She has an amazing figure and has given an amazing bj but thats all we did so far. Now she wants me to well u know"

You've already made a mistake by crossing a line that shouldn't have been crossed in the first place. Don't compound that mistake by taking it further. It won't end well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite no go from me but what does your gut say OP?

The gut is located slightly above the trouser belt (just for info)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It won't end well. Trust me, don't go there. I slept with my Sons friend last year. He was 23,fallout was massive for months. Just move on I suggest, its not worth the trouble it will cause with those close to you

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away

How would you feel if your best pal fucked your daughter?"

Couldn't have said it better myself!!

Av xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude, you've already had a BJ, pretty sure you're way past the line of respect for your daughter at that point."

Might as well fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread is going to be fun I got the popcorn "

Is it salted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lines should never be crossed but it appears you have no morals whatsoever op, so why stop at the blow job? Just hope when it all comes out and it will sooner or later, you have your excuses ready.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Would it be so wrong if i fucked my daughters best friend? Shes just turned 18 and has asked me to fuck her.

She has an amazing figure and has given an amazing bj but thats all we did so far. Now she wants me to well u know"

The fact that you jave to ask says that you think it would be wrong, but put your sexual desires aside for a minuit amd just think about how your daughter would feel...its not something that I personally agree with for that reason and that she is only 18...consented and old enough yes...but morally wrong

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Haha not asking the daughter!!

I dont want to ruin things with friends and family. Maybe best i stay away"

You clearly have no respect for your daughter anyway...maybe should have thought about friends and family before shoving your cock in her mouth

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"I think it's pervy even though she is old enough."

Agreed and really had to hold back on my opinion..its just disgusting actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think your ages are the issue here, as long as you’re not taking advantage of her which it doesn’t sound like you are. The issue is that it’s your daughter’s best friend so sleeping with her would be incredibly selfish and terrible parenting on your part. It says a lot about what sort of person you are that you’re even considering it actually, any responsible parent who cares about his daughter’s feelings wouldn’t even contemplate the idea. Not only would it ruin your relationship with her it would also ruin her relationship with her best friend and make her unable to trust anyone again for the rest of her life after being let down by 2 of the people she trusts most in the world.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I do love how old threads reappear.

I mean what where they searching for to find this piece of gold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if OP will give us an update on how this panned out….

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Do you want some sage advice from a 60 year old guy OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this needs to be in the stories and fantasy section.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

I bet OP had a baby with her lol

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you want some sage advice from a 60 year old guy OP? "

I think whatever he chose has already happened. The thread is over a year old. I've no idea why this has been resurrected as if he is still waiting for advice.

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester


"Do you want some sage advice from a 60 year old guy OP?

I think whatever he chose has already happened. The thread is over a year old. I've no idea why this has been resurrected as if he is still waiting for advice. "

Well she’ll have just turned 19 now. Wonder what she got for her bday?!

This scenario has ‘prince Andrew’ written all over it!

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

That's completely wrong, what if you daughter found out. It would wreck your relationship with her

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By *ayjay199xMan
over a year ago

london

Better advise… invest in property

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

How could you turn down that sweet, sweet forbidden fruit?

I’d say go for it. You can always have another daughter and have a good relationship with her. This is an opportunity many men dream of. You can’t waste that.

Do it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Legal or not I find this disgusting. Proper turned my stomach. Wish I’d not seen it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a parent I treated my sons friends who visited exactly the same as my own child. Those young adults parents have put you in a position of trust, and you've abused it in my opinion.

P

I 100% agree.

There is no way I could even look at them in a sexual manner.

I'm paranoid about other adults around my kids.

Jo.Xx

"

I don't have children, but feel the same protectiveness towards my friends kids, even when they are adults. It seems wrong on so many incomprehensible levels

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Would it be so wrong if i fucked my daughters best friend? Shes just turned 18 and has asked me to fuck her.

She has an amazing figure and has given an amazing bj but thats all we did so far. Now she wants me to well u know"

And then you woke up

*dream sequence ends*

I'm calling bullshit on this

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

For me, no. There are certain lines I just wouldn't cross. My house is a safe place for my kids' mates and that is how it'll always stay, no matter what they want.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

You got be asking yourself, how would be taking it, if it was your daughter and some old fart she may or may not (or thinks she fancys) took advantage,,????.

I suspect you wouldn't be a happy chappy then,

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Somethings in life should never be done, and that young girl was one of them. You over stepped the mark completely!

What happens when her dad finds out?

You will get lumped......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you're legally not doing anything wrong, but I'm always very wary of people like you. How long have you felt this way about her? You say she has just turned 18 so I doubt it was suddenly an attraction on that day. And the fact you would do that to your daughter too, fuck her best friend. Maybe ask your daughter and see how she feels? It's vile, I'd never look at you the same way again if I knew you. You're old enough to be her grandad.

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By *tewiethompsonMan
over a year ago

Colchester

Well this is one of several things. A potential predator bragging, a call for absolution from guilt, or a cry for help from a lonely man.

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

Have you considered investing in some time with a 'professional' lady to rid you of your urges.

But for god's sake think about the damage that can be done with messing with what is ostensibly a young adult from a position of trust.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Would it be so wrong if i fucked my daughters best friend? Shes just turned 18 and has asked me to fuck her.

She has an amazing figure and has given an amazing bj but thats all we did so far. Now she wants me to well u know"

In which magazine did you read this particular fantasy?

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Totally taboo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

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Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope this young ladies dad lets you know what he thinks of the idea. Enjoy your stay at your local NHS destination, I believe being tube fed is a nice rest for your teeth

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"I know you're legally not doing anything wrong, but I'm always very wary of people like you. How long have you felt this way about her? You say she has just turned 18 so I doubt it was suddenly an attraction on that day. And the fact you would do that to your daughter too, fuck her best friend. Maybe ask your daughter and see how she feels? It's vile, I'd never look at you the same way again if I knew you. You're old enough to be her grandad."

The fact that he asks the question means that he knows the answer.

My guess is that it is all in his head, and should stay there, and that he fantasies about her when he leers at her going curves. Been watching too many porn vids …

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous? "

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I don't believe this for a second however playing devil's advocate you could potentially ruin your relationship with your daughter. Is any sexual encounter worth that?

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By *tewiethompsonMan
over a year ago

Colchester


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all. "

Sorry some and could

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Why are people resurrecting old posts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

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Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could"

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

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over a year ago


"Why are people resurrecting old posts"

Wish this one hadn’t been resurrected, it’s grim

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?"

No we absolutely all do. Every man’s limit is different though.

Some turn murderous after a week without sex

Other take longer until they go on a killing spree

But it’s a well known fact that all men that go without sex will turn into violent deranged criminals eventually.

And the only way to that fix that is prostitution

If you can’t see that as truth then you obviously haven’t been reading the literature

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

No we absolutely all do. Every man’s limit is different though.

Some turn murderous after a week without sex

Other take longer until they go on a killing spree

But it’s a well known fact that all men that go without sex will turn into violent deranged criminals eventually.

And the only way to that fix that is prostitution

If you can’t see that as truth then you obviously haven’t been reading the literature "

Clearly.

I must ask for suggestions of suitable literature at the library.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


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Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could"

It’s ok; I knew what you meant!

It’s a very complex topic, too often reduced to over-simplistic absolutes, so thanks for exploring a nuance.

Even if such men aren’t gong to become a danger, per se, the mental benefits of an occasional encounter must be significant

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By *tewiethompsonMan
over a year ago

Colchester

I mean it was a pretty sad pub table, 3 PhD's and 2 Masters between them, I always feel like the dumb blonde among them. One of them actually wrote his Doctoral Psychology paper on just this subject. If anybody is really bored then feel free to ask and I will send you a link

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

No we absolutely all do. Every man’s limit is different though.

Some turn murderous after a week without sex

Other take longer until they go on a killing spree

But it’s a well known fact that all men that go without sex will turn into violent deranged criminals eventually.

And the only way to that fix that is prostitution

If you can’t see that as truth then you obviously haven’t been reading the literature "

Yeah, that’s exactly what the poster was suggesting, wasn’t it …

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?"

It’s not just about attacks and murders.

In op’s case, for example, might it be less harmful to himself, his daughter and an 18 year old girl if he spent half an hour down the local knocking shop instead of trying to shag a girl going enough to be his granddaughter?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

It’s not just about attacks and murders.

In op’s case, for example, might it be less harmful to himself, his daughter and an 18 year old girl if he spent half an hour down the local knocking shop instead of trying to shag a girl going enough to be his granddaughter? "

What do you suggest for the young woman who has apparently asked for sex?

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

It’s not just about attacks and murders.

In op’s case, for example, might it be less harmful to himself, his daughter and an 18 year old girl if he spent half an hour down the local knocking shop instead of trying to shag a girl going enough to be his granddaughter?

What do you suggest for the young woman who has apparently asked for sex? "

I would hope that the man in question politely declines, let’s her down gently, and suggests that she enjoy the company of guys her own age.

Failing that, I could shag her, at least I’m not her mate’s dad!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

It’s not just about attacks and murders.

In op’s case, for example, might it be less harmful to himself, his daughter and an 18 year old girl if he spent half an hour down the local knocking shop instead of trying to shag a girl going enough to be his granddaughter?

What do you suggest for the young woman who has apparently asked for sex?

I would hope that the man in question politely declines, let’s her down gently, and suggests that she enjoy the company of guys her own age.

Failing that, I could shag her, at least I’m not her mate’s dad! "

In general and leaving the ops situation out of it I'd say that a much older person should always have the best interests of any younger person they're involved with at heart.

I just wondered if women become a danger if sexually frustrated.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"

Now to be honest my buddies and I discussed this sort of thing over a beer the other week. We were discussing prostitution and the societal effects of it. One of us posited that a lonely, frustrated man 'could' become a danger to others if his sexual 'needs' were left unchecked. That escorts allow a vent to unfilled desires, well those that are working willingly anyway.

This sounds very much like taking advantage of a situation and maybe unknowingly becoming a danger.

.

Does the friend who put this theory forward really believe that sexual frustration in men leads to them becoming dangerous?

I think that a word that might clarify the theory is “some”, saying that some men need this sort of release. Clearly not all.

Sorry some and could

I think your friend was right in as much as some men could be a danger to women but I think they usually hold certain views around women or have particular 'tastes'. Ordinary straightforward men don't become dangerous because they're not getting it...do they?

It’s not just about attacks and murders.

In op’s case, for example, might it be less harmful to himself, his daughter and an 18 year old girl if he spent half an hour down the local knocking shop instead of trying to shag a girl going enough to be his granddaughter?

What do you suggest for the young woman who has apparently asked for sex?

I would hope that the man in question politely declines, let’s her down gently, and suggests that she enjoy the company of guys her own age.

Failing that, I could shag her, at least I’m not her mate’s dad!

In general and leaving the ops situation out of it I'd say that a much older person should always have the best interests of any younger person they're involved with at heart.

I just wondered if women become a danger if sexually frustrated. "

Not sure if danger is the best word. In most cases, the biggest victim of sexual frustration is the person themselves rather than anyone else being in “danger”. Murder etc are absolutely extreme outcomes, so a bit of a red herring. People don’t go from bliss to murder in one step, and just about nobody will ever get to the murder stage!

In the case of an 18 year old girl who is apparently propositioning fat blokes 30 years older and sucking their cocks … the person in the greatest amount of danger is herself if she is behaving like this. And to a lesser extent her friend and her friend’s family.

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