FabSwingers.com forum: A redo

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you could redo one day of your life, which would it be? What would you change?

Or would you just like to experience it again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.

I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.

I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives. "

Ooh good call. I'm doing that too!

Or if I could be greedy and have a whole summer, can I go back to 2005 and just relive that?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.

I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives.

Ooh good call. I'm doing that too!

Or if I could be greedy and have a whole summer, can I go back to 2005 and just relive that?!"

Oh go on then, cause I like yah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.

I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives. "

id pick our wedding day aswell. wouldnt have most of my family there for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would redo my wedding day...and run the fuck away before it happened

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'd redo my birth, maybe then I wont have to deal with the shit show known as life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d redo my wedding day. Speak my mind, invite who I wanted, do it our way and not listen to anyone else.

I’d also get more family photos with loved ones. I got loads with immediate family, but only a couple with other relatives.

id pick our wedding day aswell. wouldnt have most of my family there for a start

You got that right buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would redo my wedding day...and run the fuck away before it happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd redo my birth, maybe then I wont have to deal with the shit show known as life

noooooo!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I'd redo my birth, maybe then I wont have to deal with the shit show known as life

noooooo!"

Trust me, it's no loss. I'm as average as they come

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

None, every day of my life being a good or bad defines me as I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it would of been the final day I saw the girlfriend, instead of going home early to get ready for work the next day I should of stayed at hers and kept her company. Could of still been with her maybe.

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester

When I was young (many moons ago) I was staying at a hotel for my first conference I was attending for work by myself. I was in the hotel for five days and you get to recognise other conference goers and people visiting the hotel for use of the spa etc. On my last night I was in the lift on the way up to my room and a couple whom I'd spotted were friendly and not shy with each other also entered the lift. As soon as the door closed they were kissing and fondling each other. I didn't know what to do and an embarrassed late teenager just watched in the mirrored walls before exiting the lift in my floor.

I've often wondered what if?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

9th Feb 2019. Fucked up big time and lost a right good friend

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited."

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

I’d still include the nap though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day my daughter was born. I'd like to live that day on repeat forever if possible? She passed away and I never got to see the person she would've become so I wouldn't be holding her back by just having that day over and over.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

I’d still include the nap though "

. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The day my daughter was born. I'd like to live that day on repeat forever if possible? She passed away and I never got to see the person she would've become so I wouldn't be holding her back by just having that day over and over. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

I’d still include the nap though

. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that"

I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

I’d still include the nap though

. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that

I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much"

That's basically shame. The pressure to do things everyone else's way is immense. It was even worse 32 years ago. Our mum's wanted all sorts of people involved. We made some unpopular choices but have never regretted them. My only genuine regret is not arranging to gallop away from the ceremony on matching jet black horses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

I’d still include the nap though

. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that

I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much

I wanted owls to deliver our rings and we didn’t do it. Biggest regret

And that was the same for us. His family wanted everyone invited, he had so many people from his family there that neither of us wanted there. We had his brother an usher because I thought it would help ‘heal the rift’ (beyond repair, even by this point!) and it just made everything worse. I remember his brother changed out of his kilt into normal clothing and I was fuming - his dad turned to me and said ‘oh shut up and sit down. it’s not all about you’

Ermmmm. Yes it is hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I'd give up my day for you to have that. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A summer afternoon in a grey talbo

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Do your wedding again the way you want it. I did 25 yrs later. I hated my wedding, it was everything I didn’t want it to be. I don’t like being centre of attention. So when we renewed our vows we walked to the top of a mountain with the 2 kids and my sons girlfriend. Met a celebrant at the top and had a handfasting ceremony with our own vows and the kids readings by the side of a tarn on a beautiful sunny morning with no one else around. It was perfect.

As an aside, I vowed to occasionally hoot like an owl in bed and we did come down the mountain and see loads of owls and get photographs with them. So owls are optional extras

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'd redo our wedding day too. I can't remember it properly because I was so excited.

I remember sneaking off with C for a power nap because we hadn’t had any time alone all day and I was exhausted.

I’d do everything so differently

I’d still include the nap though

. I don't think I'd do much differently. We had a very small wedding and I wouldn't change that

I’d have a small wedding. We had a big wedding and tried to include everyone. Wish we hadn’t bothered, we both regret it so much

I wanted owls to deliver our rings and we didn’t do it. Biggest regret

Ermmmm. Yes it is hun x"

Oh dear. Weddings and funerals bring out the worst in families

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'd redo a day out with dad road tripping. I'd give anything, I miss him.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If you could redo one day of your life, which would it be? What would you change?

Or would you just like to experience it again?"

Our wedding day it was perfect, but I'd love to do it all again.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go see me mum the day she died. I might have been able to stop her ending it.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could redo one day of your life, which would it be? What would you change?

Or would you just like to experience it again?"

I wouldn't have got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd redo the dates of long weekend break overseas years back now, so I could have held my mum's hand when she passed away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

June 1990...Ibiza so I could find out what the fuck happened to my trousers and why I woke up on the couch in reception of the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kaunas, Lithuania, August 14th 1998.

The reason will stay mine.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

My Divorce.... The best day ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Divorce.... The best day ever.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Oh to visit my nana and turning up with my dad who I hadn’t talked to or seen for 8 years. She didn’t know we were back in touch and working things out.... she died 2 hours before we got there

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

April 15th 2015

I'd give anything to be able to go back to that day, and be able to stay goodbye to my daddy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"April 15th 2015

I'd give anything to be able to go back to that day, and be able to stay goodbye to my daddy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go back to the day before Mom died and I'd of walked out of work instead of staying till the end of my shift. At least then I'd of spoken to her before she slipped into her coma

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I was going to say that I’d go back to a few years before dad died of prostate cancer and tell him to get checked out! That way they may have caught it in time and I’d still have my lovely Dad!

However - though he died as soon as he retired - he still spent over 45 years with the love of his life - my mum - so I’d give my day to Rubi to give her an extra day with her baby - because losing a child must be the hardest of all pains to bear - and my biggest wish is that I never find out what that’s like!

Huge hugs to Rubi and anyone else who’s lost a child! I salute you for having the courage to get out of bed each day! Xxx

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