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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hows fab changed you as a person & whats the biggest personal change?

For me its given me a boost in body confidence i never had before joining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal confidence that has helped me in all aspects of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s changed my life in that it’s given me a sex life and I’ve made so genuine friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have very little confidence but in certain situations its helped a lot sorry bit hard to explain what i mean really

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

It’s opened the door to hidden kinks I never even knew I had -

having the conversations before a meet to explore boundaries and limits is truly liberating, being asked to learn new skills and then putting them to use is simply enthralling.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P"

Pretty much this - well apart from the snatch bit obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have very little confidence but in certain situations its helped a lot sorry bit hard to explain what i mean really"
and ive also made some awesome friends even if there's some i will never get to meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not really changed my life... its enhanced it a bit though and put me in touch with some lovely people

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P"

So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It allowed me to get back to living after a very dark time, which evolved into amazing friendships and a renewed sense of self. Then stumbled across Steve who I’d never have met in my normal life.. so yes.. it’s been pretty epic

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal confidence has got better than it was....Plus I get a sex life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to see Its looking all positive... i didnt really know what to expect, im not a swinger as such & dont sleep about with multiple partners (not that theres anything wrong with this before i get a backlash) but have found what im after here and have found a great welcoming community.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I think I'm still pretty much the same person, I've just become a bit more understanding and open minded regarding people's preferences and kinks.

Plus I've.met some lovely people and good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first it made me worse because it was so hard to meet someone, I seemed to not be anyones type but as time went on I got speaking to a few people and I began to easy into it abit so my confidence is growing a little,

I ain't been in for long but I've spoke to lots of lovely people,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P

Pretty much this - well apart from the snatch bit obviously "

You could always tuck it like Buffalo Bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P

So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen."

Same here.

I was just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I caught the midnight train and met my city boy.

Moral of this .... don't stop believing

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P

So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen.

Same here.

I was just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I caught the midnight train and met my city boy.

Moral of this .... don't stop believing

P"

I like what you did there, class song

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

It’s been a crazy few months.

I’ve definitely grown in confidence and self appreciation.

I know what I want and am having great fun on the way to hopefully finding it.

I’ve toughened up and don’t take any crap. Ive learnt to always say how I feel even in awkward situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest change from joining Fab is that now I have to charge my phone twice a day, instead of the once.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The biggest change from joining Fab is that now I have to charge my phone twice a day, instead of the once. "

i hear you there!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.

I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.

P

So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen.

Same here.

I was just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I caught the midnight train and met my city boy.

Moral of this .... don't stop believing

P"

So relate to that song

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I was never single until aged 38. I didn't join Fab until I was 43 (although I'd been on other sites) but it was Fab where I realised pretty quickly, that I'd spent a long time trying to be what people wanted me to be or expected me to be, rather than just being me.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Massively. It has not only helped me embrace my body and sexuality, it has really help me to love myself. It has improved my confidence and social skills massively (very helpful for someone socially anxious, who probably is a bit on the spectrum). It has introduced me to new freinds, adventures and experiences. I really have learnt with the help of fab to really have nothing to be hung up about anymore and to give less fucks about what other people think. It has given my mental freedom from some of chains that restricted me in the past. But what FAB has really done to change my life is to introduce me to My Girl, for that I will always be greatful.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Discovering that we are not the only ones who are sexually open.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It's enabled me to find my sexulity, enjoy sex and discover and experience lots of different things I would never have done without fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's given me a child and a fantastic man.... Definitely a life changer

Holly

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

It’s enabled me to meet people I probably never would have any other way ...it’s enhanced my sex life and my smile x

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

How’s Fab changed our lives?

Well we would never have met, let alone got married if it wasn’t for Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have alot more confidence. Body and generally, I am who I am and I do things for me, no one else. It might be down to fab, it might just be a coincidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like this site, is my favourite now. It has put me in contact with fit bisexual lads I would not find anywhere else. It also has opened up possibility of exploring my bicuriosity with women via MMF which is one reason I actually joined, taking that at my own pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's given me a child and a fantastic man.... Definitely a life changer

Holly

"

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new perspective of myself

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Sounds like my experience is like many others. It’s helped with my body confidence, with my sexual confidence and let me know that it’s ok to like sex. It’s not dirty, or naughty, or wrong.

It’s also helped me to make some friends, even though some are only online.

Finally, my mental wank bank has increased massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis and boobs

Friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve made some lovely friends, had some fantastic sex and it’s given me a lot of body confidence x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s enabled me to discover a new me and enjoy the adventure along the way. I’ve also made some great friends here too!

It’s certainly an experience not available in normal life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s finally given me the body confidence I lacked before, haha, I can’t keep a straight face while typing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s finally given me the body confidence I lacked before, haha, I can’t keep a straight face while typing this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some naughty fun and made friends

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Made some great friends over the years. Probably say its give me more of "why not.. what the worst that can happen" attitude when it comes to contacting or or flirting with people.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We've made lifelong friends who are non-judgemental, amazing fun and great company. It's great to be with people you can be open and honest with. We have great weekends away together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the sexy shenanigans and erotic adventures I've found some wonderful friends on here, which I never would have forseen when I first joined. One person in particular is now so dear to me that I couldn't contemplate a day without making contact and talking rubbish with them. I can't imagine life without them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here to all of the above. The confidence it has given me is astronomical. I'm having a wonderful time and the people I meet are amazing. I've made friends,lovers and at last I'm not on my own in thinking am I the only nymphomaniac in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all.

I am who I was before I came on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was finding mrs f as she is amazing in every way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s been a crazy few months.

I’ve definitely grown in confidence and self appreciation.

I know what I want and am having great fun on the way to hopefully finding it.

I’ve toughened up and don’t take any crap. Ive learnt to always say how I feel even in awkward situations.

"

Booooooooooom !!

Ah that's nice. The transition. Fab can have that powerful effect. Enjoyed the updates and reading that post. The days of being new on the scene are long gone ha ha

Newbie's/lurkers:

Lexi is a prime example on how not only to survive, but thrive on here. She is tough, but fair. The real deal. Nothing fake here. It's been amazing to see a fellow Fabber with a good heart having a fabulous journey.

Proud to vouch for her and looking forward to seeing more future happiness coming her way.

#Respect

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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No change here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows fab changed you as a person & whats the biggest personal change?

For me its given me a boost in body confidence i never had before joining. "

It hasn't changed my life at all, and I personally would be concerned if it had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hows fab changed you as a person & whats the biggest personal change?

For me its given me a boost in body confidence i never had before joining.

It hasn't changed my life at all, and I personally would be concerned if it had"

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