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"Do you consider yourself successful ?" Hmm no but through choice. Everyone I get along with lives so far away | |||
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"I'd say it's been successful. I get called pretty alot at the very least. " And Neruda’d once in a while. | |||
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"I'd say it's been successful. I get called pretty alot at the very least. And Neruda’d once in a while. " I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way than this: where I does not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep. | |||
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"I'd say it's been successful. I get called pretty alot at the very least. And Neruda’d once in a while. I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way than this: where I does not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep. " I do love a good Nerudaing | |||
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"No not at all. I can hardly get a message, nevermind a meet. In fact I've probably got more chance of winning the lottery than meeting up with an attractive lady through this site. Unless I visit a club and then there is no guarantee of playing with them. This is how I expected it to be though.. Because women get a lot of attention online and they can afford to be picky. I'm picky myself and that is another thing which makes it much more harder to to meet ladies. " Women can afford to be picky online and in the real world. Everyone can afford to be picky. It’s deciding whether it’s worth it or not. | |||
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"No not at all. I can hardly get a message, nevermind a meet. In fact I've probably got more chance of winning the lottery than meeting up with an attractive lady through this site. Unless I visit a club and then there is no guarantee of playing with them. This is how I expected it to be though.. Because women get a lot of attention online and they can afford to be picky. I'm picky myself and that is another thing which makes it much more harder to to meet ladies. Women can afford to be picky online and in the real world. Everyone can afford to be picky. It’s deciding whether it’s worth it or not. " If you signed into this site with male gender, you would soon realise that being picky isn't an option. There is no one to choose from. | |||
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"Absolutely not.. is anyone?? " Same here, its a no. I spend too much time on the forum than finding some, although I have a lot of forum friends, it is comedy gold | |||
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"No not at all. I can hardly get a message, nevermind a meet. In fact I've probably got more chance of winning the lottery than meeting up with an attractive lady through this site. Unless I visit a club and then there is no guarantee of playing with them. This is how I expected it to be though.. Because women get a lot of attention online and they can afford to be picky. I'm picky myself and that is another thing which makes it much more harder to to meet ladies. Women can afford to be picky online and in the real world. Everyone can afford to be picky. It’s deciding whether it’s worth it or not. If you signed into this site with male gender, you would soon realise that being picky isn't an option. There is no one to choose from. " There’s lots of people to choose from. And I’ve looked at my husband’s profile, when we first started swinging he was seeing how he would feel about playing with others. I know what it’s like... | |||
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"Do you consider yourself successful ? Hmm no but through choice. Everyone I get along with lives so far away " I’m coming I’m coming | |||
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"Living the dream Can't beat having 99% of the message you sent being deleted. Can't beat being made to feel you're not good enough. Can't beat having your confidence smashed. 100% success " "Quote" "You can't be everyone's cup of tea, Otherwise you'd be a mug." Doesn't mean theirs anything wrong with you! As long as you know your own value. | |||
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" My time on Fab is successful because I really enjoy myself on here. I learn loads, I’ve grown as a person. I’m more confident sexually and I’ve learned more about what I really enjoy. I’ve still got lots of room for improvement and am working on getting to know the people I really like on here slowly but steadily and with a fair wind and favourable seas hope to meet up with them." Couldn't have worded it any better if I tried. This for me too x | |||
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"Do you consider yourself successful ?" In respect of becoming ‘popular ‘ (as in I get on hot photos a lot - hence I get recognised in clubs a lot - which leads to a lot of lovely chats with some very nice people - and occasionally a really great shag!) and making some great friends - yes! I’ve also had by far the best sex of my life on here - and have some occasional fb’s (Because they live a bloody long way away) who are amazing in bed and I like/love dearly! My only failure has been in finding a localish, non exclusive ‘Mr Rightish’ to love/fuck/giggle with/chat shit with/swing with/cuddle on the sofa with!! If I ever find that I’ll be a happy Peachy indeed - but I’m beginning to think I may need to try using a dating site and bringing someone over to the dark side!! All in all though - not bad op thanks!! | |||
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"Living the dream Can't beat having 99% of the message you sent being deleted. Can't beat being made to feel you're not good enough. Can't beat having your confidence smashed. 100% success " Really? Sorry (and surprised) to hear that! I’d certainly chat to you with a view to meeting if you lived near me! X | |||
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"Living the dream Can't beat having 99% of the message you sent being deleted. Can't beat being made to feel you're not good enough. Can't beat having your confidence smashed. 100% success " If you were local to me I'd message you. And that's not even a sympathy message either | |||
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"Living the dream Can't beat having 99% of the message you sent being deleted. Can't beat being made to feel you're not good enough. Can't beat having your confidence smashed. 100% success " Only 99%? Dude, that's epic success. | |||
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"Living the dream Can't beat having 99% of the message you sent being deleted. Can't beat being made to feel you're not good enough. Can't beat having your confidence smashed. 100% success "Quote" "You can't be everyone's cup of tea, Otherwise you'd be a mug." Doesn't mean theirs anything wrong with you! As long as you know your own value. " Bingo! There it is. Know your own value. Great post! "Success" for me is getting what you joined the site for. Whatever is personal to you in terms of needs/wants. Can be either socially, sexually or both. You can be successful without having any meets because it depends on what you're looking for or into etc As for me... brb | |||
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"As singles we had fun but as a couple more so. Sharing is fun " Oh I can only imagine! When I initially joined it was all about exploring, discovering and learning. Seeing what works for me, my limits, boundaries etc my god the adventures over the years. It has been a fun journey as a single. Fastforward: As the poster I have quoted said sharing! That must be super fun being fortunate enough to find a partner and become a couple would be awesome. Time and time again I have come across and know many couples that as singles never caused any problems for others. Been having fun and then as couples continued their time together! Even though I have not been actively looking for that... just been going with the flow, but that would be the natural way forward if that happened with the right person. Gives the rest of us singles hope knowing out there regardless of the negatives/sycophants, time wasters/dodgy characters, point scorers etc etc there could be a real genuine potential match. Time will tell And yes... I know many of you friends been waiting for time... never say never... | |||
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"As singles we had fun but as a couple more so. Sharing is fun Oh I can only imagine! When I initially joined it was all about exploring, discovering and learning. Seeing what works for me, my limits, boundaries etc my god the adventures over the years. It has been a fun journey as a single. Fastforward: As the poster I have quoted said sharing! That must be super fun being fortunate enough to find a partner and become a couple would be awesome. Time and time again I have come across and know many couples that as singles never caused any problems for others. Been having fun and then as couples continued their time together! Even though I have not been actively looking for that... just been going with the flow, but that would be the natural way forward if that happened with the right person. Gives the rest of us singles hope knowing out there regardless of the negatives/sycophants, time wasters/dodgy characters, point scorers etc etc there could be a real genuine potential match. Time will tell And yes... I know many of you friends been waiting for time... never say never..." *waits patiently for updates | |||
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"As singles we had fun but as a couple more so. Sharing is fun Oh I can only imagine! When I initially joined it was all about exploring, discovering and learning. Seeing what works for me, my limits, boundaries etc my god the adventures over the years. It has been a fun journey as a single. Fastforward: As the poster I have quoted said sharing! That must be super fun being fortunate enough to find a partner and become a couple would be awesome. Time and time again I have come across and know many couples that as singles never caused any problems for others. Been having fun and then as couples continued their time together! Even though I have not been actively looking for that... just been going with the flow, but that would be the natural way forward if that happened with the right person. Gives the rest of us singles hope knowing out there regardless of the negatives/sycophants, time wasters/dodgy characters, point scorers etc etc there could be a real genuine potential match. Time will tell And yes... I know many of you friends been waiting for time... never say never..." Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea | |||
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"As singles we had fun but as a couple more so. Sharing is fun Oh I can only imagine! When I initially joined it was all about exploring, discovering and learning. Seeing what works for me, my limits, boundaries etc my god the adventures over the years. It has been a fun journey as a single. Fastforward: As the poster I have quoted said sharing! That must be super fun being fortunate enough to find a partner and become a couple would be awesome. Time and time again I have come across and know many couples that as singles never caused any problems for others. Been having fun and then as couples continued their time together! Even though I have not been actively looking for that... just been going with the flow, but that would be the natural way forward if that happened with the right person. Gives the rest of us singles hope knowing out there regardless of the negatives/sycophants, time wasters/dodgy characters, point scorers etc etc there could be a real genuine potential match. Time will tell And yes... I know many of you friends been waiting for time... never say never... *waits patiently for updates " Flippin heck... oi! This is exactly one of those couples I posted about. S n X cheeky fuckers going about having fun with each other. A couple that figured out how to do it without causing others problems! Loving your style and maybe... just maybe one day I could be getting to that level of happiness. Hopefully | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea" Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey " I must have you mixed up with another Adam. *gallic shrug* | |||
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"Adam69XXX I like to think of you as the Jerry Springer of the forum, with your little learning Final Thoughts section. It’s very sweet. " You know what... "Final thoughts section" haha you just cheered me up. Apparently there is another Adam out there... married!! How many feckin Adam's are there!? I thought I was unique... goes to show what I know. For the love of... somebody tell me I am not going to be single for ever... yikes! Just sharing what I know. Knowledge on all things true. Power to the people Side note: It took me years... I mean years... to be the 69th member of the XXX club. And yet I am still single! What was the point hitting that magical status... huh!? I need a shoulder to cry on... Hmpf Oh wait I am alone ffs Right fish and chips it is! | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey " Ffs!!! You’re going to get me dumped!! Easy tiger Saff x | |||
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"Adam69XXX I like to think of you as the Jerry Springer of the forum, with your little learning Final Thoughts section. It’s very sweet. You know what... "Final thoughts section" haha you just cheered me up. Apparently there is another Adam out there... married!! How many feckin Adam's are there!? I thought I was unique... goes to show what I know. For the love of... somebody tell me I am not going to be single for ever... yikes! Just sharing what I know. Knowledge on all things true. Power to the people Side note: It took me years... I mean years... to be the 69th member of the XXX club. And yet I am still single! What was the point hitting that magical status... huh!? I need a shoulder to cry on... Hmpf Oh wait I am alone ffs Right fish and chips it is!" It was definitely a different Adam, it’s almost like it’s the first ever name available for men.... | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey I must have you mixed up with another Adam. *gallic shrug*" What's a gallic shrug? Is it one of those things that we should never ever Google? | |||
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"Definitely having fun - successful is probably not the right word for me though." Your very pleasing | |||
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"Yeah I reckon so.... I judge my success rate by the amount of nice people I chat to and friends I make.... The forums changed my opinion on what this place was, for the better! " Aww | |||
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"Adam69XXX I like to think of you as the Jerry Springer of the forum, with your little learning Final Thoughts section. It’s very sweet. You know what... "Final thoughts section" haha you just cheered me up. Apparently there is another Adam out there... married!! How many feckin Adam's are there!? I thought I was unique... goes to show what I know. For the love of... somebody tell me I am not going to be single for ever... yikes! Just sharing what I know. Knowledge on all things true. Power to the people Side note: It took me years... I mean years... to be the 69th member of the XXX club. And yet I am still single! What was the point hitting that magical status... huh!? I need a shoulder to cry on... Hmpf Oh wait I am alone ffs Right fish and chips it is! It was definitely a different Adam, it’s almost like it’s the first ever name available for men.... " Blame the hierarchy... it's the (A)lphabet you know... oh wait... Holy moly... light bulb moment... Alpha-bet No scrap that, was rubbish. Switch the lights off. I am about to do one of food's biggest sins! Everyone knows fish&chips is on a Friday... too late to back out now I have already put them in the oven! Fuuuuuuuuuuck I am such a bad boy. No shoulder to cry on and my food calendar is all messed up | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey I must have you mixed up with another Adam. *gallic shrug* What's a gallic shrug? Is it one of those things that we should never ever Google? " Haha it is safe to Google that one. Not one those eye popping moments... | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey Ffs!!! You’re going to get me dumped!! Easy tiger Saff x" Saffy!! Ha ha Nah you ain't getting dumped. You're just getting started and you have so much more to explore/enjoy together Loving the updates from you both. Forums can be comedy gold. Whoop! Whoop! | |||
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"Getting off topic a little here, but don't you have a wife? Tea Pffft oh my days... as far as random things go that cracked me up. Got the giggles! Don't tease me like that! Fuck me wish I was that lucky to have a wife. God damn it. Never been married, but I have to admit and if I find a compatible match oooooooft yes please! There have been Fab weddings folks. So it is possible... Yo S n X get on it and don't forget my invitation. Non of that got lost in the post malarkey Ffs!!! You’re going to get me dumped!! Easy tiger Saff x Saffy!! Ha ha Nah you ain't getting dumped. You're just getting started and you have so much more to explore/enjoy together Loving the updates from you both. Forums can be comedy gold. Whoop! Whoop!" Ha ha not on here as much these days. Just nice to enjoy life away from here and pop in when I feel like a chuckle x Saff | |||
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"No not at all. I can hardly get a message, nevermind a meet. In fact I've probably got more chance of winning the lottery than meeting up with an attractive lady through this site. Unless I visit a club and then there is no guarantee of playing with them. This is how I expected it to be though.. Because women get a lot of attention online and they can afford to be picky. I'm picky myself and that is another thing which makes it much more harder to to meet ladies. Women can afford to be picky online and in the real world. Everyone can afford to be picky. It’s deciding whether it’s worth it or not. If you signed into this site with male gender, you would soon realise that being picky isn't an option. There is no one to choose from. There’s lots of people to choose from. And I’ve looked at my husband’s profile, when we first started swinging he was seeing how he would feel about playing with others. I know what it’s like..." Sounds like he has ladies queuing up to have sex with him. Lucky man.. I can't find anyone interested so no one to choose from here. | |||
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"Do you consider yourself successful ?" What would successful be? 100 veris, a 100 conquests, a hundred socials,a hundred orgasms, how do you measure success here? | |||
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"Do you consider yourself successful ?What would successful be? 100 veris, a 100 conquests, a hundred socials,a hundred orgasms, how do you measure success here? " Its not my definition..my op was do you consider yourself, its your definition | |||
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