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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think? "

Just ignore them, your profile, your preferences. Those who use the race card because you won't meet them are just petty minded idiots who are showing themselves for what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph

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By *ecretbear94Man
over a year ago

travelling

[Removed by poster at 19/06/19 14:28:15]

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph "

Thats my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph "

Was just away to type that.

It’s all good having pretences though!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph "

This

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By *yWifeYourSlutCouple
over a year ago

London

I'm sure you will manage to cope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't make you racist at all! Crazy world. Lol

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Ah the perennial question that keeps cropping up

And yet ... using the race card to be a BBC is acceptable

Smacks of double standards but equally, don't advertise the fact, just don't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the other ladies..it's fine to have preferences and certainly not racist but to state it is asking for trouble. Just remove it and turn down politely anyone who isn't for you, same as you would with anyone.

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph "
if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want"

But you're getting unwanted messages accusing you of being racist ... agreed.. it's a tricky one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's every bit, your right to have preferences.

But as other people have said.

It can be a red rag to a bull.

I would remove the paragraph.

Is just easier to delete and block people surely. Rather than put up with endless challenges, and/or abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want"

You don't have to open them, or reply to them.

Rather than saying what you don't want and piss people off it may be better to say "I'm looking for white guys"

Simply phrasing it a different, more respectful way can make a world of difference

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want"

Try blocking men then and contact the ones that interst you...

But then of course you would have nothing to complain about..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think? "

Any woman who doesn’t sleep with me is a lesbian!

Ridiculous isn’t it OP, just block and delete them

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

Try blocking men then and contact the ones that interst you...

But then of course you would have nothing to complain about.."
Its not a complaint, I'm simply asking is it my choice to put what I don't like as to many on here do on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a similar situation to having don't meet bi sexual men on profiles i guess. There are some Fab members who think we should all fuck all groups ethnic or sexual. No it is not fair to call you racist because it's vastly different not wanting to have sex with a minority group than being against that group in real life.

It's usually members from minority groups who play the various race, homophobic cards.

We all have choice of who we find attractive.x

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By *yWifeYourSlutCouple
over a year ago

London


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

Try blocking men then and contact the ones that interst you...

But then of course you would have nothing to complain about.. Its not a complaint, I'm simply asking is it my choice to put what I don't like as to many on here do on their profiles"

I think we get the message love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

Try blocking men then and contact the ones that interst you...

But then of course you would have nothing to complain about.. Its not a complaint, I'm simply asking is it my choice to put what I don't like as to many on here do on their profiles"

Ok you are clearly having problems dealing with those who see that paragraph as a target perhaps... if it was me i would not put it in there but seeing as you are asking then my advice would be to remove it

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think? "

No it's not fair. It's your personal choice. No different to ladies who only want BBC. That's not racist to white guys, so neither should your personal choice be. They are the ignorant ones by not respecting your choice, just like we all have to respect each other's.

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think?

Just ignore them, your profile, your preferences. Those who use the race card because you won't meet them are just petty minded idiots who are showing themselves for what they are."

exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who want to suck my cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not racist but agree not to mention it especially if you don’t list all the other things you’re not interested in.

Thankfully i don’t get messages accusing me of being homophobic because I refuse to meet men.

It seems some people’s minds are as small as their little dicks

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Who want to suck my cock ?

"

as your asking!!!! no fecking chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who want to suck my cock ?

"

Great thread hijack. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who want to suck my cock ?

Great thread hijack. Good luck. "

I also Hope that I'll get lucky !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think?

No it's not fair. It's your personal choice. No different to ladies who only want BBC. That's not racist to white guys, so neither should your personal choice be. They are the ignorant ones by not respecting your choice, just like we all have to respect each other's."

Absolutely agree, the difference in this case being, ladies looking for BBC will write on their profiles "looking for BBC" rather than "not looking for white cock, Asian cock bla bla bla"

If you state what you're looking for rather than what you aren't looking for it seems like less of an attack if that makes sense.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Who want to suck my cock ?

Great thread hijack. Good luck.

I also Hope that I'll get lucky ! "

god loves a hopeful soul!!!!! lol

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

They can simply read profile and move on, does not mean they are entitled to shout out racist every time they read someone's preferences that they don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who want to suck my cock ?

Great thread hijack. Good luck.

I also Hope that I'll get lucky !

god loves a hopeful soul!!!!! lol "

Especially on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can simply read profile and move on, does not mean they are entitled to shout out racist every time they read someone's preferences that they don't like"

That's the game love.

As much as you decided that it was fair to write down your racial sexual preference... Other think it is fair to say that you are a racist.

Who is right or wrong, I couldn't give a shit. But at least realised that if you do something that may exclude an entire race and offend them.... Expect some backlash.

Simple as that.

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By *yWifeYourSlutCouple
over a year ago

London


"They can simply read profile and move on, does not mean they are entitled to shout out racist every time they read someone's preferences that they don't like"

Yes we do get it... We honestly do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its definitely your choice, but perhaps remove it from your profile less hassle. It's not racist at all it your preference. Just delete any messages you receive from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's strange OP, as a person who's pictures you bear a striking resemblance to does like BBC...

Isnt the world a funny place.

*gallic shrug*

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

You don't have to open them, or reply to them.

Rather than saying what you don't want and piss people off it may be better to say "I'm looking for white guys"

Simply phrasing it a different, more respectful way can make a world of difference

P"

Agreed. I really don’t get why people have to put negative things on a profile. Just it out in the message stage. Much more respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can simply read profile and move on, does not mean they are entitled to shout out racist every time they read someone's preferences that they don't like

Yes we do get it... We honestly do! "

You're not very helpful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can simply read profile and move on, does not mean they are entitled to shout out racist every time they read someone's preferences that they don't like"

It just sounds negative and not nice. I understand preferences but there is a way to do it. If I came across a guys profile and he said the same thing you have put, he wouldn’t be the kind of person I would want to know. Not because of his preferences but the way he openly put it on his profile.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It's strange OP, as a person who's pictures you bear a striking resemblance to does like BBC...

Isnt the world a funny place.

*gallic shrug*

Tea"

Oh, whoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

Try blocking men then and contact the ones that interst you...

But then of course you would have nothing to complain about.. Its not a complaint, I'm simply asking is it my choice to put what I don't like as to many on here do on their profiles"

You already know the answer to that. Of course it is your right to put your preferences on your profile. Just be aware that some may get their back up about it and attenpt to confront you. You dont have to open the message though. Just delete then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ? "
I agree with this don't put it on profile because it offends, just don't answer the messages or block that's a better option.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ? "

That's pretty much my take on it as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with the other ladies..it's fine to have preferences and certainly not racist but to state it is asking for trouble. Just remove it and turn down politely anyone who isn't for you, same as you would with anyone.

"

This.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

On one hand honesty is great and I understand that your trying to make life easier by reducing the amount of messages from guy that don't suit your criteria. But then it would also be honest not to state that and just to reply back your not my type without justification why (no one needs to justify their sexual preferences).

A lot of people have stated on the line of how hurtful it can be to read their race/skin colour is not welcome. I think consideration for the effects of yours is something to think about. But in the same vain should people stop stating no cocks under 7', no large people, no women under a D cup etc? To what extent do we trade upsetting people for ease of finding the people we want? Where is the ethical line?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a racist on here and I couldn't care less. I know who I fancy and who I find attractive, and those I choose to have sex with. If someone has a problem with it, then be it.

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

I find it offensive and ageist that people won't fuck 50 year olds, so if you all raise your age filters to 60 I would be much obliged. Thank you very much

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

While it’s absolutely fine to have preferences, to exclude a whole group based on ethnicity is racist. It’s sort of the definition of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have my “preference” on my profile and simply block and delete the message.

I guess for women users they probably receive more messages than I do so I’m assuming blocking and deleting would become laborious. Block and delete is just cleaner that way no nasty messages.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph "
but why should any one have to remove what their preferences are??? You wouldn’t say you’ve got to remove I like KFC but not MCDs

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"While it’s absolutely fine to have preferences, to exclude a whole group based on ethnicity is racist. It’s sort of the definition of it.

"
no she has excluded a whole group as she does not fancy them. She has no way implied anything else such as would not speak or be friends with them or expects anything less for them having a preference is not racism or for everyone women on her who says black cock only we would clearly need to label them as racist to for excluding while groups of different colour and assortment of males.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Nothing racist or prejudice in it, you just don't fancy them and that's end of the story. You ain't calling them names just stating they are not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ? "

No French!

(except beardy ones who raise valid points)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This old chestnut again

To be honest why should you care who messages or not. Everyone I mean EVERYONE is entitled to decide who they want to fuck. Whether you want to target white, black or Asian

How you express this, again totally down to you

Too many people are butt hurt on here and that's from both sides of the fence, ive defended the racist card I defended the preference card its the great debate that will never be resolved.

I'm sorry to sound all negative but it's common sense now. Preference or racism no one knows.

ignore it move on its your profile and we are all strangers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s your profile and your life just do as you please and carry on business as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This old chestnut again

To be honest why should you care who messages or not. Everyone I mean EVERYONE is entitled to decide who they want to fuck. Whether you want to target white, black or Asian

How you express this, again totally down to you

Too many people are butt hurt on here and that's from both sides of the fence, ive defended the racist card I defended the preference card its the great debate that will never be resolved.

I'm sorry to sound all negative but it's common sense now. Preference or racism no one knows.

ignore it move on its your profile and we are all strangers!

"
strangers in the night exchanging glances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ? "

I wish you'd post like this more often. X

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think? "

No you are completely wrong... it is your responsibility to have sex with any man who asks, and enjoyed whether you like it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can simply read profile and move on, does not mean they are entitled to shout out racist every time they read someone's preferences that they don't like"

You'll never be able to control how other people behave on here

But you can control your own response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ?

I wish you'd post like this more often. X"

#FabulousAndBeardedForPM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is my choice not to fancy having sex with black or Asian men or women, I just don't find them attractive, it clearly says on my profile but I get called a racist If I don't want to, is that fair? Or are they entitled to use the race card if they don't get what they want, what do you think? "

Not racist at all, your body, your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your choice reminds me a bit of the German shops' choices to put a sign outside their shop saying 'no jews'.

You don't want to have sex with people you aren't attracted to - that's totally fine.

You want to be clear that you don't want to have sex with a certain category of people so you stated on your profile - that is fine as long as you own it after. But Don't act like you are offended by being called a racist.

Can you imagine how offended an Asian or a black man may be when they come across numerous profiles who state that they basically don't want them because of their skin colours. How detrimental it can be for a person to get the message that a lot of people do not consider you as a whole person with feelings ?

I wish you'd post like this more often. X"

I can't as everyone would know me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I think putting it on your profile is like waving a red rag at a bull...

People are bound to question it and try to change your mind...

If you don't want the hassle just remove the paragraph if I do that then get Evan more unwanted messages, at least I explain what I don't want

Try blocking men then and contact the ones that interst you...

But then of course you would have nothing to complain about.. Its not a complaint, I'm simply asking is it my choice to put what I don't like as to many on here do on their profiles"
At the end of the day , it's your profile, and your business, do what you feel is best for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not attracted to black or Indian/Middle Eastern guys, and I do state it on my profile. It's not racism, it's my sexual preference. Should I be called ageist just because I won't meet anyone below 35?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not attracted to black or Indian/Middle Eastern guys, and I do state it on my profile. It's not racism, it's my sexual preference. Should I be called ageist just because I won't meet anyone below 35?

"
hardly in the same genre age can apply to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably just wouldn't put anything in profile and just select meets based around personal taste

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