FabSwingers.com forum: First meet experience on Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just commented on a thread discussing the ladies experience when they first joined fab. Seems like apart from afew who were already in the know, many of us found it quite overwhelming.

It's got me thinking about my first sexual meet upon joining.... An awful experience that made me almost leave the site. Infact, I didn't log on for a month or so afterwards! However other experiences, both social and overwise, has made me glad I did return

How was your first sexual fab encounter? Awful? Disappointing? Satisfying? Amazing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was great, she was lovely and we had fun together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first meet was great, she was lovely and we had fun together

That's the aim of the game, that three letter word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first meet was great, she was lovely and we had fun together

That's the aim of the game, that three letter word

Agreed

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I'll let you know when it happens

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It is a something I will never forget, to finally see Jo scratch her bisexual itch! After 20 odd years! Her smiles and eye flutters she kept giving me as we were in the bar waiting, the mixture of nerves and pure excitement! And the confidence that erupted out of her when we finally got to the room was amazing!

To be fair we have never had a bad meet, but that first one, for me, was mind blowing

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

My first meet was unexpected and amazing. Had not been on here very long at the time, maybe a week or two so was lucky I had found someone i clicked with. That was 3 years ago or so. Met a couple of more times and still message each other regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a great one. even if I didn't get to fuck her anus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just commented on a thread discussing the ladies experience when they first joined fab. Seems like apart from afew who were already in the know, many of us found it quite overwhelming.

How was your first sexual fab encounter? Awful? Disappointing? Satisfying? Amazing? "

Same for me. Absolutely awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet was a social, which was lovely! I'm still in touch with the guy now, he was a good friend for a while.

My first time playing specifically from fab was with a couple, at theirs. I was 18, they were in their mid/late 30s. Lovely people, attractive but fuck me, was it awkward!!!! I never saw them again despite their attempts at a second meet.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It was a great one. even if I didn't get to fuck her anus "

Yeah, but she was tight though when she came to mine afterwards, I needed to get the lard out of the fridge as a precaution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a great one. even if I didn't get to fuck her anus

Yeah, but she was tight though when she came to mine afterwards, I needed to get the lard out of the fridge as a precaution

did you put ice on the rectum afterwards too ?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Almost all my fab meetings have been a good experience, some exceptional. Probably because I’m pretty pedantic about who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was meant to be just a social but we ended up fucking on his car in a flyover under the A1M

I hasten to add it was the first sex I'd had in 2 years. Unfortunately he later turned out to be an arsehole, but it was fun nonetheless.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It was a great one. even if I didn't get to fuck her anus

Yeah, but she was tight though when she came to mine afterwards, I needed to get the lard out of the fridge as a precaution

did you put ice on the rectum afterwards too ? "

Nah, I used a Slush Puppie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liked my first meet so much!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

My first meet was a social and was really nice, we talked in a coffee shop while the people within earshot leaned over to listen to snippets like “I got sent a message and you don’t want to know where he’d stuck the stem of that flower”

My first sex meet was in a club and it was fantastic. Everyone was so friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meets was as a couple so a little different. I did then have follow ups with guys 1 to 1 but I already knew them. I have had a couple of shitty experiences which is why I put my own rules in place to avoid it in future when I am meeting. Generally my rules are social meet first, followed by soft play meet. Then a full meet.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Liked my first meet so much! "

Your first (and subsequent) meet veris are really lovely to read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Liked my first meet so much!

Your first (and subsequent) meet veris are really lovely to read! "

Thank you Meli! It really has been wonderfully amazing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Intimidating but it was my nerves not them. We're still in touch, one I consider a good friend

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

My first meeting was really good. I was nervous as hell but kept it together. Once we got naked I relaxed and we had a great time. She was lovely and we met quite a few times after that.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Just commented on a thread discussing the ladies experience when they first joined fab. Seems like apart from afew who were already in the know, many of us found it quite overwhelming.

How was your first sexual fab encounter? Awful? Disappointing? Satisfying? Amazing? "
I actually haven't a clue what..who or even where my first fab meet was.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Mine wasn't a classy affair

But a lot of fun and we continued to meet for quite a while until distance became a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet off fab was with a lovely couple..

It started off as a social but we ended up going back to theirs for my first MFF .. we continued to see each other on and off for quite a while, then I moved to Wales and they disappeared off the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First for me was an interesting experience, going with an slightly older woman. It was fun and a bit nervous and she did seem more interested in my chest hair and feet than anything else. But still a great time. Only got awkward when on return visits she said "I love you" I couldn't bear returning after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was with a couple, prearranged to meet with them on my first club visit, they were 2 hours late but in many ways that was good as I got to find my feet in the club and work things out.

All in all it was a really good experience and a good introduction to the swinging world.

Tea

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

First meet was good, I was nervous and spent most of the time chatting.

She had to move things along.

Nerves are gone now

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

My first meet here was very relaxed and a lot of fun.

What surprised me is that I wasn’t nervous at all and haven’t been since - go in have a drink and a laugh and just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was ok. The guy in question got a bit weird afterwards, messaging me saying we had something special and we should be together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first mert wasNot great.. but not letting it put us off .

As for the site .bombarded with messages from.guys who clearly didnt read our profile or fit our criteria . It is very overwhelming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before our first meet we were almost sick with nerves and questioned why we were doing it. We had no idea how we’d feel afterwards or if it would damage our relationship.

Once the meet was underway it was absolutely fine and all doubts melted away. We found it incredibly erotic and loved every minute.

To this day we still get those initial nerves before a meet. Abby is a musician and says it’s akin to how she feels before she goes on stage.

Miss V x

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"It was ok. The guy in question got a bit weird afterwards, messaging me saying we had something special and we should be together!"

Hate it when that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just commented on a thread discussing the ladies experience when they first joined fab. Seems like apart from afew who were already in the know, many of us found it quite overwhelming.

How was your first sexual fab encounter? Awful? Disappointing? Satisfying? Amazing?

Same for me. Absolutely awful! "

You're not selling this well. ..

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

My first meet became one of my best friends. I love that man with all my heart. I’m going to text him and remind him now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d been using Adult Friend Finder for some time. Had a few fun meets but seemed to be a lot of time wasters. Tried to join the members club in Clacton and they wouldn’t let me join until I was verified on fab.

Not looked back since joining, had some meets that have all been fun. Still some time wasters but easy to block them.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My very first?

Ooooh him!

It was more physical assault than sexual encounter.

Silly boy, he took on the wrong woman and lost!

A couple of days later I started chatting to someone, took us a while to meet for a social, restored my faith that not everyone on here is a psycho sex pest.

2yrs later he's still one of my favourite people, an amazing friend & we chat most days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First one was amazing! She’s not on the site anymore, but a couple of days after joining we started chatting...I was ‘working from home’ and she was off work on a Wednesday. So agreed to meet at hers in the afternoon.

Got there and instant attraction...started kissing within seconds and straight to bed....stayed until 5 before her kids came home....amazing experience and meant I knew I was going to love the fab life!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one meet so far and she was amazing, good kisser and knew what she wanted

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By *unscot44Man
over a year ago

Stepps (Glasgow)

My first meeting was a social but couldn't have landed luckier. The lady in question was not only stunning but was just such fantastic company and made me feel so relaxed and we just had such a laugh.

We ended up meeting again few weeks later and she was amazing in every sense of the word .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came to Fab from a different site and had been knocking around the swinging world for 10 years when I joined Fab. I hadn’t met very many despite the elapsed time - 3 women, two couples and a house greedy girl type orgy with 3 women and 15 guys.

I only met two people in the next 4 years one man for my first time giving a bj and then a woman for a social meet which turned into an hour snogging in her car.

So my first one was with the guy. I was too nervous and inexperienced with men to really enjoy it., but at least I learned how to give a bj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st meet was a lovely couple. Chatted to him for a while then she joined in the discussion. They came to mine and we fulfilled one of my fantasies "three in a shower"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had booked a hotel for the night, and asked a local couple to meet us for a drink. We were dead nervous, but they were experienced. This led to the thought of, let’s try a bit of soft swing. It turned into 2 hours of sucking, fucking, swapping, spitroasting and girl on girl sweatyness. Excellent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My first meet from this profile was just like any subsequent meets I've had....FUN - some have been more relaxed and comfortable than others for varying reasons but I have a lot of fond memories of that first one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My very first?

Ooooh him!

It was more physical assault than sexual encounter.

Silly boy, he took on the wrong woman and lost!

A couple of days later I started chatting to someone, took us a while to meet for a social, restored my faith that not everyone on here is a psycho sex pest.

2yrs later he's still one of my favourite people, an amazing friend & we chat most days.

Mine wasn't as bad as that thankfully, but he basically use me as his personal fuck doll.... Not good!

I was really quite naive looking back. My head was well and truely turned by this ridiculously handsome 20something year old with his adonis type physique. My horniness of wanting to meet took over from actually getting to know the guy first. He was rather taken back when he asked if i had enjoyed myself and i gave my frank answer. He did say that he so sorry i felt that way and wanted to remedy that.... Needless to say I declined his offer of round two!

The guy after that was a really lovely man and we had alot of fun together for quite some time. Unfortunately he got alittle too keen for my comfort zone to handle

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"My first meet became one of my best friends. I love that man with all my heart. I’m going to text him and remind him now. "

You should ask him (nicely of course) to take a pic of your ( . )( . )

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

My first meet wasn't great... Steep learning curve though! She refused to kiss which I hadn't thought to ask about, but it really made the meet feel like 'going through the motions'...

As a result, I didn't make a very good account of myself - I kinda felt like a big part of my "repertoir" had been taken away!

As a ma, it can be difficult to secure meets - especially with single women - but I learnt not to be afraid to say 'no' if the chemistry isn't there.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Really good. Surprisingly so. After a shitty relationship I'd resigned myself to not being particularly desirable or sexy but they were absolutely wonderful and I felt very relaxed and happy from the start and it had a positive knock on effect for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It was a great one. even if I didn't get to fuck her anus "

Did she get to pound yours???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first meet was great, she was lovely and we had fun together

That's the aim of the game, that three letter word

"
aim?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first meet was great, she was lovely and we had fun together

That's the aim of the game, that three letter word

aim?"

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

That's awful and not surprised it had that effect on you - it's of course fine to not find someone attractive in the flesh when you meet, and any one is entitled to say no at any point - but to do so quite as callously as that goes beyond the pale.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

Shit that’s horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

We all have the choice to change our minds at any time, so it was more the brutality of how it was done. Even though I came back I'm often less than trusting of others on here. Maybe it's also one of the reasons I "hide in the cave" and find it hard to believe any of the good stuff people say to me occasionally....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

Believe the good stuff. There are some lovely women on here that wouldn’t dream of behaving like that. Just simply use the wisdom you’ve gained to good effect.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

That’s really horrible. We can say things like you’re better off without her and she probably wouldn’t be very caring in the bedroom but I get that it must have really hurt.

Hope you can move on and experience some good things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just commented on a thread discussing the ladies experience when they first joined fab. Seems like apart from afew who were already in the know, many of us found it quite overwhelming.

How was your first sexual fab encounter? Awful? Disappointing? Satisfying? Amazing? "
It's all about the people you meet I'm lovely and my first meet was with a woman I'm still friendly with today quite a few years later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will ressurect this thread when it happens and let you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

That tells me your caring and sensitive person

Which is so much more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

Believe the good stuff. There are some lovely women on here that wouldn’t dream of behaving like that. Just simply use the wisdom you’ve gained to good effect."

Thanks Doc. There are some amazing fun vibrant intriguing people on here. One bad experience isn't the way all others act. Yet it does still make me very cautious about meeting others. It's so easy to hide behind a screen and present ourselves in a positive way, if we want to; then in the "real world" show our true colours by the way we treat others.

Maybe what we all see say or do in here will always only ever be a small part of who we really are....

Like looking through a glass darkly and trying to feel our way to whatever is "real" about another when we come out from behind the screen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't had a meet yet, cheers crying now

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It wasn’t bad. Unfortunately for him i’d not had sex for 2 years before i met, so he had a very eager woman on his hands. I almost dehydrated him from all the snogging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It lasted 6 seconds.

We had spent weeks talking, she asked to meet, I agreed. We were to meet in a hotel car park, yeah classy I know.

She drove up, opened the car door, looked at me, said "Oh God No!", and drove away.

It's taken me longer to type this than the meet did

I went unlos. It was 3 months before I came back.

That’s really horrible. We can say things like you’re better off without her and she probably wouldn’t be very caring in the bedroom but I get that it must have really hurt.

Hope you can move on and experience some good things

It's the past I can't change it. But like everything in our pasts it does influence our now.

Others have had far worse experiences than me. Yet what we do or say to others, and vice versa, maybe it does change the way we see ourselves and how we view the world and our place in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was pretty dismal. I met up with a couple after midnight in a local park, after a few minutes they started arguing among themselves and they left. To this day I'm not sure if it was a genuine argument or they were using it as a way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was pretty dismal. I met up with a couple after midnight in a local park, after a few minutes they started arguing among themselves and they left. To this day I'm not sure if it was a genuine argument or they were using it as a way out."

Fuck me that's brutal, surprised you stayed on here

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Our first play meet did not go well. We had already met the couple for a social a few weeks before and we all got on well, however, with the benefit of hindsight we should have known it would not go well.

We were both newbies having never done anything like this before. Add to that the other couple were childhood sweet hearts in their mid 50s who had never had any other sexual experiences.

We went to theirs for the evening but on arrival got told that the husband had to go to work in 2 hours. The female in the other couple got blind d*unk (think through nerves). Once we got to the bedroom the husband just wanted the ladies to kiss and play with each other, Alexis was straight at this point and was not interested.

To cut a long story short the evening ended with us outside in the Northumberland moors with Alexis looking at the stars through some night vision goggles.

We actually laughed all the way home at how ridiculous it all was and the next day discussed whether we wanted to continue. We were lucky as on that same day another couple messaged us to meet and they were the polar opposite having been swinging for about 25 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me that's brutal, surprised you stayed on here "

I'm a glutton for punishment.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"My first meet became one of my best friends. I love that man with all my heart. I’m going to text him and remind him now.

You should ask him (nicely of course) to take a pic of your ( . )( . )

Ummmm why?

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

My first 1 on 1 meet off here was awesome, we carried on meeting for several years and it was equally as awesome. We became good friends until life caused us to drift apart.

My first meet with a couple from here was also amazing but only got to meet a couple of times after that.

I’ve not had a bad meet...yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh many years ago... it was fabulous and a fun start to a new journey within the lifestyle.

#HappyMemories

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Was very lucky that my first meet, on a previous singles profile, was with a lady considered to be Fab royalty.

Went very well and made me realise that Fab was something I should’ve done years before.

So incredibly pleased with my journey as I’ve met someone even more amazing now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was very lucky that my first meet, on a previous singles profile, was with a lady considered to be Fab royalty.

Went very well and made me realise that Fab was something I should’ve done years before.

So incredibly pleased with my journey as I’ve met someone even more amazing now.

J "

Same here with Fab! If I knew it existed I would have joined long before 2015.

Always nice to see many fellow Fabbers are pleased with their journey. This site can give so much. It really does have everything...

Including royalty!

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By *ooliganMan
over a year ago

Preston

Has anyone else scrolled through to see if their first "meetee" has commented?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else scrolled through to see if their first "meetee" has commented?

It was a decade ago and I can't remember their name. They're probably not even on Fab any more.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Amazing, I was lucky I think. We met up for 3ish years.

Not met anyone like him since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was a different site before joining Fab.

Pub social at first but went outside, got in my knees + gave him a blowjob behind his car.

Problem was we were being watched on camera + a bunch of the bar staff came out + stood next to us just as he shot a massive load right in my face + all down my clothes.

I did tell him I like outdoor, public + the risk of getting caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first meet was just like every meet I've had since ,awesome fun whether it's a sexual meet or a fantastic walk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was luckily a social. The man forgot to remove his wedding ring so I was off out of there. The excuses as to why he does it didnt wash with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was great. Social meet in a pub. Bit nervy for the first ten mins or so, but then we just spent the evening laughing.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"my first meet was just like every meet I've had since ,awesome fun whether it's a sexual meet or a fantastic walk ."

Was the last word a typo?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'd been on a similar site prior to this so it wasn't much different, just a bit better organised.

My first meet was a social with a old hand, who filled me in on the weird and wonderful world of Fab.All the stuff about people getting their knickers un a twist about veries and who has met who. I thought he was kidding...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd been on a similar site prior to this so it wasn't much different, just a bit better organised.

Blimey! You also got the low down on some of the things that go on... much more then you think goes on

negatives going to war with each other over random strangers... madness... bonkers... strange, but true!

Wait a sec...

"A bit better organised" well I never... Fab is the only site I have been on so not got anything to compare it to and luckily never needed to join any other site since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty good, set the standard high and gave me a false sense of what it would be like so all downhill after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so nervous! I remember thinking to myself “your heading into a strangers house and may end up naked”

. After 10/15mins of talking I was put at ease. The couple made me feel really welcome and before I knew it all three of us were enjoying each other.

I guess I was just Lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Amazing, I was lucky I think. We met up for 3ish years.

Not met anyone like him since

Ahh that's tough but hey never know what in your fab future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing, I was lucky I think. We met up for 3ish years.

Not met anyone like him since

Ahh that's tough but hey never know what in your fab future

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My futures orange

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone else scrolled through to see if their first "meetee" has commented?

Haha nooooo. None of my previous playmates have. They don't even use the forums, whether they are lurkers is another thing but certainly never contributed to any threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else scrolled through to see if their first "meetee" has commented?

No as i said mine was a couple and they left the site...

However, he returned on his own a few yrs later and sought me out to tell me his wife had died, which was quite sad ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may sound bad, but I don’t remember who my first fab meet was! I have been using fab now on and off for over 5 years now as well as other dating apps. I have only ever had one bad experience where someone once used old pictures of themselves..... then when I met her........ well the years hadn’t been kind to her waistline!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve changed so much from the time I joined fab to now.

My first few meets were pretty shit as I didn’t set the bar very high.

Now I’m more confident and know exactly what I want the meets I have are much better. Don’t get me wrong they can still disappoint but also be very mind blowing.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I went to a club before I joined fab, got talked into joining on my way home. My first meet I was so nervous. Still get nervous now but the excitement is more so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was a huge build to which I fluffed my lines lol. Good job she agreed to a revisit as it lead to some great times and ticking off of a few boxes ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This may sound bad, but I don’t remember who my first fab meet was! I have been using fab now on and off for over 5 years now as well as other dating apps. I have only ever had one bad experience where someone once used old pictures of themselves..... then when I met her........ well the years hadn’t been kind to her waistline!

I really don't get way people use old pics of themselves or filter /edit their body to make themselves look slimmer.... Your gonna get busted in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my first meet was just like every meet I've had since ,awesome fun whether it's a sexual meet or a fantastic walk .

Was the last word a typo? "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Amazing, I was lucky I think. We met up for 3ish years.

Not met anyone like him since

Ahh that's tough but hey never know what in your fab future

Always positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Amazing, I was lucky I think. We met up for 3ish years.

Not met anyone like him since

Ahh that's tough but hey never know what in your fab future

Always positive

If I was closer... and available during the day... and able to accomodate...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Has anyone else scrolled through to see if their first "meetee" has commented?

No as i said mine was a couple and they left the site...

However, he returned on his own a few yrs later and sought me out to tell me his wife had died, which was quite sad .."

Oh that is sad

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