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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Well no. Because you'd have sent your face pic in the message, so I'd know what you looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "

I’m pretty sure the answer is no, not intriguing in the slightest and probably speculate that you’re hiding more than your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well no. Because you'd have sent your face pic in the message, so I'd know what you looked like. "

I usually send when asked.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "

No, not even a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

I’m pretty sure the answer is no, not intriguing in the slightest and probably speculate that you’re hiding more than your face"

Seems like having a profile photo is the better idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "

Without having a pic for your avatar i wouldn't be hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

I’m pretty sure the answer is no, not intriguing in the slightest and probably speculate that you’re hiding more than your face

Seems like having a profile photo is the better idea "

It would seem so

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "

I wouldn’t even view your profile if you didn’t have a profile photo! So no not curious at all!

Mrs J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit "

So you don't want to know what I look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like? "

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

To be honest, as soon as we see the blank profile pic we don't even read the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more likely to delete you no pics public

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

I wouldn’t even view your profile if you didn’t have a profile photo! So no not curious at all!

Mrs J "

I'm guess g a profile photo is the way to go!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Blank profiles, I just ignore, why would I bother giving them a second glance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest "

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile? "

No, why would I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like blank profiles are a bit of a no no here..... The majority if not all of you definitely want a profile photo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I? "

I was hoping through curiosity

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By *issteachmeWoman
over a year ago

Melton Mowbray

If an effort has been made in the first place with their profile, I would be intrigued to know more, but if the profile is bare and bland with no pics and little literature to read then I will delete, block or just reply politely with a "no thank you"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x "

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I?

I was hoping through curiosity"

But I have nothing to be curious about...if you had a profile pic I liked the look of (no, doesn’t need to be your face...and it’s highly likely you’ll have such a beautiful penis that I’ll like it enough to view your profile) then I’d probably have a look

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If an effort has been made in the first place with their profile, I would be intrigued to know more, but if the profile is bare and bland with no pics and little literature to read then I will delete, block or just reply politely with a "no thank you""

But what if the effort was to keep things simple and see the results?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No intrigue whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. There are hundreds of guys whose profile I can look at and see if I fancy them, I wouldn't waste time messaging someone just to see them.

It also makes me wonder what they have to hide or why they think they're special.

I have profiles with no public pics blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I?

I was hoping through curiosity

But I have nothing to be curious about...if you had a profile pic I liked the look of (no, doesn’t need to be your face...and it’s highly likely you’ll have such a beautiful penis that I’ll like it enough to view your profile) then I’d probably have a look "

Right...... I mean, that makes sense, I completely get you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn"t give a pictureless profile a single glance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. There are hundreds of guys whose profile I can look at and see if I fancy them, I wouldn't waste time messaging someone just to see them.

It also makes me wonder what they have to hide or why they think they're special.

I have profiles with no public pics blocked. "

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I?

I was hoping through curiosity

But I have nothing to be curious about...if you had a profile pic I liked the look of (no, doesn’t need to be your face...and it’s highly likely you’ll have such a beautiful penis that I’ll like it enough to view your profile) then I’d probably have a look

Right...... I mean, that makes sense, I completely get you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. There are hundreds of guys whose profile I can look at and see if I fancy them, I wouldn't waste time messaging someone just to see them.

It also makes me wonder what they have to hide or why they think they're special.

I have profiles with no public pics blocked. "

Not even curious to know what they look like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I?

I was hoping through curiosity

But I have nothing to be curious about...if you had a profile pic I liked the look of (no, doesn’t need to be your face...and it’s highly likely you’ll have such a beautiful penis that I’ll like it enough to view your profile) then I’d probably have a look

Right...... I mean, that makes sense, I completely get you

"

I've set a photo, would you look from just seeing that image?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it makes me feel you have something to hide and such people don't interest me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Added a pic now, would anyone be bothered to look at me now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it makes me feel you have something to hide and such people don't interest me."

That's understandable, I just didn't want to seem vain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I?

I was hoping through curiosity

But I have nothing to be curious about...if you had a profile pic I liked the look of (no, doesn’t need to be your face...and it’s highly likely you’ll have such a beautiful penis that I’ll like it enough to view your profile) then I’d probably have a look

Right...... I mean, that makes sense, I completely get you

I've set a photo, would you look from just seeing that image? "

Probably not...it’s a bit boring sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like? "
I'm intrigued, what do you look like, I know you started this thread to talk to women but you didn't discount us the guys from asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like?

No I’m not bothered. You don’t have a profile pic so I haven’t even viewed your profile to be honest

But I could be someone you might like, you wouldn't even peek at my profile?

No, why would I?

I was hoping through curiosity

But I have nothing to be curious about...if you had a profile pic I liked the look of (no, doesn’t need to be your face...and it’s highly likely you’ll have such a beautiful penis that I’ll like it enough to view your profile) then I’d probably have a look

Right...... I mean, that makes sense, I completely get you

I've set a photo, would you look from just seeing that image?

Probably not...it’s a bit boring sorry! "

That's completely okay!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

No, not even a little bit

So you don't want to know what I look like? I'm intrigued, what do you look like, I know you started this thread to talk to women but you didn't discount us the guys from asking "

I'll inbox you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "
but you've got a profile photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Added a pic now, would anyone be bothered to look at me now? "

Probably not. You can't see any of you, it's basically a pic of a jacket.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? but you've got a profile photo? "

I added one after posting the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Added a pic now, would anyone be bothered to look at me now?

Probably not. You can't see any of you, it's basically a pic of a jacket. "

So you wouldn't want to know what the rest looked like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Added a pic now, would anyone be bothered to look at me now?

Probably not. You can't see any of you, it's basically a pic of a jacket.

So you wouldn't want to know what the rest looked like? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Added a pic now, would anyone be bothered to look at me now?

Probably not. You can't see any of you, it's basically a pic of a jacket.

So you wouldn't want to know what the rest looked like?

Nope"

A shame.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right "

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away..."

Thank you, I can cope with rejection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away..."

All in the message subject title innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away...

All in the message subject title innit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away...

All in the message subject title innit "

Yes but my sensitive spirit recognises his in the answers on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away...

All in the message subject title innit

Yes but my sensitive spirit recognises his in the answers on this thread "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like?

Ignore the advice, if you set yourself a challenge it makes life more interesting. I've actually done that in the past when I was single just in order to work on my messaging, like a fab training exercise.... Doesn't matter if you miss a few opportunities if you're learning all the time

Steve x

Thank you! It does make things a lot more interesting!

But you're completely right

Errm. This depends on your messaging abilities and how much rejection you can cope with. Think carefully before taking this advice. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a sensitive soul who can’t cope with being swished away...

All in the message subject title innit

Yes but my sensitive spirit recognises his in the answers on this thread "

Thank you very much, you're so sweet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once answer a message from a blank avatar profile who had attached pics, sent an intriguing message and had a good profile, but that was one of those weird all the planets had aligned moments and my fairy godmother was jabbing me in the ribs saying, 'go on have a little look'. Was rather a success.

But in general No, I wouldnt have the slightest bit of interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did once answer a message from a blank avatar profile who had attached pics, sent an intriguing message and had a good profile, but that was one of those weird all the planets had aligned moments and my fairy godmother was jabbing me in the ribs saying, 'go on have a little look'. Was rather a success.

But in general No, I wouldnt have the slightest bit of interest "

A shame! Planets might align again soon, so maybe you'll take a look another time

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope, never. I suspect most men who do so are treated suspiciously. I'm willing to bed women who do it still get loads of messages. (Not remotely a complaint, but I bet I'm right). Seeing a profile photo, particularly a face suggests trustworthiness to me, although I totally understand those who feel they can't post one for security reasons with their job etc.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nope, never. I suspect most men who do so are treated suspiciously. I'm willing to bed women who do it still get loads of messages. (Not remotely a complaint, but I bet I'm right). Seeing a profile photo, particularly a face suggests trustworthiness to me, although I totally understand those who feel they can't post one for security reasons with their job etc. "

Willing to bet - doh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, never. I suspect most men who do so are treated suspiciously. I'm willing to bed women who do it still get loads of messages. (Not remotely a complaint, but I bet I'm right). Seeing a profile photo, particularly a face suggests trustworthiness to me, although I totally understand those who feel they can't post one for security reasons with their job etc. "

I don't like how you're untrustworthy if you don't have a pic......

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I get message from blank profile with face pic attached I will have a nosey to read message and rest of profile. Otherwise not interested or curious, not going to waste my time. Usually it’s a mono as it does not feel safe or genuine, seems like person is trying to hide something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did once answer a message from a blank avatar profile who had attached pics, sent an intriguing message and had a good profile, but that was one of those weird all the planets had aligned moments and my fairy godmother was jabbing me in the ribs saying, 'go on have a little look'. Was rather a success.

But in general No, I wouldnt have the slightest bit of interest "

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If I get message from blank profile with face pic attached I will have a nosey to read message and rest of profile. Otherwise not interested or curious, not going to waste my time. Usually it’s a mono as it does not feel safe or genuine, seems like person is trying to hide something. "

I didn’t mean *a mono* but can’t remember how I wanted to start that awkward sentence Damn you autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I get message from blank profile with face pic attached I will have a nosey to read message and rest of profile. Otherwise not interested or curious, not going to waste my time. Usually it’s a mono as it does not feel safe or genuine, seems like person is trying to hide something.

I didn’t mean *a mono* but can’t remember how I wanted to start that awkward sentence Damn you autocorrect "

Bless you! Did you want to say no no?

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If I get message from blank profile with face pic attached I will have a nosey to read message and rest of profile. Otherwise not interested or curious, not going to waste my time. Usually it’s a mono as it does not feel safe or genuine, seems like person is trying to hide something.

I didn’t mean *a mono* but can’t remember how I wanted to start that awkward sentence Damn you autocorrect

Bless you! Did you want to say no no? "

Oh yes, scatter brain

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Yeah it's 50/50...more exciting than pic profiles but ultimately not quite what you expected..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I get message from blank profile with face pic attached I will have a nosey to read message and rest of profile. Otherwise not interested or curious, not going to waste my time. Usually it’s a mono as it does not feel safe or genuine, seems like person is trying to hide something.

I didn’t mean *a mono* but can’t remember how I wanted to start that awkward sentence Damn you autocorrect

Bless you! Did you want to say no no?

Oh yes, scatter brain "

Bless you, that's okay!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah it's 50/50...more exciting than pic profiles but ultimately not quite what you expected.. "

That's a fair point......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. I simply think they're hiding something. Well they are, what they look like but you know what I mean. A profile pic could be of a big toe or a hand holding a Mars bar, but no, some think that may reveal their identity. So when they use that as an excuse I just think they're a bit dim and unimaginative

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I think it's a bit selfish to be on the site and looking at everyone else who has put effort in to show themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it,

I've made the effort to put up a profile picture that I like and write up a profile stating my preference and a bit about me.

If I get messages from someone with no profile picture it sends the opposite message to me of that being intriguing.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

No it's painful and I just delete these days. Too much faffing on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "

I prefer people without pics. It's easy to send via message. They're still people. Pics often only show body parts anyway.

So I'm no more and no less curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Not for me. I simply think they're hiding something. Well they are, what they look like but you know what I mean. A profile pic could be of a big toe or a hand holding a Mars bar, but no, some think that may reveal their identity. So when they use that as an excuse I just think they're a bit dim and unimaginative

P"

This

Jo.Xx

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

No I never look at profiles without a picture as always think it is fake or hiding something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if there's no picture I often don't bother looking at profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondered if not having a profile photo and only sending face pics in messages makes people curious as to know what I look like? "
look at it this way some get so many messages they actually look at some messages and subconsciously look for reasons to delete, no profile pic naaaa, no write up naaaa, 10 cock pics naaaaa,30 veris naaaaa,several action shots naaaa so that's what you're up against, it's in your best interests if you want success to make your profile the best advert it can be, especially if you havnt got a washboard stomach, ink, piercings and a beard

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

No I wouldn't look. So many pictures you could take without giving your identity away. Be as vain as you like, it's your shop window and you want to attract people.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because I wonder if Catherine Deneuve is behind that profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Tbh, I don't even look at profiles without any pics. 90% of the time it'd be a waste of time.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Not the slightest bit interested and any message from a profile without a photo would get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No, I'd skip merrily past OP.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

No....wouldn't even bother opening the msg...

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Not the slightest bit interested and any message from a profile without a photo would get deleted."

Same here!

Av xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile pic just shouts lazy to me. It doesn't have to be your face. Mine seems to intrigue people! I think it also suggests you're not au fait with how to use your phone/modern technology. Both off-putting characteristics tbh.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I think that the OP needs to remember that this is a swinger/sex site and for that there has to be (for most anyway) some kind of physical attraction. Very few would put a scintillating personality above some attraction.

There are hundreds of thousands of single guy profiles on here and (probably) the majority will have a photo or two.

Some may be attractive and some not, but why would anyone bother to waste time on a mystery profile.

We really just can't be bothered.

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By *ostaDelGentMan
over a year ago

rochdale

Just proves to me that you have something to hide

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I think that the OP needs to remember that this is a swinger/sex site and for that there has to be (for most anyway) some kind of physical attraction. Very few would put a scintillating personality above some attraction.

There are hundreds of thousands of single guy profiles on here and (probably) the majority will have a photo or two.

Some may be attractive and some not, but why would anyone bother to waste time on a mystery profile.

We really just can't be bothered. "

us neither! it says to us the profile belongs to someone that cannot be arsed so why should we!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that the OP needs to remember that this is a swinger/sex site and for that there has to be (for most anyway) some kind of physical attraction. Very few would put a scintillating personality above some attraction.

There are hundreds of thousands of single guy profiles on here and (probably) the majority will have a photo or two.

Some may be attractive and some not, but why would anyone bother to waste time on a mystery profile.

We really just can't be bothered.

us neither! it says to us the profile belongs to someone that cannot be arsed so why should we! "
you you certainly the wife anyway has a lovely arse to be arsed about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not even remotely intriguing.

Says a man that has a silhouette himself lol.

But in my case, I'm not looking to meet any more, as a single. So it's not particularly important to me.

If I were looking to meet,I would have a profile pic and public photos.

That said. It still doesn't stop men messaging, with the standard.

"Wanna fuck?"

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I think that the OP needs to remember that this is a swinger/sex site and for that there has to be (for most anyway) some kind of physical attraction. Very few would put a scintillating personality above some attraction.

There are hundreds of thousands of single guy profiles on here and (probably) the majority will have a photo or two.

Some may be attractive and some not, but why would anyone bother to waste time on a mystery profile.

We really just can't be bothered.

us neither! it says to us the profile belongs to someone that cannot be arsed so why should we! you you certainly the wife anyway has a lovely arse to be arsed about"

enjoy while you can that pic was only changed cos i posted on wiggle it wednesday be back to the pic of hubby and me soon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How difficult is it to take a photo and put it on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't entertain anyone with no profile pic, not in the least bit curious or intrested what they look like

Makes me feel like there hiding somthing or fake profile (not saying that's always t case)

But if I'm putting my pictures out there, I expect the same back

Doesn't have 2 b a face pic straight away but like an idea of who I'm communicating with and see they've put effort in like most of uz do x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

There might be a genuine reason. But it does make me wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that the OP needs to remember that this is a swinger/sex site and for that there has to be (for most anyway) some kind of physical attraction. Very few would put a scintillating personality above some attraction.

There are hundreds of thousands of single guy profiles on here and (probably) the majority will have a photo or two.

Some may be attractive and some not, but why would anyone bother to waste time on a mystery profile.

We really just can't be bothered.

us neither! it says to us the profile belongs to someone that cannot be arsed so why should we! you you certainly the wife anyway has a lovely arse to be arsed about

enjoy while you can that pic was only changed cos i posted on wiggle it wednesday be back to the pic of hubby and me soon lol "
damn

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nope, never. I suspect most men who do so are treated suspiciously. I'm willing to bed women who do it still get loads of messages. (Not remotely a complaint, but I bet I'm right). Seeing a profile photo, particularly a face suggests trustworthiness to me, although I totally understand those who feel they can't post one for security reasons with their job etc.

I don't like how you're untrustworthy if you don't have a pic...... "

It'll be the way a lot of people look at it, right or wrong, especially if it's a single males profile. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but not having one will no doubt mean an awful lot of people will pass.

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