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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My ex has this evening sent me a message telling me how she still thinks of us fucking and wants me to come round and "take her"... we split up 8 years ago.

She was a nutty partner who repeatedly hit me and put me down. Needless to say I told her to float and moved out.

To look at she is stunning but in her head she is nuttier than ten tons of squirrel shit.

We're both single but I'm reluctant to go near her because I know how nutty she is.

Do I take a risk for a bit of frisk or do I tell her to finish herself off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeatedly hit you? Why go back for a quick fuck , cop yourself on. Sorry but no one has the right to hit another person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go round there and give her a good seeing to

But just treat it as that because she clearly is

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Run away..... Forest Gump style, do not stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeatedly hit you? Why go back for a quick fuck , cop yourself on. Sorry but no one has the right to hit another person "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Stay clean away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go back to that! I was with an abusive and violent ex, Which still I'm recovering from after three years. You deserve better than a toxic relationship! Don't forget your worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay well away mate! Why would you want to put yourself through that again?!

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

She's trying to mess with your head (& dick admittedly) & manipulate you.

Here's a scenario - you go round there & she laughs in your face for going running when she clicks her fingers.

Seriously - Move. Away. From. The. Nutty. One!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You do know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's trying to mess with your head (& dick admittedly) & manipulate you.

Here's a scenario - you go round there & she laughs in your face for going running when she clicks her fingers.

Seriously - Move. Away. From. The. Nutty. One! "

Got the same thing round me at the moment

Blocks me on her phone then unblocks me because Ascof Racing is coming up tells me to book a hotel room and she’ll meet me there for some dirty filthy sex

and what do I do.....

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"She's trying to mess with your head (& dick admittedly) & manipulate you.

Here's a scenario - you go round there & she laughs in your face for going running when she clicks her fingers.

Seriously - Move. Away. From. The. Nutty. One!

Got the same thing round me at the moment

Blocks me on her phone then unblocks me because Ascof Racing is coming up tells me to book a hotel room and she’ll meet me there for some dirty filthy sex

and what do I do..... "

Am guessing you didn't Move. Away. From. The. Nutty. One!

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By *ingfisher83Man
over a year ago

Soton | Fareham | Portsmouth | Chichester

Simple. Don’t do it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

C'mon gents is a shag worth your dignity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a particular of you didn't think it was a bad idea, you wouldn't be asking us.

You'd also not be asking of a part of you didn't want to do it.

Which is more important? Doing what you want in the moment or doing what you think is probably for the best?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell that Ho, hell No

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Have some respect for your self OP. Step away bravely, hold your head high and don’t go there. Surviving abuse starts with walking away and continues with staying away. Hugs to you.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Simple. Don’t do it."

This.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Tell her to go do one you deserve better than that

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Unless you have kids with this person and need to be in contact for them I'd say block all contact with her.

She sounds manipulative and totally bad news.

Going back to an abusive ex never ends well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex has this evening sent me a message telling me how she still thinks of us fucking and wants me to come round and "take her"... we split up 8 years ago.

She was a nutty partner who repeatedly hit me and put me down. Needless to say I told her to float and moved out.

To look at she is stunning but in her head she is nuttier than ten tons of squirrel shit.

We're both single but I'm reluctant to go near her because I know how nutty she is.

Do I take a risk for a bit of frisk or do I tell her to finish herself off "
After 8 years....... Naaaa leave well alone

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Jesus h .....OP if you had to ask the question with reasons why you shouldn't, I think you already know the answer .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a violent ex out there somewhere. If he messaged asking for sex I would be off to my solicitors to get a new restraining order against him.

Don't go there OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run!!!!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Stay well away!

Av xx

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