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"Husband and I split same way.. we were completely amicable so filed our own documents for a few hundred pounds. We agreed the amount I was owed, he paid me and we contacted the mortgage company. It was very simple but only because we were friends with a clear agreement. Saff" This  | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details." Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. | |||
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"Hello. Log on to the court website. All the necessary papers are there. It doesn't cost much. A few hundred pounds. He won't need a solicitor as long as they agree everything themselves. A solicitor is only necessary if they can't agree or if there are children and access and maintenance needs to be agreed. If they are married they own the house equally but if one partner decides to say 'fuck it - you have it' and signs the house over then it's done..... in 2006 I paid the courts about 300 so in today's money I don't know what that will be. If they can agree then there is no need for solicitors people should realise this. " This one? https://www.gov.uk/apply-for-divorce | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse." Technically in relation to pe sions the other person in entitled to 50% regardless but if she is in agreement then you can have a consent order completed where you declare everything you have and then both parties sign to agree to how it has been split or if one agrees not have the pension. It also means that with a consent order/clean break neither party can come back for money in the future once this has been approved by the court. | |||
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"Hello. Log on to the court website. All the necessary papers are there. It doesn't cost much. A few hundred pounds. He won't need a solicitor as long as they agree everything themselves. A solicitor is only necessary if they can't agree or if there are children and access and maintenance needs to be agreed. If they are married they own the house equally but if one partner decides to say 'fuck it - you have it' and signs the house over then it's done..... in 2006 I paid the courts about 300 so in today's money I don't know what that will be. If they can agree then there is no need for solicitors people should realise this. This one? https://www.gov.uk/apply-for-divorce"Dear God. £550 robbing bastards. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse." Without going into detail I know how fast "amicable" can turn into absolute hatred, so my advice would be to get a legally binding financial agreement in place NOW, even if your friend doesn't want to go down the divorce route yet - without a financial agreement in place either party can backtrack on any verbal agreement at any time and have a legal claim to a share of the assets. To give an extreme example - your friend has verbally agreed to give his ex £50k for her share of the house and assets which is a fair and agreed sum but then wins this Friday's Euromillions and is £20m to the good - without a financial agreement in place for the £50k agreed, the ex would have a legal claim to half of the £20m. Now that in itself wouldn't be so awful, because your friend would still have £10m and may just accept that - however let's say he got made redundant and got a pay out of £50k and was then unable to find another job so needed the money to support himself till he did - the ex would still be able to lay a claim to part of that additional £50k with no legal agreement. So for no other reason than to legally protect himself, your friend should at least get a financial agreement. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Without going into detail I know how fast "amicable" can turn into absolute hatred, so my advice would be to get a legally binding financial agreement in place NOW, even if your friend doesn't want to go down the divorce route yet - without a financial agreement in place either party can backtrack on any verbal agreement at any time and have a legal claim to a share of the assets. To give an extreme example - your friend has verbally agreed to give his ex £50k for her share of the house and assets which is a fair and agreed sum but then wins this Friday's Euromillions and is £20m to the good - without a financial agreement in place for the £50k agreed, the ex would have a legal claim to half of the £20m. Now that in itself wouldn't be so awful, because your friend would still have £10m and may just accept that - however let's say he got made redundant and got a pay out of £50k and was then unable to find another job so needed the money to support himself till he did - the ex would still be able to lay a claim to part of that additional £50k with no legal agreement. So for no other reason than to legally protect himself, your friend should at least get a financial agreement." Sounds like sage advice and on the face of it a legally binding financial agreement looks perfect for this situation, much appreciated. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Technically in relation to pe sions the other person in entitled to 50% regardless but if she is in agreement then you can have a consent order completed where you declare everything you have and then both parties sign to agree to how it has been split or if one agrees not have the pension. It also means that with a consent order/clean break neither party can come back for money in the future once this has been approved by the court. " It's his pension that bothers me the most, he's just not awake to the situation. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse." Although it's all sounding OK at the moment I suspect it won't end up being so. At some point she will (rightly) take some legal advice once presented with signing a settlement and at that point the solicitor will give her good advice. Your obligations are your obligations in divorce (and they are pretty fair really) and although your friend has not taken their pension yet it is already in play. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Technically in relation to pe sions the other person in entitled to 50% regardless but if she is in agreement then you can have a consent order completed where you declare everything you have and then both parties sign to agree to how it has been split or if one agrees not have the pension. It also means that with a consent order/clean break neither party can come back for money in the future once this has been approved by the court. It's his pension that bothers me the most, he's just not awake to the situation. " Any asset, including pensions, endowments etc can be included in a financial agreement. The other option that may be open to him is mediation - which is generally cheaper than a solicitors but still provides a legally binding agreement - if both parties already agree who has what it should be fairly straightforward. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Technically in relation to pe sions the other person in entitled to 50% regardless but if she is in agreement then you can have a consent order completed where you declare everything you have and then both parties sign to agree to how it has been split or if one agrees not have the pension. It also means that with a consent order/clean break neither party can come back for money in the future once this has been approved by the court. It's his pension that bothers me the most, he's just not awake to the situation. " I've just had a meeting about mine. Legally she will be entitled to 50%....absolutely nothing you can do about it if it was contributed to while married!!!! | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Although it's all sounding OK at the moment I suspect it won't end up being so. At some point she will (rightly) take some legal advice once presented with signing a settlement and at that point the solicitor will give her good advice. Your obligations are your obligations in divorce (and they are pretty fair really) and although your friend has not taken their pension yet it is already in play. " He had his chance when she was beside herself with guilt and other factors were in play. Her own life is getting back on track now and may start thinking more clearly. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Without going into detail I know how fast "amicable" can turn into absolute hatred, so my advice would be to get a legally binding financial agreement in place NOW, even if your friend doesn't want to go down the divorce route yet - without a financial agreement in place either party can backtrack on any verbal agreement at any time and have a legal claim to a share of the assets. To give an extreme example - your friend has verbally agreed to give his ex £50k for her share of the house and assets which is a fair and agreed sum but then wins this Friday's Euromillions and is £20m to the good - without a financial agreement in place for the £50k agreed, the ex would have a legal claim to half of the £20m. Now that in itself wouldn't be so awful, because your friend would still have £10m and may just accept that - however let's say he got made redundant and got a pay out of £50k and was then unable to find another job so needed the money to support himself till he did - the ex would still be able to lay a claim to part of that additional £50k with no legal agreement. So for no other reason than to legally protect himself, your friend should at least get a financial agreement." Totally agree with Gemini - get the financial bit sorted 1st - financial remedy order costs about £225 to get through court, there’s templates on line if you want to avoid the solicitors fees. Things change really quickly when theirs money involved and guilt fades, so get it agreed early, and get everything down in black and white, That way no one can come back in years to come and claim part of the pension pot, or more money on the house. The divorce bit is easy - don’t need a solicitor £550 for the nisi & an extra £50 for the absolute. Good luck xx | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Technically in relation to pe sions the other person in entitled to 50% regardless but if she is in agreement then you can have a consent order completed where you declare everything you have and then both parties sign to agree to how it has been split or if one agrees not have the pension. It also means that with a consent order/clean break neither party can come back for money in the future once this has been approved by the court. It's his pension that bothers me the most, he's just not awake to the situation. I've just had a meeting about mine. Legally she will be entitled to 50%....absolutely nothing you can do about it if it was contributed to while married!!!! " As it should be. | |||
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"In all honesty it very much depends on a number of factors - how amicable it really is, whether there are kids involved, whether when push comes to shove one party or the other will want more than what has been agreed previously etc etc. In theory if both parties are in complete agreement about who owes who what, they could go to a solicitor get an agreement drawn up and walk away happy with a fairly minor fee payable to a solicitor for doing the legal stuff - however IF one party doesn't agree and it goes long and drawn out then legal fees can mount up into thousands as both parties argue the toss and eventually end up in court. There are three sides to a divorce, the financial settlement and the divorce itself, plus any contact arrangements for any kids involved if applicable - they are all separate from one another and don't even have to be done at the same time (although I think a financial agreement has to be in place before, or at the same time as a divorce agreement). My advice would be to seek legal advice before doing anything though - most solicitors will offer a free hour to explain the process and go over high level details. Thank Gemini. It's amicable to the point where she's saying just get on with it but he won't do anything about it. She doesn't want anything because she was strayed. I'm pushing him in case she changes her mind at any time. She's got f all, he's got a decent pension coming in the next 3-5 years...which is why I'm pushing him to get this sorted but he's being an arse. Without going into detail I know how fast "amicable" can turn into absolute hatred, so my advice would be to get a legally binding financial agreement in place NOW, even if your friend doesn't want to go down the divorce route yet - without a financial agreement in place either party can backtrack on any verbal agreement at any time and have a legal claim to a share of the assets. To give an extreme example - your friend has verbally agreed to give his ex £50k for her share of the house and assets which is a fair and agreed sum but then wins this Friday's Euromillions and is £20m to the good - without a financial agreement in place for the £50k agreed, the ex would have a legal claim to half of the £20m. Now that in itself wouldn't be so awful, because your friend would still have £10m and may just accept that - however let's say he got made redundant and got a pay out of £50k and was then unable to find another job so needed the money to support himself till he did - the ex would still be able to lay a claim to part of that additional £50k with no legal agreement. So for no other reason than to legally protect himself, your friend should at least get a financial agreement. Totally agree with Gemini - get the financial bit sorted 1st - financial remedy order costs about £225 to get through court, there’s templates on line if you want to avoid the solicitors fees. Things change really quickly when theirs money involved and guilt fades, so get it agreed early, and get everything down in black and white, That way no one can come back in years to come and claim part of the pension pot, or more money on the house. The divorce bit is easy - don’t need a solicitor £550 for the nisi & an extra £50 for the absolute. Good luck xx " Thank you, I'm on the case. | |||
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" Although it's all sounding OK at the moment I suspect it won't end up being so. At some point she will (rightly) take some legal advice once presented with signing a settlement and at that point the solicitor will give her good advice. Your obligations are your obligations in divorce (and they are pretty fair really) and although your friend has not taken their pension yet it is already in play. " I'd agree with this - in my situation, a verbal settlement had been agreed and paid, all done amicably, why involve solicitors and pay them to do something we could agree amicably being the thought process - a few years later on when it was agreed to actually divorce, and this at a time when house prices were rising rapidly, one consultation with a solicitor later, during which she was advised she could get more, and in her words "talked into it by the solicitor" I was facing a further claim for a lot more money, that resulted in astronomical legal fees and a situation that to an extent still impacts me now. Had we of got a financial agreement when we made the amicable agreement that would have been an end to it, and no claim could have been made. | |||
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