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"Just like going to the pub, clubs are not dark and sleazy. Relax , chill out and chat with people , be nice and you will more than likely end up in a rather pleasurable place. Social first and then every thing else is a bonus x " I'm just picturing me entering and getting strange looks as a) no one k kws me and b) I'm not a regular... Pretty daunting going from a popular lad to starting fresh if you know what I mean | |||
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"Try walking in in a dress then, that's always interesting, lol. But seriously , everyone is surprisingly welcoming and friendly. Don't go expecting sex but do go expecting to meet loads of diffrent friendly people, Do take note of the club's dress code and etiquette and no truly means NO !! Xx Chloe xx" Yes of course, like I said I'm a very polite, well presented male. I never have a problem with groups however it's always the icebreaker that's the nerv racking x | |||
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"What should or shouldn't I do / bring / wear / say..." Do: be friendly and respectful. Join in conversations in the bar or hot tub. Read everything on their web site, and look for advice on the sites of other clubs too. Don't: expect anything. Touch without permission. Wear: smart casual to start with. Men can dress down in a towel. I start in trousers and decent shirt, then towel after I've been in the hot tub. It's a very friendly club with a strong social aspect. If you're sat on your own in the bar, there's a chance someone will say hello, but don't rely on that. Keep conversation non-sexual to start with. You'll get a tour when you get there and the rules will be explained. The first time it's probably best to just observe and get to know a few people. Although you might get lucky, so bring condoms. No one wants to play with the guy who doesn't have any condoms. | |||
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"What should or shouldn't I do / bring / wear / say... Do: be friendly and respectful. Join in conversations in the bar or hot tub. Read everything on their web site, and look for advice on the sites of other clubs too. Don't: expect anything. Touch without permission. Wear: smart casual to start with. Men can dress down in a towel. I start in trousers and decent shirt, then towel after I've been in the hot tub. It's a very friendly club with a strong social aspect. If you're sat on your own in the bar, there's a chance someone will say hello, but don't rely on that. Keep conversation non-sexual to start with. You'll get a tour when you get there and the rules will be explained. The first time it's probably best to just observe and get to know a few people. Although you might get lucky, so bring condoms. No one wants to play with the guy who doesn't have any condoms." Great advice dude, thanks. What about stopping over, rooms etc as I'm traveling and would like a few shandies. | |||
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"Following this thread and it’s something on our to do list! G x " Good stuff xx | |||
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"Good evening all, I've plucked up the courage to attend club f on Friday and I was just wondering what to expect... I'm very confident guy however its the not knowing that's creeping me out. What should or shouldn't I do / bring / wear / say... So many things running through my head. This is the first time I have ever been in a place or scene like this so yeah, any help would be appreciated. Yours, Mark. " They are generally.more friendly than an average pub or club, domt fret you'll be fine | |||
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"Good evening all, I've plucked up the courage to attend club f on Friday and I was just wondering what to expect... I'm very confident guy however its the not knowing that's creeping me out. What should or shouldn't I do / bring / wear / say... So many things running through my head. This is the first time I have ever been in a place or scene like this so yeah, any help would be appreciated. Yours, Mark. They are generally.more friendly than an average pub or club, domt fret you'll be fine " Thanks m'dear. I'm sure we've all had the same thaught however x | |||
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"What about stopping over, rooms etc as I'm traveling and would like a few shandies. " Ah, yes! When you get there, ask about "crashing". It's £10 extra (I think). You get a duvet and pillow, and find a bed in a play room after closing. There are hotel rooms on the top floor (they're very nice), but they get booked pretty quickly, and I don't know if people who aren't members yet can book them. The bar sells soft drinks, but not alcohol. You can bring your own alcohol, and they'll keep it behind the bar and serve it to you throughout the night. I'm sure it doesn't need to be said, but don't drink too much. Keep it a long way from being d*unk. D*unk is not attractive. I believe Friday is the beach party. There's probably going to be some food, and games at some point. I recommend joining in the games. They can be fun, and it's a good way to break the ice. I'd be going myself, but Thursday is Curvy Girls night, and two nights in a row is a bit much for me. And one final thought - it's very likely that there will be other new people that night. Introduce yourself, say "I'm new too". You'll have something in common, and they'll be happy to have someone to talk with. | |||
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"What about stopping over, rooms etc as I'm traveling and would like a few shandies. Ah, yes! When you get there, ask about "crashing". It's £10 extra (I think). You get a duvet and pillow, and find a bed in a play room after closing. There are hotel rooms on the top floor (they're very nice), but they get booked pretty quickly, and I don't know if people who aren't members yet can book them. The bar sells soft drinks, but not alcohol. You can bring your own alcohol, and they'll keep it behind the bar and serve it to you throughout the night. I'm sure it doesn't need to be said, but don't drink too much. Keep it a long way from being d*unk. D*unk is not attractive. I believe Friday is the beach party. There's probably going to be some food, and games at some point. I recommend joining in the games. They can be fun, and it's a good way to break the ice. I'd be going myself, but Thursday is Curvy Girls night, and two nights in a row is a bit much for me. And one final thought - it's very likely that there will be other new people that night. Introduce yourself, say "I'm new too". You'll have something in common, and they'll be happy to have someone to talk with." Amazing mate thank you so much.  | |||
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