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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I am an engineer. My cup is neither half full or half empty, merely twice as big as it needs to be

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm ever the optimist. Glass half full x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After everything thats been thrown at me i should be a pessimist but i refuse to let my problems grind me down.... i much prefer to be a glass half full type of person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

Depends if I'm regularly getting any!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Definitely an optimistic glass half full kind of person - was bought up to look on the bright side and for the positives no matter what life throws at you

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

100% optimist if i feel i am a little down i look out over the north yorks moors and think "what a lucky girl i am" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I'm annoyingly optimistic!! Glass is full here ...

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yay that's what I like to hear.

I always think being a pessimist must be such hard work!

Much more fun to be optimistic

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It would be easy for me to be a pessimist... But I fight the urge and 99.9% of the time I'm a glass half full

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Generally pessimistic as I find that optimism just leads to disappointment. As for the glass, if it was full then half of the liquid taken out then it is half empty, while if it was only filled halfway to begin with then its half full.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I err on the side of optimisn

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I am an engineer. My cup is neither half full or half empty, merely twice as big as it needs to be"

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally negative and pessimistic individual

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Totally negative and pessimistic individual "

And why do you think you're like that?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

pessimist For sure. Because of my passed experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m one of those irritatingly cheerful people. i always see the best in people and am the voice of reason when anybody is offended by something that’s happened. I don’t do drama and am permanently optimistic.

People fine me annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimism all the way for me.

At the end of the day we’re all teeny tiny specks built off the very outer core of a small planet in a solar system that is one of millions of billions of solar systems.

Whatever we do, this planet blows up in a few billion years when the sun gives up. We are all so small and insignificant.

So I don’t take anything too serious. I’d rather spend the short life I’ve been gifted with getting naked or laughing.

Or sometimes, if I’m really lucky, both!

Well done on making it through Monday folks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always look on the bright side of life

De dum de dum de dum....

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I’m mostly confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm a realist.

I weigh up options and likelihood

Remember this moment... sometimes, just sometimes... I'm wrong.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

My son will come out tomorrow

I've got a feeling he's gay

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm actually a optimist often mistaken for a pessimist. But that's only because I'm a realist and normally have a firm grasp on a situation and able to make a clear assement of how dire a situation is. So when I tell people how it is, they often think I'm being a pessimist. But I actually massively optimistic and hopeful even in the darkest of situations. I all ways have hope and optimism in mankind even when I see clearly how dark things are.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I’m mostly confused."

Are you being all that you can be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually a optimist often mistaken for a pessimist. But that's only because I'm a realist and normally have a firm grasp on a situation and able to make a clear assement of how dire a situation is. So when I tell people how it is, they often think I'm being a pessimist. But I actually massively optimistic and hopeful even in the darkest of situations. I all ways have hope and optimism in mankind even when I see clearly how dark things are."

I see you. There's no rhyme or reason to blind optimism.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I’m mostly confused.

Are you being all that you can be?"

Nah. I’m actually a genius.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I see you. There's no rhyme or reason to blind optimism."

Schism, jism. Plagiarism

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By *YC SausageMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I’m an Everton fan so have to be an optimist.....otherwise I’d be miserable all the time lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I see you. There's no rhyme or reason to blind optimism."

I disagree, its not just blind optimism, its based on experience. I have been, seen, experienced some pretty dark places and times in my life. And often it has amazed me how often good has come through, how strong peopld can be and how powerful love is, it can save the world (I believe that). I just am always awear of how bad things are too. Sometimes people don't like uncomfortable realities but I like to know, I don't like blissful ignorance. And of course sometimes we don't have good outcomes but I'm not the sort of person that resigns in the face of a bad prognosis.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends on my moodswing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A realist , too happy to be pessimistic and don’t believe in wishing and hoping just for everything to fall into place

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You can be a realist and an optimist, the two aren't mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am optimist that I can shag your anus without you knowing op.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I see you. There's no rhyme or reason to blind optimism.

Tbf, I think he was agreeing with you and saying that blind optimism (not what you’re describing) is something he doesn’t fathom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m optimistically realistic, I know my limitations, but I’m a cheerful contented soul most of the time despite the odd wobble.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I am an engineer. My cup is neither half full or half empty, merely twice as big as it needs to be"

I'm also an engineer, its actually 90 percent bigger , I'm allowing a 10 percent tolerance for expansion

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I have to be an optimist and look forwards and believe that things can change and get better.

I think being a pessimist can be quite depressing and bring you down.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I am an engineer. My cup is neither half full or half empty, merely twice as big as it needs to be

I'm also an engineer, its actually 90 percent bigger , I'm allowing a 10 percent tolerance for expansion

You do have to cater fur redundancy to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

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optimist because I'm always happy and enjoy life nothing ventured nothing gained

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I can be either depending on the situation and my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly optimist although at times it's more of a "fuck it, what ever happens happens".

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I am optimist that I can shag your anus without you knowing op.

Believe me honey I'd want to know about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am optimist that I can shag your anus without you knowing op.

Believe me honey I'd want to know about it

You are giving me too much credit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wether it's half or full glass, I don't hold for long, finish or fill it. Not sure is it pessimist or optimist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Optimist here. World has enough miserable people in it. I’m here to drive them crazy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Optimist here. World has enough miserable people in it. I’m here to drive them crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always hoped I was an optimist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely an eeyore

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'm definitely an eeyore "

Why's that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore "

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I (Fem) am definitely an optimist.. glass half full, more room for vodka

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I (Fem) am definitely an optimist.. glass half full, more room for vodka

My kind of woman

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I’m an optimistic pessimist, I assume everything will be poop but hold onto a vague hope of being proved wrong. Instant win in-spite of reality; if it turns out to be poop, I was correct. If it turns out not to be poop, I’m happy to be wrong.

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?"

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol"

Yeah I know her. Everyone’s friend

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

Eeyore or Annie?

And what makes you think that way?

I like your thinking

My wise old dad always says prepare for the worst, hope for the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol

Yeah I know her. Everyone’s friend

I'm just a naturally negative person. Always look on the bad side of things. Its a habit thats hard to break

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I see you. There's no rhyme or reason to blind optimism.

Tbf, I think he was agreeing with you and saying that blind optimism (not what you’re describing) is something he doesn’t fathom. "

I didn't get that. I'm always reading things and people the wrong way. I see now, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol

Yeah I know her. Everyone’s friend

I'm just a naturally negative person. Always look on the bad side of things. Its a habit thats hard to break"

But not a bad one. Team up with an optimistic and as a couple you’ll be realists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol

Yeah I know her. Everyone’s friend

I'm just a naturally negative person. Always look on the bad side of things. Its a habit thats hard to break

But not a bad one. Team up with an optimistic and as a couple you’ll be realists

Most men are optimists when they're trying to get in your knickers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol

Yeah I know her. Everyone’s friend

I'm just a naturally negative person. Always look on the bad side of things. Its a habit thats hard to break

But not a bad one. Team up with an optimistic and as a couple you’ll be realists

Most men are optimists when they're trying to get in your knickers lol"

There’s optimism and pure unrealistic thinking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm definitely an eeyore

Well the name did sort of give it away a tiny bit. What’s up then darling?

My name is based on a character that i liked, called Ruby Gloom. Wasn't representative of my mood at the time lol

Yeah I know her. Everyone’s friend

I'm just a naturally negative person. Always look on the bad side of things. Its a habit thats hard to break

But not a bad one. Team up with an optimistic and as a couple you’ll be realists

Most men are optimists when they're trying to get in your knickers lol

There’s optimism and pure unrealistic thinking..."

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Optimist 100%

No time for being negative in this world! We’re not here for a long time, we’re here for a good time

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

I'm a Dr Pepperist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always hope that things will end up better than I think they'll be...

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By *innie The Minx OP Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I'm a Dr Pepperist

What's the worst that could happen?

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

"I'm a Dr Pepperist

What's the worst that could happen?

Which usually precedes 'Oh shoite. Never thought of that'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally negative and pessimistic individual

And why do you think you're like that?"

Because I tell the truth, coupled with my life's experiences. I am however coping somehow

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Life has been traumatic at times ... very much so but I’m an optimist ... Law of Attraction ... your thoughts are things ... so I’m a glass always dull type of person .. it’s not easy but it works

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By *aughtyforcouplesMan
over a year ago

exeter

100% optimist, sometimes things don't work out as you had planned, its very rarely personal, change your angle of attack and go again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100% optimist, sometimes things don't work out as you had planned, its very rarely personal, change your angle of attack and go again!

That's all very well for you to say. I have my faith now which is helping me

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