FabSwingers.com forum: Wouldn't it be nice?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What things would improve your Fab experience?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

This is going to sound smug or something like it - but honestly I don't think there's anything - the site works for me as it is, has surpassed any expectations I had when I joined, has meant I have got to know some lovely people, some of which I am proud to call friends and so very much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More people appreciated that I’m such a fucking babe.

I’m totally under appreciated

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'd be more than happy if it was left just as it is. No need to tinker with it or make changes just for the sake of it.

It's working really well for me so I'd like it to carry on the same.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People read profiles. I didn’t know quite how bad it was, my old single profile didn't really have any specific "looking for" but I'm shocked by how many messages we're getting from straight men despite our profile stating we only want to meet bi guys.

Dotty x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

You mean this isn't Dial-a-Shag??

Goddammit... why weren't we told???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people appreciated that I’m such a fucking babe.

I’m totally under appreciated

Aw come on, if men call women 'babe', women get upset on here

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You mean this isn't Dial-a-Shag??

Goddammit... why weren't we told???"

Must have missed that part of the contract.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Being able to take a photo of myself for my profile that I don't hate.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"This is going to sound smug or something like it - but honestly I don't think there's anything - the site works for me as it is, has surpassed any expectations I had when I joined, has meant I have got to know some lovely people, some of which I am proud to call friends and so very much more."

I’d have to agree with this

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also wish people would build up to kinks. "I'm into x, might you be too?" fine. "I'm going to x your y and do things (that even reading them makes me go a bit

)"... Not fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being able to take a photo of myself for my profile that I don't hate."

Nine people seem to like your body according to your verifications

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I also wish people would build up to kinks. "I'm into x, might you be too?" fine. "I'm going to x your y and do things (that even reading them makes me go a bit

)"... Not fine. "

I mean

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

That guys would read the profile and not try to get to me alone, it just ain't gonna happen.

Jo x

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"More people appreciated that I’m such a fucking babe.

I’m totally under appreciated

I immediately thought that you were a babe

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

People act on advice they're given when they've asked for it

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm fine with it the way it is but that's usually my approach to most things. I'll just go with the flow so yo speak.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People act on advice they're given when they've asked for it

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

A teleporter would be very handy :-

Failing that, a private jet

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"People act on advice they're given when they've asked for it

I told you I couldn't get it in no matter how much I jiggle it!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"People act on advice they're given when they've asked for it

Can lead a horse to water but can't make him think

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"People act on advice they're given when they've asked for it

I told you I couldn't get it in no matter how much I jiggle it!

Need to stretch more my dear

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'm unsure how to achieve it but basically what "_naswingdress" says.... I'd think the biggest improvement would be people treating those that they write to as humans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video."

Those last two are awful ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More people appreciated that I’m such a fucking babe.

I’m totally under appreciated

I immediately thought that you were a babe

You’re a clever man

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Yeah I'd disable any of those in a New York minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse "

Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse "

Babe I gotta smash ya back door in. (phone number)

(types of messages I get in my inbox which make me feel sick/are sometimes illegal and it's bad enough that I have to see it)

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse

Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get

Don't make me imagine that

I'd need a mile of mental floss to get rid of the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse

Babe I gotta smash ya back door in. (phone number)

(types of messages I get in my inbox which make me feel sick/are sometimes illegal and it's bad enough that I have to see it) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could be bothered to make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse

Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get

Don't make me imagine that

I'd need a mile of mental floss to get rid of the idea"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the other guys left

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

Those last two are awful ideas

Agree picture comments would be . . So open to abuse

Imagine videos.....think of how many cock pics you get. Now imagine the videos you’d get

Cum shot to Chariots of Fire

In a swing dress in a swing dress mmmm *groan*

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video."

By the gods, no. Can you imagine the comments from entitled, angry men?

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Better social-style feed with reactions. Comments on pictures. Adding video.

By the gods, no. Can you imagine the comments from entitled, angry men? "

Guy loves all my pictures.

Stupid message. I delete.

Guy un-loves all my pictures and adds a negative reaction.

It already happens with Fabbing

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I've had several unpleasant comments to my inbox, and I'm a man.... I can't imagine what a comments feed for the ladies would be like...

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've had several unpleasant comments to my inbox, and I'm a man.... I can't imagine what a comments feed for the ladies would be like... "

I can

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Women liked me

K (fem)

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

So what you’re saying is there’s a chance?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

If I could press a button on people’s profile to:

a) instantly materialise them in my bedroom consenting to anything I choose, thinking I’m the most delicious sexual being they’ve ever set eyes on

b) instantly cause them wherever they are to continuously fall over for ten minutes, or shake vigorously and throw their hands in the air and shout ‘hallelujah’, or ‘I’m a feminist’, or have their clothes disappear and them sing Agadoo

That just might improve things for me.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Guess I was thinking of FL site and I quite like some of the features there. But perhaps the crowd is better behaved there. Or maybe people behave a bit better if things are more public and not just pm. You make good points though.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If I could press a button on people’s profile to:

a) instantly materialise them in my bedroom consenting to anything I choose, thinking I’m the most delicious sexual being they’ve ever set eyes on

That just might improve things for me.

Omg

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Guess I was thinking of FL site and I quite like some of the features there. But perhaps the crowd is better behaved there. Or maybe people behave a bit better if things are more public and not just pm. You make good points though.

It wouldn't work here unfortunately. There is not enough bleach or fire to cleanse that.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Fab functionality is fine. It's some if the users who are clueless...

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Being able to take a photo of myself for my profile that I don't hate.

Nine people seem to like your body according to your verifications

Thanks

It's not the body that I hate, just the photos. I must have bought the camera with a built-in serial killer filter.

Another site added the ability to post photos in chat. Including private chats. That are by default enabled from everyone. You can guess what happened.

Comments on photos might work if they're done like verifications - the photo-owner chooses which ones to publish.

I often see a status that I like, and would like to interact with in some way. But sending mail feels far too intrusive. Being able to like a status would be nice. Facebook-style comments would be good too, if it could be done in a way that doesn't invite abuse.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd really like a button that you can choose to pick up and you click it to say "yes, I want to fuck this person."

Obviously I *could* ask but reading things in connection to me is complicated so a simple yes/no button will a) sate my wondering and b) save me the potential embarrassment of asking.

Other than that my fab life is great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More watermelons than men would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What things would improve your Fab experience? "

Nothing as if i felt it needed improving i would try my best to do it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha meeting the people of my dreams and not time wasters and people pretending they are a different sex... really does get confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy on the eye, it'll do for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot really. Except perhaps being able to know if someone has quoted one of your posts on the forum.

I would love some of the cretinous behaviour to stop but even contemplating the possibility is why I llive in Cloud Cuckoo Land.

I like the site’s simplicity even if it is a bit antiquated.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I like the site’s simplicity even if it is a bit antiquated."

So do I

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I like the site’s simplicity even if it is a bit antiquated.

So do I "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More men in my area who I find attractive who are actually available and willing to meet regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less fuckwits!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Less fuckwits!

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You are wonderful

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Less fuckwits!

There will always be cock-wombles ... thus endeth the lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less fuckwits!

asshats u mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. "
Just don't take too long over giving that consent, we haven't got all day! Well maybe you can have a day and a half!

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Mine is, people respecting my wishes and basic humanity. Which is such a fucking horrible thing to have to say, but... there it is. People want to have sex with me who can't be bothered to treat me like a person with a right to consent. Just don't take too long over giving that consent, we haven't got all day! Well maybe you can have a day and a half!

Ha. My no usually happens pretty quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather like it just as it is....

But then I am a bit analogue

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If you could put a filter on that you could only see women who will fuck now, accomadation/pay the full hotel bill, give one way gratification and provide a light snack? That would be great thank you.

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Single guys having more realistic and honest opinions of themselves! If you can't pull a stunner in the real world, don't expect to on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could put a filter on that you could only see women who will fuck now, accomadation/pay the full hotel bill, give one way gratification and provide a light snack? That would be great thank you."
only a light snack? Have some self respect man!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think i'd change anything, as the site works the way i thought it would.If i felt fab stopped working the way i'm happy with,or the negatives outweighed the positives then i would simply leave the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works well.. the single male block on the message is a god send that i discovered too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Works well.. the single male block on the message is a god send that i discovered too late.

How was your profile picture allowed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What things would improve your Fab experience? "

Nothing...

It works for me and when it doesn't, i disappear..

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

A 'no thanks' button that sends a short polite 'no thank you' reply message to the sender and which also blocks the sender once they have read it.

or something like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 'no thanks' button that sends a short polite 'no thank you' reply message to the sender and which also blocks the sender once they have read it.

or something like that!"

Have admin rename the block button as the 'No Thanks' button.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A filter button on forum threads so you can ignore the annoying c£&@ would be VERY useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Works well.. the single male block on the message is a god send that i discovered too late.

How was your profile picture allowed ?

Im the chosen one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems like a lot of you are saying you want single men here, but what you all deem as the right sort of single men.

It comes back to the old thing, you can only control your own experience, not others. Isn’t that what we say when single men complain about their experiences here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems like a lot of you are saying you want single men here, but what you all deem as the right sort of single men.

It comes back to the old thing, you can only control your own experience, not others. Isn’t that what we say when single men complain about their experiences here?"

I'm with you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Works well.. the single male block on the message is a god send that i discovered too late.

How was your profile picture allowed ?

Im the chosen one

You saved our lives, we are eternally grateful!

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It seems like a lot of you are saying you want single men here, but what you all deem as the right sort of single men.

It comes back to the old thing, you can only control your own experience, not others. Isn’t that what we say when single men complain about their experiences here?"

People can do what they like. I don't have to like it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"What things would improve your Fab experience?

Nothing...

It works for me and when it doesn't, i disappear.."

Same here, it works well for me. If it gets stale I'll skedaddle. Currently it's still fun

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