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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been feeling a bit meh for a few days, finally the court has found my divorce paperwork so I’ve been able to file for my decree nisi. But I’ve felt not sorry about it but like I’ve failed.

It’s totally the right decision as it was an emotionally abusive relationship, but I always thought marriage was for life. I know I will get over it but don’t like feeling this way. Any tips to get past this quickly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You didn't fail beaut.

YOU were failed by him.

You succeeded hugely in making yourself and your boys safe.

P

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Sometimes you just can’t make it work no matter how much you try

Hugs Angie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember you're important too. Any doubts you have over ending things are because of others but the people who matter will only be happy when you are.

You're a strong woman and you'll get there, you've got so much more happiness ahead of you x

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Go paintballing and hurt people.

Works for me!

(Major stress relief)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You didn't fail beaut.

YOU were failed by him.

You succeeded hugely in making yourself and your boys safe.

P"

Thanks peach, yes I know just that catholic upbringing tears it’s head occasionally x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes you just can’t make it work no matter how much you try

Hugs Angie x"

Thanks DC, very true I tried more years than I should have x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remember you're important too. Any doubts you have over ending things are because of others but the people who matter will only be happy when you are.

You're a strong woman and you'll get there, you've got so much more happiness ahead of you x"

Thanks Rubi, yes my kids are much happier and safer now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go paintballing and hurt people.

Works for me!

(Major stress relief)"

Ha ha, if I had a pic of him for target practice that would help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You so didn’t fail. I’ve been where you are now. Walk away with your head held high and move onto bigger and better things. Take this time to find who you really are and gain in strength from it. Your stronger than you think so dig deep find your inner strength and make new happy memories in your life story. Ps- have plenty fun in the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You so didn’t fail. I’ve been where you are now. Walk away with your head held high and move onto bigger and better things. Take this time to find who you really are and gain in strength from it. Your stronger than you think so dig deep find your inner strength and make new happy memories in your life story. Ps- have plenty fun in the way "

Thanks, I have done. And I’m having lots of fun and great sex now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You didn't fail beaut.

YOU were failed by him.

You succeeded hugely in making yourself and your boys safe.

P

Thanks peach, yes I know just that catholic upbringing tears it’s head occasionally x "

Well as far as I'm concerned, something that dictates you should remain in danger, in sadness, or anything instead of happy is dangerous, and not something to fret over.

That's my opinion.

I know a few that have Catholic upbringings, and I ask them this.... would you be happy if your child lived years unhappily when there was a big world out there with their name on it, or would you prefer they remained in a marriage that they didn't want to remain in.... in the name of Catholicism?

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You didn't fail beaut.

YOU were failed by him.

You succeeded hugely in making yourself and your boys safe.

P

Thanks peach, yes I know just that catholic upbringing tears it’s head occasionally x

Well as far as I'm concerned, something that dictates you should remain in danger, in sadness, or anything instead of happy is dangerous, and not something to fret over.

That's my opinion.

I know a few that have Catholic upbringings, and I ask them this.... would you be happy if your child lived years unhappily when there was a big world out there with their name on it, or would you prefer they remained in a marriage that they didn't want to remain in.... in the name of Catholicism?

P"

Thanks p, I know you’re right x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It takes strength and bravery to get away from an abusive situation.

You've not only done the right thing by you, but the right thing by your kids as well.

You and them deserve so much better and you've helped make that a reality.

Failure?

Hell no.

You're a survivor x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It takes strength and bravery to get away from an abusive situation.

You've not only done the right thing by you, but the right thing by your kids as well.

You and them deserve so much better and you've helped make that a reality.

Failure?

Hell no.

You're a survivor x"

Thanks, I have survived x

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