FabSwingers.com forum: That one that got away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have someone who you were very compatible with, but something happened and it ended?

But then every few months or years you run into each other and realise that horny spark is still there but you can't do anything about it?

You thought they didn't want you- or even hated you- but they d*unkenly admit they still want to fuck you. And remind you about the fun things you did together.

Head fuck.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh that’s really a minefield of emotions.

Hope you’re okay xx

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Most definitely I(monkey) have.

Red knows .. knows we're still good friends and has suggested I ask the person ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I try to avoid seeing her at all costs, I've seen her coming my way in town and pegged it

It brings back a wave emotions and I don't like it.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Yes, I try to avoid seeing her at all costs, I've seen her coming my way in town and pegged it

It brings back a wave emotions and I don't like it."

By pegged it ... you mean ran I assume ...

Cos in here... that could mean a whole different response to seeing her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I try to avoid seeing her at all costs, I've seen her coming my way in town and pegged it

It brings back a wave emotions and I don't like it.

By pegged it ... you mean ran I assume ...

Cos in here... that could mean a whole different response to seeing her

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Massive head fuck. Sorry to read you're going through this Op.

Mine is still in Aberdeen. Well Cults but that's basically Aberdeen. Thank fuck for that or it could be a right twatting 'mare to deal with.

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Oh yes. 25yrs we have been dabbling with each other. We have both travelled half way round the world to keep our liaison going. As recently four weeks ago when she travelled from Oz & we had 36hrs of passion together. We are still hot on each other but she is still married to the same guy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I try to avoid seeing her at all costs, I've seen her coming my way in town and pegged it

It brings back a wave emotions and I don't like it.

By pegged it ... you mean ran I assume ...

Cos in here... that could mean a whole different response to seeing her

Ran,very quickly

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. But mine was a non starter before anything deeper happened, thankfully x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh that’s really a minefield of emotions.

Hope you’re okay xx"

Thank you. I'm not sure whether to be flattered or annoyed that he told me.

Nothing will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

We met for a coffee a few weeks ago, many years after parting. Still feel a bit wistful about what might have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one

I adored him for years , he then got married and emailed me a week before just to tell me how much he cared

It was what I needed to let him go in a way

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yep.

Two.

They surface every now and then.

Both now live other side of the world now but the last time I knew one was home I left town for a week.

I've not seen him for 10 years but I just couldn't risk the heartache.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

He have been messing with me constantly. We dated and than he broke it all off before Christmas, later told me he is dating someone.. Than in few weeks told me it’s over and if I would like to have NSA as he is not up to relationship and of course silly me said , yes, as it was best sex in my life... We were having sex for like a year and than he told me he didn’t break up with this girl and actually it’s getting more serious so he cannot see me anymore... I was heart broken

and now every time he is d*unk he still texts and calls... Now it’s been 5 years of messing but I’m too week to say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He have been messing with me constantly. We dated and than he broke it all off before Christmas, later told me he is dating someone.. Than in few weeks told me it’s over and if I would like to have NSA as he is not up to relationship and of course silly me said , yes, as it was best sex in my life... We were having sex for like a year and than he told me he didn’t break up with this girl and actually it’s getting more serious so he cannot see me anymore... I was heart broken

and now every time he is d*unk he still texts and calls... Now it’s been 5 years of messing but I’m too week to say no. "

Can you block him?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

and now every time he is d*unk he still texts and calls... Now it’s been 5 years of messing but I’m too week to say no. "

Block, block, block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah there was one for me. He had lied about his situation when we first started seeing each other, when we stopped we agreed to stay friends but we found that eventually the other side started weaving it's way in again so we decided to cut all contact. Although we ended up chatting again but it's strictly nothing sexual

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yep, met him for coffee a few week. I still feel the same and he’s in yet ANOTHER failed relationship

It’s a non starter for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Has happened to me a couple of times. Sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise. Other times, just need to accept it.

At least you’ll have good memories. The memories help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday, I set off on my motorbike it started pissing down, she let me down,

Wet in the the wrong ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep. Has happened to me a couple of times. Sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise. Other times, just need to accept it.

At least you’ll have good memories. The memories help.

Aww Pops.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Yep it happened to me so now I’m too scared to meet anyone again

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By *oo!Woman
over a year ago

aldershot

"Yep it happened to me so now I’m too scared to meet anyone again

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same as.me, just do not want that hurt again

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

"Do you have someone who you were very compatible with, but something happened and it ended?

But then every few months or years you run into each other and realise that horny spark is still there but you can't do anything about it?

You thought they didn't want you- or even hated you- but they d*unkenly admit they still want to fuck you. And remind you about the fun things you did together.

Head fuck.

Oh gosh ..

Sort of .. but he died

so I dont get to do the bumping into xx

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh that’s really a minefield of emotions.

Hope you’re okay xx

Thank you. I'm not sure whether to be flattered or annoyed that he told me.

Nothing will happen."

Be flattered. Annoyed just grinds you down. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. That would do my head in as that's too much like game playing. I like things out in the open. Spit it out and say what needs to be said whether welcome or not, or walk

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't. I also think that if people want to be together they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took us 7 years to finally get together, got there in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is. If it can't be then it's fantasy unfortunately

Steve x

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

and now every time he is d*unk he still texts and calls... Now it’s been 5 years of messing but I’m too week to say no.

Can you block him? "

I can block him on my phone but he keeps me blocked on his Facebook and Instagram and can unblock me any time. Once he told me he is going to block my number and delete but there he was back after 3 month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gosh yes I have. I really have a soft spot for him. It was about 6 years ago. We follow each other on Instagram. He really does have a little part of my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of know the feeling but have yet to bump into him. I often worry that I will and I'm worried about how I'd feel.

I recently found out that hes got engaged and my emotions are mixed there two.

I'd probably still have sex with him if he asked. That was always amazing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you have someone who you were very compatible with, but something happened and it ended?

But then every few months or years you run into each other and realise that horny spark is still there but you can't do anything about it?

You thought they didn't want you- or even hated you- but they d*unkenly admit they still want to fuck you. And remind you about the fun things you did together.

Head fuck.

Oh gosh ..

Sort of .. but he died

so I dont get to do the bumping into xx "

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes totally

We always seem to bump into each other at really crowded events it’s as though we always find our way back to each other.

We sometimes send an odd flirty text and you can just tell there’s unfinished business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have someone who you were very compatible with, but something happened and it ended?

But then every few months or years you run into each other and realise that horny spark is still there but you can't do anything about it?

You thought they didn't want you- or even hated you- but they d*unkenly admit they still want to fuck you. And remind you about the fun things you did together.

Head fuck.

It's a terrible felling op and am with you and feel you on this at this minuite and second in time right now. Remember the good times you shared with one and other! Some things are inevitable and nothing can be done about that but we all have a journey that is destined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they told me whilst pissed up, I'd be thinking they were just saying it coz their penis was filled with alcohol fuelled horn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have someone who you were very compatible with, but something happened and it ended?

But then every few months or years you run into each other and realise that horny spark is still there but you can't do anything about it?

You thought they didn't want you- or even hated you- but they d*unkenly admit they still want to fuck you. And remind you about the fun things you did together.

Head fuck.

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Yes 2 come to mind

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Never ran into any of my exes ever

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have a couple of ex's like this..... And yes, we have had the odd get together as purely friends and ended up doing the horizontal nekkid dance (and vertical, diagonal and various other kinds!)

Sadly when you have *THAT* connection with someone I don't think it ever leaves and the sex is just too good for either of you to want to miss out on.

It's not right and it's generally not ok, but we do it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate, I'd say there's 3 people I can think of that I feel that way about

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