FabSwingers.com forum: Big bum??

By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was someone saying it maliciously it wouldn't bother me because it's true. If a certain someone said they want to grab my big bum and fuck me hard from behind I'd be like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I mostly take it as a compliment!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind fat or big.

It could be an insult depending on the intent behind it. If it was meant to hurt/upset me I'd laugh because it's true. Sometimes people say things bluntly and mean it in a nice way. My friend tells me he loves to see my big arse bounce as we fuck. Compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I probably would. I can say it but nobody else can. I wouldn’t say it to anyone else either, even if I thought it. I’m honest but I wouldn’t risk hurting someone’s feelings by being so.

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

It was meant as a compliment when I said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how its said and who by

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's probably not the best way to put it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm not offended by facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be offended but I wouldn't take it as a compliment either.

It's not something I'd say to someone either, most grown ups know that people can be sensitive about the size of some body parts so I'd never use words that point them out.

Saying "you have a nice bum" is the same as saying "you have a nice big bum" without the risk of a slap in the face.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Shapely, curvy, attractive.

I've recently been getting you obviously squat

(yes I do).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was meant as a compliment when I said it "

Oh no have you upset someone

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

As others have said it depends who says it and in what context its said x

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"It was meant as a compliment when I said it

Oh no have you upset someone

Yeh think so. Wasn't the intention at all she had a great arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a big bum

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I wouldn't use it as an opening message chap.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd avoid size comments in general tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in context and not malicious is fine I’d say

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"I love a big bum "

This

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts "

Nope!

I personally love having a big, peachy, round - or fat - bum!

People can use any adjective they like tbh! As I’m not huge in the boobage department it’s probably what makes me most womanly - along with my hair!

However - I guess if I thought it was too big and was trying to trim it down along with the rest of me - I might be more self conscious about it and more likely to react badly to comments I deemed negative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts "

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

Yeah, I can see why to be fair. You have a fantastic bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

Your bum is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts "

nah i know mines fat

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It depends how it's said. If I was feeling fat and hormonal and someone said it, I'd probably take it as an insult. Know your audience

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Just call it a perfect bum, no insults taken then whether big or not. Personally I love a ladies bum no matter what, just wish they would show me!! Lol.

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By *c4fun OP Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

Yeh that's an incredible bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

Yeah, I can see why to be fair. You have a fantastic bum.

Aww thank you hun

. Maybe you should come and sample it in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

Your bum is amazing"

Thank you sweet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies would you class this is an insult if someone said you had a big bum? Fat I understand but big?

What's your thoughts

Nope. Love people complimenting me on my booty

Yeh that's an incredible bum"

Hehe. Stop it now. Thanks for noticing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow ur arse is absolutely perfect! Would love to get my hands on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow ur arse is absolutely perfect! Would love to get my hands on that

Hands,tongue,teeth,cock. All over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always describe my ass as big so I wouldn't get offended as it would be a bit stupid, wouldn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a big bum but I've had worse insults lol

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By *orsche40Couple
over a year ago

northwich

Can’t hide mine away even if I wanted to so take any comments as a compliment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd laugh because I don't have one

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

https://youtu.be/X53ZSxkQ3Ho

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think size comments are asking for trouble ..sex .cute .. spankable.. far better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a big ass. I'm not offended by someone saying its big or fat though. I actually want a bigger ass

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Speaking as a man (sorry ladies only thread) I will say a lot of women have admitted to me that their bum is big or say "it's big isn't it". I love big bums on a woman so it must be a case of their 6th sense knows this! Ladies, be proud of your big bum. I love them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a woman friend, while trying on a new pair of jeans, asks you if her 'bum looks big in this' what should the correct answer be? I've always fallen down here, usually with an 'errrm'.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"So if a woman friend, while trying on a new pair of jeans, asks you if her 'bum looks big in this' what should the correct answer be? I've always fallen down here, usually with an 'errrm'.

Tell them whether it flatters them or not. That's a question to swerve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't usually take it as an insult but it does depend on who said it and the tone they use. I think most of the time it is meant as a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a woman friend, while trying on a new pair of jeans, asks you if her 'bum looks big in this' what should the correct answer be? I've always fallen down here, usually with an 'errrm'.

Tell them whether it flatters them or not. That's a question to swerve. "

Genius, thanks. Why didn't i think of that.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"If it was someone saying it maliciously it wouldn't bother me because it's true. If a certain someone said they want to grab my big bum and fuck me hard from behind I'd be like

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I’ve got a big fat bum and I have zero issues with someone respectfully complimenting it, but you have to bear in mind that not everyone is as confident.

Compliments should be carefully applied depending on who you’re talking to, if you’re worried then don’t say it and maybe take a different approach. Otherwise you go ahead!

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"So if a woman friend, while trying on a new pair of jeans, asks you if her 'bum looks big in this' what should the correct answer be? I've always fallen down here, usually with an 'errrm'.

I think there's a generation gap here

25yrs ago one may lie and say, no not really

But now, you can be truthful and say, I thought they were meant to be skin tight, there just dropping off you

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

As per my profile I have a big arse.

I can hardly pretend it's a small arse and as it has it's own fanclub it doesn't bother me in the least

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"As per my profile I have a big arse.

I can hardly pretend it's a small arse and as it has it's own fanclub it doesn't bother me in the least

Re the fan club, one could always open up the new SE branch of your big backside fan club.

I was just saying

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"As per my profile I have a big arse.

I can hardly pretend it's a small arse and as it has it's own fanclub it doesn't bother me in the least

Re the fan club, one could always open up the new SE branch of your big backside fan club.

I was just saying

You want to be treasurer?

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"As per my profile I have a big arse.

I can hardly pretend it's a small arse and as it has it's own fanclub it doesn't bother me in the least

Re the fan club, one could always open up the new SE branch of your big backside fan club.

I was just saying

You want to be treasurer?"

No, (Q.C.O.D)

Quality Control Operation Director.

Just to make sure that what the patrons are subscribing to is to EU legislation rule 22:4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here I mostly take it as a compliment!"

Just looked at your profile you got a great shape

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