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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People with no verifications

Fake????

Advice please

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Or they've just not met anyone yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily. You start off with none so even the non fakes have none for a while.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Or they don't want to show veris

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some are, some aren't. Use your judgement and other evidence presented to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if its over a year then just wankers

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If they are new it's understandable.

I have seen some who have been on a year or more with none, that makes me suspicious.

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By *lutty_FetgeekWoman
over a year ago

Wallasey

Never trust anyone who isn't photo verified at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm newish to this and I have none yet but I'm no fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm relatively new on here. Been photo verified but not had any opportunity to be 'properly' verified. I'm a perfect example of a genuine person not verified. I'd love help with this btw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spurious.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd give more leeway for men unverified for over a certain period of time, but a year is my cutoff point.

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By *arsharkMan
over a year ago

Burnley


"But if its over a year then just wankers"
not true, it’s taken me years to get my first veri. It’s near impossible for single blokes and in the end I had to go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here last time, I had met a handful of people in the first year but asked not to verify me as I really don’t like having them. It’s not always the case of someone is fake.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think anyone is denying that it's hard for men, but a year is a very long time not to work out cam veris or clubs or how to message differently to get attention.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I'd give more leeway for men unverified for over a certain period of time, but a year is my cutoff point. "

Agree with you. I also find guys who have been on over a year & have not been verified questionable. I know meets can sometimes take a while but a year with no meets always makes me wonder why

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Some are... Some aren't.

Some verified profiles can even be fake.

What makes someone fake to you?

Their photos?

Not replying to messages?

Not meeting?

The thing to remember is that despite what the cliché says, we are not all here for the same thing, and some folk may not have the same interests or intent when using Fab or similar platforms. This doesn't make them fake, it just means they're incompatible with you and your interests and intent. To genuinely be a Fab fake, there has to be intent to deceive, whether by uploading someone else's photos, by arranging meets and not turning up, or by trying to extort money, goods, or services by duplicitous means.

Is someone who is still using their own Fab photos from 10 years ago, or taking photos from a 'kind' angle a fake? No... Just a bit deluded

Is someone who won't engage in sexting when you feel horny a fake? No... They're just enjoying an actual conversation with someone else

People get called fake for lots of reasons.... And sometimes those reasons are the fakest thing of all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I m photo verified but I dont actually bother with verifications, don t read them, dont really want them.. I like to make up my own mind, go with my gut.. Never read a veri yet, not interested in otger peoples opinions about someone but that s just me.. Meant in best possible way I regularly have chat on here, erotic, sexy chat, odd sexy phone call, and have met and ennoyed people on here but have never been verified as I ve not verified them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are... Some aren't.

Some verified profiles can even be fake.

What makes someone fake to you?

Their photos?

Not replying to messages?

Not meeting?

The thing to remember is that despite what the cliché says, we are not all here for the same thing, and some folk may not have the same interests or intent when using Fab or similar platforms. This doesn't make them fake, it just means they're incompatible with you and your interests and intent. To genuinely be a Fab fake, there has to be intent to deceive, whether by uploading someone else's photos, by arranging meets and not turning up, or by trying to extort money, goods, or services by duplicitous means.

Is someone who is still using their own Fab photos from 10 years ago, or taking photos from a 'kind' angle a fake? No... Just a bit deluded

Is someone who won't engage in sexting when you feel horny a fake? No... They're just enjoying an actual conversation with someone else

People get called fake for lots of reasons.... And sometimes those reasons are the fakest thing of all "

Bang on, well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are fake. If there's no verification text showing- fake. No veri summary showing- fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they are fake. If there's no verification text showing- fake. No veri summary showing- fake."

I’m a fake through and through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first came on fab as a couple around 10yrs ago it took us a year of meandering around before deciding to meet and we were not fake.

I meet woman but wouldn't entertain meeting one that doesn't have some type of veri either by meet or pic as a lot of men pretend to be woman

However I've met men who are not verified

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone won't to buy some of mine I got loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to show mine and im very real haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they are fake. If there's no verification text showing- fake. No veri summary showing- fake.

I’m a fake through and through "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met 2 guys who had both been on over a year and weren't verified. So glad I gave them a chance, both good friends of mine now! There are more ways than verifications to prove someone is genuine, cam or phone convo? Some people just take a while to meet for various reasons.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Or they don't like them.. I don't like the idea of the scoring system...

It's only my business and the people I see, and don't feel the need to tell everyone.

I know its can be essential for people, particularly ladies to make a judgement on if they may feel safe or ascertain if you are for real, but I still don't like the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you fake until you got verified OP?

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