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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

How quickly do your walls go up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quickly do your walls go up?

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I know a really quick brickie if it’s an emergency

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Prefabricated houses in the 80s were rather impresive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefabricated houses in the 80s were rather impresive x "

Where i grew up there are still people living in prefabs that were only meant to be emergency housing after being bombed out in the war. If only they built things that last so well now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My walls are always up

It's a measure of the person as to how quickly they come down

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Very quickly now...been hurt too much. I try not to be cynical but my self protection mode has significantly increased. How about you OP? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My walls are always up

It's a measure of the person as to how quickly they come down "

Same!

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Very quickly now...been hurt too much. I try not to be cynical but my self protection mode has significantly increased. How about you OP? X"

I peep out between the cracks only. Very trigger happy with my defenses.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"My walls are always up

It's a measure of the person as to how quickly they come down

Same!"

I think this a good way to be but I find it hard to keep up. So they seem to be at half mast and then rise up quick.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Pretty damn quickly !!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"My walls are always up

It's a measure of the person as to how quickly they come down "

I tend to be very friendly but rarely disclose anything particularly personal with someone unless I trust them. They go back up if I'm hurt badly by words or actions but that's a makeshift structure. I think once someone's made them go down they tend to stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I've been stung by someone they go up pretty quickly.

If it's someone I really care about I remain guarded and my senses go into overdrive.

P

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Shields always raised phazers on stun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My walls are always up

It's a measure of the person as to how quickly they come down

I tend to be very friendly but rarely disclose anything particularly personal with someone unless I trust them. They go back up if I'm hurt badly by words or actions but that's a makeshift structure. I think once someone's made them go down they tend to stay that way."

I am pretty open in sharing my experiences in here, because I am amongst people that are potentionally more likely to 'get me'

However, I only say things in here that I'd be happy to repeat if someone asked me directly

It's more of an opening up of shared experience

In 'real life', I am guarded with the majority

I have a small circle of 6 friends. They know me inside out. They know me better than my family.

As for everyone else, it comes slowly

The 6 mock me for it - they say it's a bit like 'Meet the Parents' when Robert De Niro draws the 'Circle of Trust' with the family in it, but Ben Stillers character outside it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are iron clad now a days.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"How quickly do your walls go up?

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if anyone says they are interested but want to arrange a meeting without swapping numbers.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"How quickly do your walls go up?

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Master bricklayer when need be. Quick and efficient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My walls are always up, they have got taller after I got hurt.

With the right person they might come down a little but they'll still be there

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

I was ok when I first came on here but - due to bitter experience - my walls are always up. Does me no favours but better that than being pissed about

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I was ok when I first came on here but - due to bitter experience - my walls are always up. Does me no favours but better that than being pissed about "

I'm sorry you have had some bad experiences on here. Not everyone is like that (not making it a gender thing) I think you have to be in the right frame of mind for fab... I have very long breaks and have been incredibly hurt on here. But sometimes as hard as it is you have to let go just a tiny bit. X

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London


"My walls are always up

It's a measure of the person as to how quickly they come down "

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"I was ok when I first came on here but - due to bitter experience - my walls are always up. Does me no favours but better that than being pissed about

I'm sorry you have had some bad experiences on here. Not everyone is like that (not making it a gender thing) I think you have to be in the right frame of mind for fab... I have very long breaks and have been incredibly hurt on here. But sometimes as hard as it is you have to let go just a tiny bit. X"

That’s a very kind message - you’re clearly a good person. Thank you

I’m no one’s cup of tea on here and that’s fine

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I don’t think mine ever come all the way down for anyone, not even family and friends. I don’t like to bother people with my issues and too many people have taken the piss so I don’t let anyone get that close anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My walls are always up takes a lot for people to crsck through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine never come down anymore unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are up for those that don’t know me but not for my close circle.

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very quickly now...been hurt too much. I try not to be cynical but my self protection mode has significantly increased. How about you OP? X"
I don't have walls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tear down the wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How quickly do your walls go up?

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Mine are never down. I have been too hurt in the past, so now I drop them very reluctantly, and only when it feels OK.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Very quickly now...been hurt too much. I try not to be cynical but my self protection mode has significantly increased. How about you OP? XI don't have walls "

That's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always up

getting them down is impossible

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