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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Went up Manchester and stopped in a really nice hotel

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The best type of meets for me are the unexpected ones. . Spur of the moment one's that last for hours not quickie meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went up Manchester and stopped in a really nice hotel "

Which hotel out of curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one from fab so cant say

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love overnight meets especially staying away somewhere.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My best have been the second after the first social meet if it has gone well and there has been lots of sexual chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overnight ones are the best..i have been to London a couple of times and manchester ..

Its always a bit more of an occasion than just a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of all of those tbh.

Club meets are mostly pressure free.

We love a nice hotel, I'm surprised we've never been thrown out tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that leave butterflys... it can be as simple as a drink and a kiss... sometimes the simple last min meets leave more of a impact.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Overnight ones are the best..i have been to London a couple of times and manchester ..

Its always a bit more of an occasion than just a meet "

Yes if its with someone you really get on with I don't think you can beat a night away... Or two or three and like you say its an oocasion

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The ones that turn up are the best we find

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"The ones that leave butterflys... it can be as simple as a drink and a kiss... sometimes the simple last min meets leave more of a impact. "

Oooh I totally agree.. Doesn't all have to be big things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really enjoy getting away from our home city and staying in a hotel for sexy fun. An evening out all together and fun back at the hotel.

We went away for a weekend with some sexy friends from here and on the second day we were all chilling out on the bed watching a movie before we needed to get ready to go out. The best sex is often when everyone is relaxed and comfortable with each other. ... awesome experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

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I like social meets a meal maybe, drinks, hotel but I've had great meets on the beach it's more about the people than the place

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

I like social meets a meal maybe, drinks, hotel but I've had great meets on the beach it's more about the people than the place "

I totally agree... If the person wasn't right then then it wouldn't matter where you are!

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"We really enjoy getting away from our home city and staying in a hotel for sexy fun. An evening out all together and fun back at the hotel.

We went away for a weekend with some sexy friends from here and on the second day we were all chilling out on the bed watching a movie before we needed to get ready to go out. The best sex is often when everyone is relaxed and comfortable with each other. ... awesome experience x"

That sounds amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a meet with someone you know is going to give you exactly what you need/want is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

I like social meets a meal maybe, drinks, hotel but I've had great meets on the beach it's more about the people than the place

I totally agree... If the person wasn't right then then it wouldn't matter where you are! "
where did you go anywhere nice?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Those with people you know a bit, usually. They've got your number, you've got theirs, and it just works. I've had those as club meets, overnights, all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

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Been too long since had an amazing meet. Love the idea of a night away but last one I tried was a complete disaster

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

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Definitely the latter. If for a full weekend, even better

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It's a year since I had an amazing weekend away in London, Concert and a show..drinks amazing sex.. And when I think back I've had some amazing weekends away.. What have been you best type of meets.. Do you enjoy the meet at home just sex or to go out or nights away??

Been too long since had an amazing meet. Love the idea of a night away but last one I tried was a complete disaster "

I've onky had weekends away with two people from fab. Neither are on here anymore.. But I was lucky that we just clicked and had been chatting for ages and the chemistry was red hot... Not sure when or if it will happen again because it doesn't happen often. But I totally understand why you would be wary after a bad experience

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible. "

It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its the simple ones.

Good company and a drink with plenty of giggles and what ever then happens, happens. I dont like pressure, prefer to see what happens.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.

I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"For me its the simple ones.

Good company and a drink with plenty of giggles and what ever then happens, happens. I dont like pressure, prefer to see what happens. "

You can't beat just talking, laughing and just seeing where the night takes you... I hate pressure too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.

It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing "

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.

I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning."

I love these too and you know its been good when you have the John Wayne walk

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.

It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing "

He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"What's a meet "

+1

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Depends who it’s with......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.

It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing

He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. "

Ah a girl can dream delighted for you and enjoy every bloody minute

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I like the kind where they don’t go quiet on the day you’re supposed to meet up!

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I like the kind where they don’t go quiet on the day you’re supposed to meet up! "

Haha this or ghost you

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I met someone recently who's become a good friend. Not local, but we seek each other out. In any environment it's just... It just works. It'd been ages but we sank into the groove and it was quite incredible.

It's great when that happens... If you have that chemistry you could meet in a shed and it would still be amazing

He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. "

Awww that is sooo good when that happens and is how it should be or what's the point! I've had mixed endings to the two guys I had weekends away with. But I wouldn't change anything as I had such fun, the London one popped up on my Facebook memory today and even though I was a bit sad it also just made me smile.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"He was one of my turning points for my confidence here, too, and despite the fact that I've changed, he thought I was incredible then and thinks I'm incredible now. I think similarly, but from my perspective, just that look of lust, excitement, and contentment... Aah. "

Oh how lovely! I really get this. I've found someone similar - he encouraged me to apply for a diploma so I'm on my way to professional wankerdom and the way he looks at me like I'm the most desirable thing he's seen is just... I could meet him in an alleyway in Luton and be happy.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I like the kind where they don’t go quiet on the day you’re supposed to meet up!

Haha this or ghost you "

Yep.. Gotta love been ghosted not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any that I don’t have to apologise for at the end.

Haha

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Any that I don’t have to apologise for at the end.

Haha"

Haha I bet you've ner had to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a stay over kind of person

Just someone who is really interested in you and it’s not just a shag

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I’m not a stay over kind of person

Just someone who is really interested in you and it’s not just a shag "

I totally agree

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Most of mine have been sleep overs, great to not have to rush

One of them I combined being a tourist with a great guide too

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Most of mine have been sleep overs, great to not have to rush

One of them I combined being a tourist with a great guide too "

Always good when you have a great tour guide.. I had the same when I used to go to Cardiff... I know all the pubs now

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets "

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets "

Why illuminating ??

Women are clearly more open

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?"

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women "

Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too. "

All roads lead to Rome on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A splendid walk in the country , laughing , swapping stories and getting to know some one better

My favourite meets

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women "

It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too.

All roads lead to Rome on this site "

It's Fab so of course it does

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me "

^^^^^^this

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

Why does this have to become a "why we never get a meet thread" all Of us have had bad experiences me included. But I've also been lucky to have some great experiences too.

All roads lead to Rome on this site

It's Fab so of course it does "

Glad we agree

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me "

Yeah yeah

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"A splendid walk in the country , laughing , swapping stories and getting to know some one better

My favourite meets "

Awwww sounds wonderful, especially with your scenery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me "

Agreed

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Skips through the forum... Need to organise a weekend long meet... Which unsuspecting person shall I try and catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.

I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning."

These kind of meets were almost exclusively the kind that I shared, I never liked the rush and impersonal nature of "I've got to leave at 9", if I met someone it was because I liked them and wanted to spend time with them as a person, not just someone to fuck.

Tea

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"My best type of meets have varied but I like the ones that don't feel rushed and I can really relax and enjoy the moment.

I prefer the overnight mini city break ones; I quite like exploring somewhere new while meeting someone new. And then a nice hotel and good drinks and food and a lot of sex so I can John Wayne walk it in the morning.

These kind of meets were almost exclusively the kind that I shared, I never liked the rush and impersonal nature of "I've got to leave at 9", if I met someone it was because I liked them and wanted to spend time with them as a person, not just someone to fuck.

Tea"

I think that's what a lot of us would like... I k ow it's a swingers site etc etc etc but sex doesn't have to be so mechanical.. And that's why ultimately long term fab won't suit me because the best sex I've ever had was when I a was absolutely crazy about someone. I keep my "fab head" on these days but I look forward to the day I can toss it aside and just enjoy knowing there are no limitations and let things just take their course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best type of meet is one that actually meets.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"My best type of meet is one that actually meets. "

Yep! With you there! One that doesn’t just lead you on because they like the attention! X

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"My best type of meet is one that actually meets.

Yep! With you there! One that doesn’t just lead you on because they like the attention! X"

doesn't sound good. Hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best type of meet is one that actually meets.

Yep! With you there! One that doesn’t just lead you on because they like the attention! X"

I’ve spoken to a few like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just having a laugh makes the best meets ,sex doesn't necessarily come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best ones are when you walk in the door and the bath is run and cup of tea in her hand waiting, then the words dinner will be ready soon.....priceless

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"just having a laugh makes the best meets ,sex doesn't necessarily come into it. "

Absolutely this.. ^^^^ talking and laughing so important

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Best ones are when you walk in the door and the bath is run and cup of tea in her hand waiting, then the words dinner will be ready soon.....priceless "

That’s a relationship isn’t it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nights and weekends away definitely

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Best ones are when you walk in the door and the bath is run and cup of tea in her hand waiting, then the words dinner will be ready soon.....priceless

That’s a relationship isn’t it "

Yeah I wouldn't be doing that on a fab meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s very illuminating that this thread mainly features women.

Along with others, I haven’t had any meets

But we all had meets with men.. Or I did. Maybe its more a girlie thing to chat about?

If only we mortals knew the secrets of how to meet women

It's not rocket science. Be yourself, polite and respectful. Show some humour and joie de vivre. Address women as such and not merely as shag material. Invest in your profile. Simple. Works for me

Yeah yeah "

... But that really is it. Yeah, some people have advantages over others, and they're always going to do well. But standing out here can mean as little as having a decent profile, respecting wishes, treating women as people (heavens above), and being personal.

... And honestly, I don't see why that's hard. (although God help me if more did it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll give my serious answer now...

If it were a single female, the ideal scenario would be to meet in a good bar. Quiet enough to chat, but loud enough so other people can’t hear the topic of conversation. Have enough drink to be bordering on tipsy and fun, then back to a hotel room (it’s always naughtier in a hotel, and you don’t have to do the laundry). Fun all night, sleep a bit and continue the next morning in til checkout. Then maybe go for a coffee and say goodbye.

With couples, it’d be similar or meet at theirs. So long as there’s a good social beforehand and a good connection with both of them. Probably not stay over if it were a hotel as that’d be a bit weird unless I’d got a second room.

With two females... this is still a thing of fantasy despite MANY years of trying to make it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best ones are when you walk in the door and the bath is run and cup of tea in her hand waiting, then the words dinner will be ready soon.....priceless

That’s a relationship isn’t it

Yeah I wouldn't be doing that on a fab meet "
or would you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourites have always been over night meets/ couple of nights away.

Had this 2 weeks ago and it was pure bliss, waking up reaching for each other for sex, going for a stroll by the river hand in hand looking for somewhere for breakfast, back to the hotel, sex, falling asleep on his chest, out for dinner, back for more sex. Wish I could rewind

But I've also had this with someone new who I had been chatting to for years and it was the worse meet ever so I would never do more than one night with someone I don't know really well ever again.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’ll give my serious answer now...

If it were a single female, the ideal scenario would be to meet in a good bar. Quiet enough to chat, but loud enough so other people can’t hear the topic of conversation. Have enough drink to be bordering on tipsy and fun, then back to a hotel room (it’s always naughtier in a hotel, and you don’t have to do the laundry). Fun all night, sleep a bit and continue the next morning in til checkout. Then maybe go for a coffee and say goodbye.

With couples, it’d be similar or meet at theirs. So long as there’s a good social beforehand and a good connection with both of them. Probably not stay over if it were a hotel as that’d be a bit weird unless I’d got a second room.

With two females... this is still a thing of fantasy despite MANY years of trying to make it happen "

Sounds perfect!

Is there dinner and breakfast involved too? Great sex burns lots of calories!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All night fucking followed by a nice full English in the morning

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

For a change I collected her in the camper van...as we drew near to my house I stopped on the beach ..at that time of night it was deserted and only one or two cars went past... leaving the curtains open we sank onto the bed at the back and made love with the lights of distant ships ..the lighthouse and the few beach houses around us ...the sea breeze and the distant waves the only accompanying sounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had booked an apartment but it turned out to be a 5 bedroom Tudor house that looked out over the best part of town. It was so relaxed. We played for about 5 hours and then he walked me to my car and we kissed in the rain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had many to make any real comparison, but my favourites have been where we have had lots of time to get to know each other and laugh with each other. It has been in a relaxing, comfortable hotel room that enables us enjoy our pleasure at our leisure. One where I have beamed for days after as I bathed in the afterglow of meeting someone I felt I had really good chemistry with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best type of meet for me is one where we get on enjoy each others company have a laugh and if it comes to something at a later date great but not the be all and end all if it doesn't, still had a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best type are chilled out ones, maybe a visit to a pub, a gig, concert or weekend away....... it’s the company that makes it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had many eureka nights as I call them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had many eureka nights as I call them x"

Is that eureka they turned up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere

"

I’m sure you haven’t at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere

I’m sure you haven’t at all "

I’m just feeling sorry for myself

I want all the _omance with a man who isn’t shagging half the site

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over a year ago


"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere

I’m sure you haven’t at all

I’m just feeling sorry for myself

I want all the _omance with a man who isn’t shagging half the site "

Mmmmm that could be a tough ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello !

Is it meat you’re looking for ?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again.

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

One of my favourite meets was from someone else who walked their dog a lot and we just walked and chatted for lots of meets but the sexual chemistry was building week in week out until eventually we gave in, amazing but we had to stop in the end, such a shame xx

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over a year ago


"I have had many eureka nights as I call them x

Is that eureka they turned up ? "

No nights that I will never forget and nights where I think it can't get better than this or the nights I have lost all feelings in my legs and fall down the stairs at chams x

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over a year ago


"I feel like I’ve missed out somewhere

I’m sure you haven’t at all

I’m just feeling sorry for myself

I want all the _omance with a man who isn’t shagging half the site

Mmmmm that could be a tough ask "

Why ?

I don’t see why it should be

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!

I just need to find this with someone who wants more

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over a year ago


"I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!

I just need to find this with someone who wants more "

I think I do too

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Best type of meet for me is one where we get on enjoy each others company have a laugh and if it comes to something at a later date great but not the be all and end all if it doesn't, still had a great time "

Sounds great!!!

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!

I just need to find this with someone who wants more

I think I do too "

It will happen my lovely. Sometime when we least expect it and in the mean time we shall just have fun xx

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over a year ago


"I think really by the sounds of it if the chemistry is right then it doesn't matter where you meet, the location doesn't matter!

I just need to find this with someone who wants more

I think I do too

It will happen my lovely. Sometime when we least expect it and in the mean time we shall just have fun xx"

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. "
that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

The best meets are the ones where they don't out stay their welcome.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well "

One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon.

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over a year ago


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well

One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. "
Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well

One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that "

Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work.

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over a year ago


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well

One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that

Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. "
that sounds lovely then, would you have liked to continue seeing that guy then?

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well

One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that

Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. that sounds lovely then, would you have liked to continue seeing that guy then? "

Yes ... I ended up falling for him.. We got on so well. We would just laugh and talk, get tipsy and have mind blowing sex. He was single too but didn't want anything more. So in the end I had to call it a day. Now I keep my "fab" head strictly on. I only occasionally meet now and if I thought I was starting to get the "feels" again I would stop seeing them straight away. (lesson learned)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's more who it's with,rather than where or what we do

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over a year ago


"Best for me is something very casual like coffee or lunch a few hrs social.

I've found it doesn't matter how much you like or get on over the phone or on line, you cant ever know if the physical attraction chemistry is real until you meet. When someone travels along way and it's not there you've got yourself in a very difficult situation and it's not a nice place to be.

So that's why I'd not do it again. that's just your conscience feeling guilty, I travel for meets I don't really care to much how far, I enjoy travelling and I have no expectations other than to enjoy the company of those I meet if I'm not that persons type that's fine, we all have differing tastes so I walk away and wish them well

One of the meets I mentioned at the beginning we had talked for about 3 months but die to circumstances couldn't meet so when we finally did we booked two nights... We both said before if we didn't click as much in real life (although it was pretty ear we would) we would just have a laugh regardless. I'm finding now I know the type of chemistry where I would feel safe to do that. Although I can't imagine booking a two night break again anytime soon. Awww I'm guessing you didn't click then, yes two nights without the knowledge of click is a bit dodgy, I've booked a hotel for a woman I spoke to a while on telephone as well, the hotel was local to her and she didn't turn up lol she apologised said she was nervous so reluctantly I arranged another meet in a restaurant come bar again near her 2 hours late and she turned up and then after meeting me wondered why she was nervous, we met for quite some time after that

Ooooh we did click... best two nights ever and after that we went onto three night meets... Sadly we don't see each other anymore. But from that I recognise the type of chemistry where that would work. that sounds lovely then, would you have liked to continue seeing that guy then?

Yes ... I ended up falling for him.. We got on so well. We would just laugh and talk, get tipsy and have mind blowing sex. He was single too but didn't want anything more. So in the end I had to call it a day. Now I keep my "fab" head strictly on. I only occasionally meet now and if I thought I was starting to get the "feels" again I would stop seeing them straight away. (lesson learned) "
Awww that's a shame

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over a year ago


"For me it's more who it's with,rather than where or what we do "
exactly I said that earlier, it's the person

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"For me it's more who it's with,rather than where or what we do "

Totally agree

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

One I thought we were just having a social and was quite happy with that. She had planned all along to stay the night, not that I complained but It was a nice unexpected surprise.

Another was a social at her place. We spent 2 hours kissing and fumbling around on her sofa. Still one of the best meets I've had.

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