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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely either is crap....the first one certainly is"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Definitely.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Surely either is crap....the first one certainly is"

It felt pretty crap for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If youve never loved then you dont know your missing anything

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yes. Definitely. "

I think it is too

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"If youve never loved then you dont know your missing anything"

There is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

Dotty x

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x"

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Absolutely.

Dotty x"

I feel lucky to have been loved and loved. It wasn't always perfect but it was real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely either is crap....the first one certainly is

It felt pretty crap for me"
hugs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally x

Saff

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on "

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Surely either is crap....the first one certainly is

It felt pretty crap for mehugs x"

Thank you there have been times I could really have done with a hug . Dealing with loss is difficult x

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x"

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Loss takes many shapes and forms

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Of course it isn’t .

You don’t miss what you’ve never had do you ?

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is"

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Of course it isn’t .

You don’t miss what you’ve never had do you ?

Or do you? I would not have wanted to not experience it

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Totally x

Saff"

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x"

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x"

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x"

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps "

You know for me that's what it's about, that's what drew me to fab. Openess, honesty I thought it would be a good starting point for great experiences.

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps

You know for me that's what it's about, that's what drew me to fab. Openess, honesty I thought it would be a good starting point for great experiences."

It is, just gotta work up the courage to start going to socials and clubs to meet more people, I’m not that popular on here unfortunately but oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps

You know for me that's what it's about, that's what drew me to fab. Openess, honesty I thought it would be a good starting point for great experiences.

It is, just gotta work up the courage to start going to socials and clubs to meet more people, I’m not that popular on here unfortunately but oh well

Well it's not a popularity contest..unless someones a complete ass of course for me it's about doing me. Socials are a good way to go and sound fun. :

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Of course it isn’t .

You don’t miss what you’ve never had do you ?

Or do you? I would not have wanted to not experience it"

Well you tell me then !

Everyone is different and I know plenty of people who say they will never fall in love as to them it isn’t worth the heartache . And they seem happy enough .....

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps

You know for me that's what it's about, that's what drew me to fab. Openess, honesty I thought it would be a good starting point for great experiences.

It is, just gotta work up the courage to start going to socials and clubs to meet more people, I’m not that popular on here unfortunately but oh well

Well it's not a popularity contest..unless someones a complete ass of course for me it's about doing me. Socials are a good way to go and sound fun. :"

Mainly someone to talk to haha, not all about the sex is it

even just someone to have the talks to explore what I like and stuff

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

This!!

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By *j48Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps

You know for me that's what it's about, that's what drew me to fab. Openess, honesty I thought it would be a good starting point for great experiences.

It is, just gotta work up the courage to start going to socials and clubs to meet more people, I’m not that popular on here unfortunately but oh well

You don't have to be popular on here. A social or a club it's real people to interact with. Go for it you'll be surprised, trust me

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

This!!

It’s all situational of course but that experience shook me through and through

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x

I believe I am over it just certain things cause a relapse, certain triggers, but I hope they don’t follow me for life, I’ve struggled enough as it is

It's good to recognise triggers. We all deserve a bit of happiness. Many of us have fought the good struggle x

That’s one of the reasons I’m on fab, try to inject some happiness into my life with other people who have similar interests

not that I ever have time to meet, or anyone for that matter hahah but it’s good to feel sociable on the forums and know others have suffered like I have x

Yeah me too..it's good to talk x

It is good to have everything on the table with someone, the ability not to be ashamed or embarrassed really helps

You know for me that's what it's about, that's what drew me to fab. Openess, honesty I thought it would be a good starting point for great experiences.

It is, just gotta work up the courage to start going to socials and clubs to meet more people, I’m not that popular on here unfortunately but oh well

You don't have to be popular on here. A social or a club it's real people to interact with. Go for it you'll be surprised, trust me "

Don’t have the confidence, plus the nearest club for me is a fair distance on public transport, never mind getting home afterwards haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I'd never loved less painful and less baggage.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Love is like a condom, better to have it and not need it than need it and not have it !!!

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Of course it isn’t .

You don’t miss what you’ve never had do you ?

Or do you? I would not have wanted to not experience it

Well you tell me then !

Everyone is different and I know plenty of people who say they will never fall in love as to them it isn’t worth the heartache . And they seem happy enough ....."

Everyone is different that's for sure. I don't think love has to mean heartache and I don't think that you need love to be happy either. I think happiness comes from within. I would rather be happy by myself than miserable in 'love'. I suppose some people do want what they have never had and others don't. I know people who want love who have never been in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is like a pube on a toilet pan, sooner or later you get pissed on

Seriously I have am a better person for experiencing the rollercoaster of love, the ecstatic highs, the heart-breaking lows and the middle ground of contentment and everything between. Archetypally I am a Lover so unsurprisingly I agree with the statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know don't even really know what love is to be honest. Bounced around care homes since birth.

I think I read somewhere that we feel and experience love from our mums and dads and close ones, so look for that feeling as adults, to build relationships and attachments, never had a relationship with anyone that's lasted more than a few months, in during these times am I experiencing love, or is it having a void of emptiness being filled, and the parting is just the anxiety of being alone again.

It's confusing.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Love is like a pube on a toilet pan, sooner or later you get pissed on

I have taken that same ride Doc...and I'd ride it again with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Yes if course because no matter how painful it is experience and experience equals growth

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I wouldn't know don't even really know what love is to be honest. Bounced around care homes since birth.

It's confusing."

That sounds a lot to get your head round x I hope you find peace and contentment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is like a pube on a toilet pan, sooner or later you get pissed on

I have taken that same ride Doc...and I'd ride it again with the right person."

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Yes if course because no matter how painful it is experience and experience equals growth"

Yes..When the dust has settled, hopefully something positive can be learnt for our own well being

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Definitely, everyone needs to have experienced it once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I reckon so. May aswell have felt the whole range of human emotions in our time here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Same here!!

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Seems a lot of people in a similar boat to me then

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yeah I reckon so. May aswell have felt the whole range of human emotions in our time here. "

Yes..without feeling a negative emotion can you really appreciate the opposite positive..I wonder.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Same here!! "

And me

Love is too much drama - I prefer the mundane than the soul crushing emotions that go hand and hand with 'love '

It's taken me a long time to realise that it's OK to be on my own and not need anyone.

Love steals your independence.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Definitely, everyone needs to have experienced it once "

for those who wish it ...I hope they find it.

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Definitely, everyone needs to have experienced it once

for those who wish it ...I hope they find it."

Do other people refuse to allow themselves to feel this way in case they get hurt again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Same here!!

And me

Love is too much drama - I prefer the mundane than the soul crushing emotions that go hand and hand with 'love '

It's taken me a long time to realise that it's OK to be on my own and not need anyone.

Love steals your independence.

Alternatively it can transform our independence into interdependence - mutuality between two autonomous people.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

It seems that 'love' leaves leaves so many of us with battle scars. It's just not how it's meant to be is it. For me even through it all I still feel lucky to have know it.

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It seems that 'love' leaves leaves so many of us with battle scars. It's just not how it's meant to be is it. For me even through it all I still feel lucky to have know it."

It does, until you start to fear you won’t feel it again

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Same here!!

And me

Love is too much drama - I prefer the mundane than the soul crushing emotions that go hand and hand with 'love '

It's taken me a long time to realise that it's OK to be on my own and not need anyone.

Love steals your independence.

I admire independence in people. I would never give mine away, I don't think you need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Sounds like the bad outweighed the good..that's a shame x

It was good for the majority, the break up ruined me, still affects me 2 years on

Do you think that you'll ever get over it..I really hope you do x"

You will one day and find love again don't let it make you bitter about love learn from it and move on

Definitely better to of had love and lost

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Definitely, everyone needs to have experienced it once

for those who wish it ...I hope they find it."

Totally agree... I’m past that stage now, but wish all those that fund it the bliss and comfort it brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love and lost.

So much enjoyment from love.

So many people afraid to have feelings incase they get hurt.

I say embrace your emotions and feelings and dont be afraid to show them and explore them.

Also dont be afraid of the hurt, it's a learning curve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't answer for never having loved at all...

But loved and lost, isn't that great.

Yet the sun will rise every morning and with each new day we have the chance to start again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Same here!!

And me

Love is too much drama - I prefer the mundane than the soul crushing emotions that go hand and hand with 'love '

It's taken me a long time to realise that it's OK to be on my own and not need anyone.

Love steals your independence.

Alternatively it can transform our independence into interdependence - mutuality between two autonomous people."

Or co-dependance when two people massively fuck each other up

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

You never get over it, you just get better equipped at dealing with it, the scar will always be there ....

Sending strength to carry on xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

In my experience I’d have preferred not to have loved at all

Same here!!

And me

Love is too much drama - I prefer the mundane than the soul crushing emotions that go hand and hand with 'love '

It's taken me a long time to realise that it's OK to be on my own and not need anyone.

Love steals your independence.

Alternatively it can transform our independence into interdependence - mutuality between two autonomous people.

Or co-dependance when two people massively fuck each other up

Or if we are ever that lucky just that perfect mutual support understanding and peace where each knows that the other feels like home....

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Definitely, everyone needs to have experienced it once

for those who wish it ...I hope they find it.

Do other people refuse to allow themselves to feel this way in case they get hurt again "

Yep

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Of course it isn’t .

You don’t miss what you’ve never had do you ?

I've never been in love in spite of a 17 year marriage so I don't know if it is better to have loved and lost or not.

I don't feel I have missed out in the sense I have my kids and I enjoy my own company.

I wouldn't say I never want it to happen but I am not looking for it as I love my life and it would take a special person to compliment it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

"
better to suffer the swings and arrows of misfortune

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

Yes

Because once you've survived the worst another person can do to you, you realise just how strong you are, what you are capable of.

Having my heart broken, my life destroyed was the best thing that ever happened to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yeah it probably is in some cases. Would it be better to not have had a 65 year loving marriage because one of you will die before the other?

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Maybe, but realising that nobody else is ever going to make you feel quite like that again is depressing

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Defiantly better to have loved even if you have lost it

I know people feel they can’t bare the pain and regret feeling so close to someone then it ending it’s as though all the best of times change rapidly to the worst of times, nothing hurts more than a broken heart

But Yes it is worth it, it’s real raw and beautiful and sometimes bites us but i know it’s my driving force and I am at my best when I love

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all?

It depends if you have loved me I suppose

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