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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how many wives?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But how many wives?"

Just the one..

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3."

Wow, I struggle with one

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You're probably best asking them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3.

Wow, I struggle with one

For a team you got to pick well!

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3."

I'd be happy with one!

Any you want to donate? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3."

Are they girlfriends or fwbs?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Fine so long as you can confidently ‘ manage’ the 3 without them ever finding out

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

You must be a millionaire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3.

Are they girlfriends or fwbs?"

Assuming a fwbs is fab, one was from here, two from tinder .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how many wives?

Just the one.."
do they all know about each other?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol RUN!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire"

Not sugar babes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's a lucky boy then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But how many wives?

Just the one..do they all know about each other?"

No.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes ."

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greedy man eh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3.

Are they girlfriends or fwbs?

Assuming a fwbs is fab, one was from here, two from tinder ."

No its not a typo... fwb is friends with benefits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again."

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger."

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger."

Shoot me now, please!

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3."

Jeez, I'm sorry to hear that. Is there any way you can dump them off or are they the psycho types? Lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Shoot me now, please!"

{Phwwtttt...damn missed!}

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag"

Mere semantics luv

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

Mere semantics luv "

You obviously dont treat these "girlfriends" well if you 3x them all. I would not be boasting if i were you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

Mere semantics luv

You obviously dont treat these "girlfriends" well if you 3x them all. I would not be boasting if i were you."

Obviously we don't need a lecture in here of all places. Boasting my arse . What world are you from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

Mere semantics luv

You obviously dont treat these "girlfriends" well if you 3x them all. I would not be boasting if i were you.

Obviously we don't need a lecture in here of all places. Boasting my arse . What world are you from?"

If its not boasting, is it bragging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

Mere semantics luv

You obviously dont treat these "girlfriends" well if you 3x them all. I would not be boasting if i were you.

Obviously we don't need a lecture in here of all places. Boasting my arse . What world are you from?

If its not boasting, is it bragging? "

If we were stood in a pub and saw a smug look maybe, but here you can't so just accept it as a question like most of the other posts.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

Mere semantics luv

You obviously dont treat these "girlfriends" well if you 3x them all. I would not be boasting if i were you.

Obviously we don't need a lecture in here of all places. Boasting my arse . What world are you from?

If its not boasting, is it bragging? "

Just stating the obvious. Im on a swingers sight where i dont have "boyfriends" but as u said u are from a different planet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

Sooooo are they really girlfriends?

I would say not just as he is not a boyfriend. Just a convieniant shag

Mere semantics luv

You obviously dont treat these "girlfriends" well if you 3x them all. I would not be boasting if i were you.

Obviously we don't need a lecture in here of all places. Boasting my arse . What world are you from?

If its not boasting, is it bragging?

Just stating the obvious. Im on a swingers sight where i dont have "boyfriends" but as u said u are from a different planet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old are they all?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Cuckoo....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How old are they all?"

All over 18.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cuckoo....

Springwatch is on later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no girlfriends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm interested in them in more than a superficial level, I'm the only girlfriend. If they want more than that, then I'm not the woman for them

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How old are they all?

All over 18."

Well I guessed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cuckoo....

Springwatch is on later."

No its not ...it finished last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3."

I'd like 2. Not boyfriends tho. Just 2 people I could meet when free, maybe socials as well. I pick 2 as there's never going to be all the time that your always free together and I think 3 is a bit much

Can I ask if they have met or know about each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cuckoo....

Springwatch is on later.

No its not ...it finished last night

Nooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you can afford them and keep up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man at 51 is happy with 3 girlfriends over 18 then so be it.

Got to fill your days somehow.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

To quote Murray Walker”if the gloves weren’t already off and they were, they are now”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3.

Can I ask if they have met or know about each other"

Sounds nice. Mine haven't met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask myself the same question but about motorbikes, the answer is always no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3.

Can I ask if they have met or know about each other

Sounds nice. Mine haven't met "

Do they know they are one of three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger."

They are not girlfriend's then. They are sexual exploits. I thought you meant actual girlfriends.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy"

I say if they join you for a pint now and again they are a gf and not just a sex friend .

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

While I think the OP is playing the Devils avocado there is a serious point here.

I’m dating and seeing several women from POF. To begin with it’s exciting. However, having to remember what you said to who and where you were etc is fucking difficult and the novelty soon wears off.

Without appearing to much of a hopeless or rather hopeful romantic, ideally I would like to be in a serious monogamous loving relationship- where we get (and don’t forget) to fuck each other’s brains out every now and then!

OP is younger than me (looks older) so he’s ok but at my age it is exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

They are not girlfriend's then. They are sexual exploits. I thought you meant actual girlfriends.

Holly"

I don't intend to spell out the entirety of my relationship with each one . I see then frequent in and out. Gfs in my book .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy

I say if they join you for a pint now and again they are a gf and not just a sex friend ."

You mean as a friend who is a girl? Not an actual girlfriend? Surely that would be better termed as fwb's then? If i had a pint with a friend that i sometimes had sex with, I'd be considered a bunny boiler if i then called them my boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

They are not girlfriend's then. They are sexual exploits. I thought you meant actual girlfriends.

Holly

I don't intend to spell out the entirety of my relationship with each one . I see then frequent in and out. Gfs in my book ."

Friends

With

Benefits

Fuck

Buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You must be a millionaire

Not sugar babes .

But do you wine and dine them and take them on dates or do you just shag them every now and again.

It's just sex really. One is more dating than the others but always wants it . Much younger than me. Well they are all younger.

They are not girlfriend's then. They are sexual exploits. I thought you meant actual girlfriends.

Holly

I don't intend to spell out the entirety of my relationship with each one . I see then frequent in and out. Gfs in my book .

Friends

With

Benefits

Fuck

Buddies "

Why

Are

You

Typing

That

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While I think the OP is playing the Devils avocado there is a serious point here.

OP is younger than me (looks older) so he’s ok but at my age it is exhausting. "

Can you like that many women all at once though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - do you think it’s too many ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"While I think the OP is playing the Devils avocado there is a serious point here.

OP is younger than me (looks older) so he’s ok but at my age it is exhausting.

Can you like that many women all at once though"

I believe so. Each has their good things. Oldest one I like the best. Arty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP - do you think it’s too many ? "

Some days. Like today. Other days is like what have I said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 is too many, 1 wife will do me plenty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"3 is too many, 1 wife will do me plenty

So you wouldn't meet anyone from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 is too many, 1 wife will do me plenty

So you wouldn't meet anyone from here?"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 is too many, 1 wife will do me plenty

That’s good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you fit your wife in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 is too many, 1 wife will do me plenty

So you wouldn't meet anyone from here?

Nope

And even if I ever did want to meet anyone, they wouldn’t be a girlfriend, that’s commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you fit your wife in? "

Most cars have five doors, so there’s a seat for her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you fit your wife in? "

She takes my car and is often out. I woo my ladies from the comfort of my van.

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By *bzboy66Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yes 3 gf's is too many in my opinion. As has been said, the effort expended to keep 3 apart would wear you out. If they were fuck buddies then ok...no need to hide...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how many wives?

Just the one..do they all know about each other?

No."

I see a recipe for disaster brewing here?

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

"How old are they all?

All over 18."

So that's 83, 75 and 71. Mind they don't wear you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smell s@#t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I smell s@#t

Urghh. Go wash your hands for god's sake.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking highlander... 'There can be only one!'

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"75"

Is that all, I’ve got double that number.

Warmest wishes x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy

I say if they join you for a pint now and again they are a gf and not just a sex friend ."

And they said romance was dead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy

I say if they join you for a pint now and again they are a gf and not just a sex friend .

And they said romance was dead

Indeed..plus I've got a few on a waiting list...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy

I say if they join you for a pint now and again they are a gf and not just a sex friend .

And they said romance was dead

Indeed..plus I've got a few on a waiting list..."

Of course you have

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look forward to your next thread in Op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahah thats not girlfriend(s) is not a matter of judgement, anyway not here, is a meaning. A girlfriend is not someone you see for sex in a swinger site.

Can became that all is possible.

As for real girlfrind I usually stick with one, I have a terrible memory if I have to remember everything 'she' say x3 I'd became crazy

I say if they join you for a pint now and again they are a gf and not just a sex friend .

And they said romance was dead

Indeed..plus I've got a few on a waiting list..."
really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you fit your wife in?

She takes my car and is often out. I woo my ladies from the comfort of my van."

No expense spared. Lucky girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I smell s@#t

Urghh. Go wash your hands for god's sake."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you fit your wife in?

She takes my car and is often out. I woo my ladies from the comfort of my van.

No expense spared. Lucky girls. "

The smell of the van is the smell of a real man..

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over a year ago

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Yes

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"While I think the OP is playing the Devils avocado there is a serious point here.

OP is younger than me (looks older) so he’s ok but at my age it is exhausting.

Can you like that many women all at once though"

That’s the easy bit. They are so different and lovely.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m a one man woman. I’d be pissed off if my one man had many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. girlfriends? At 51, I have 3."

That's to many, you have some of mine there.

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