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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes.

But don’t lead with a dick pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy. "

Was she selling you anything?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy.

Was she selling you anything?"

So cynical!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy.

Was she selling you anything?

So cynical! "

I just meet lots of sales people that's all.

So mistrusting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

But don’t lead with a dick pic."

What should I say though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?"

We don't work together and I might see her again..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy.

Was she selling you anything?"

No I was selling her something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?

We don't work together and I might see her again.."

Hmm. Just say hello or something, nothing odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture."

What to say though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy.

Was she selling you anything?

So cynical!

I just meet lots of sales people that's all.

So mistrusting."

Yes i know what you mean there

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?

We don't work together and I might see her again..

Hmm. Just say hello or something, nothing odd"

I noticed a ring on her finger though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?

We don't work together and I might see her again..

Hmm. Just say hello or something, nothing odd

I noticed a ring on her finger though "

Then don’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll be back

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy. "

You exchanged numbers because of something work related. Did you exchange work numbers or personal numbers?

She "flirted" well.... one mans flirt is another mans, she was just being polite and she's the first woman that hasn't told me to fuck off after 5 minutes in a long time...

Maybe she was just being nice? Maybe she swapped numbers with you because of work? I wouldn't, but thats me; if I texted/phoned everyone that made my dick hard, I would need a better mobile contract...

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

If you exchanged numbers for the purpose of work it might be just that ....

if you sorted sales and then exchanged numbers on a personal level then yes txt

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

If I gave my number for something work related, I would expect it to be used for work only. But maybe that is just me. I would not expect it to be used for social messages unless it had been spoken about before hand.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?

We don't work together and I might see her again..

Hmm. Just say hello or something, nothing odd

I noticed a ring on her finger though "

You should have started with this little nugget of info in your OP

Id leave it.

Especially of a evening where if she is married will prob be with her husband.

Maybe tomorrow afternoon and if a convo starts you can always ask if shes married.

I dunno but id not text her tonight just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you work together, or will you be seeing her again due to work?

We don't work together and I might see her again..

Hmm. Just say hello or something, nothing odd

I noticed a ring on her finger though

You should have started with this little nugget of info in your OP

Id leave it.

Especially of a evening where if she is married will prob be with her husband.

Maybe tomorrow afternoon and if a convo starts you can always ask if shes married.

I dunno but id not text her tonight just in case."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture.

What to say though. "
fancy going for a coffee sometime or a drink or really enjoyed meeting you today fancy going out for evening or omg you're sexy

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture.

What to say though. fancy going for a coffee sometime or a drink or really enjoyed meeting you today fancy going out for evening or omg you're sexy "

Did you miss the part about her having a ring on her finger?

Those kind of messages could cause her a lot of grief if her possible other half reads those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture.

What to say though. fancy going for a coffee sometime or a drink or really enjoyed meeting you today fancy going out for evening or omg you're sexy

Did you miss the part about her having a ring on her finger?

Those kind of messages could cause her a lot of grief if her possible other half reads those."
I did miss that part but hey ho

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture.

What to say though. fancy going for a coffee sometime or a drink or really enjoyed meeting you today fancy going out for evening or omg you're sexy

Did you miss the part about her having a ring on her finger?

Those kind of messages could cause her a lot of grief if her possible other half reads those."
did miss that bit yeah . More than likely only work related leave well alone I'd now say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yaas. Otherwise it’s hours of ‘what if’ self torture.

What to say though. fancy going for a coffee sometime or a drink or really enjoyed meeting you today fancy going out for evening or omg you're sexy

Did you miss the part about her having a ring on her finger?

Those kind of messages could cause her a lot of grief if her possible other half reads those."
just add a little bit to the question would you and hubby like to go for a drink

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

".. Text the lady who I met today?

I met someone through work today and we exchanged numbers because of something work related.. She was so nice and flirty I could actually feel myself getting hard whilst talking to her in her shop

I don't consider myself a super horny man, but there was something about her that drived me crazy.

Was she selling you anything?

So cynical!

I just meet lots of sales people that's all.

So mistrusting."

But you’re hot stuff, I reckons they’re flirting with you, baby.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes.

But don’t lead with a dick pic.

What should I say though? "

Hello, it was lovely to meet you earlier. I wondered if it was acceptable for me to text you to say so, and hope I made the right decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here? "

Leave it alone

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here? "

She has a husband? I hadn’t realised that.

Put the phone down.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here? "

You texted her twice after she didnt reply to her first text.

Then she texted just "ok".

This is a sign to just leave it now.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here? "

Nowhere, leave it alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here?

She has a husband? I hadn’t realised that.

Put the phone down."

She had a ring on her finger, so I'm guessing she is attached.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Il leave it now then

Damn she was something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here?

She has a husband? I hadn’t realised that.

Put the phone down.

She had a ring on her finger, so I'm guessing she is attached. "

Bells on her toes?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You sent a message 10 mins after the first one that she hadn't replied to?? Sorry OP but that just comes across as pushy to me with is a massive no no x100 seeing that she obviously has a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sent a message 10 mins after the first one that she hadn't replied to?? Sorry OP but that just comes across as pushy to me with is a massive no no x100 seeing that she obviously has a partner."

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

What will be will be no rush is there. But whatever you do take your fab head off first. Its not always just about sex

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"What will be will be no rush is there. But whatever you do take your fab head off first. Its not always just about sex

If she's married as I've just read the thread then that's the end of it. Leave her alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She was an aphrodisiac

I've never met anyone like her before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I imagine she would of tasted like angels dancing over my taste buds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont mention sti's

Her husband might get the ump

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Actually give your head a shake. Have a word with yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just dont mention sti's

Her husband might get the ump"

Sti was the last thing on my mind when I met her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually give your head a shake. Have a word with yourself

Hmm i just got caught in the moment

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Jesus h.......he,s been bewitched!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Thanks for the advice everyone. We exchanged mobile numbers and since posting this I have text her.

I played it cool about work and I didn't come across to forward in case her husband saw the text.

I text her and she didnt reply and then around 10mins later I text again to tell her I am staying in Reading for awhile and if there is anything that she would like, just let me know.

Then she text back "OK"

Where do i go from here? "

You go no where, leave it alone, you’ve had your response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What will be will be no rush is there. But whatever you do take your fab head off first. Its not always just about sex

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It's about food to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text her but make it look like your texting someone else in your contacts, like, wats the story with tomorrow night going the football, and then take it from there if she replies, either with flirty banter or an apology fir texting wrong person!!!

Ive done this myself and its works!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sounds like you need a quick wank tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Text her but make it look like your texting someone else in your contacts, like, wats the story with tomorrow night going the football, and then take it from there if she replies, either with flirty banter or an apology fir texting wrong person!!!

Ive done this myself and its works!!

Clever

il keep this one in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like you need a quick wank tbh. "

Nah

Why you offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe in a day or two straight away seems your to eager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. No no no no no no no no NO!

The second that you saw she had a ring on her finger, that should've been the end. To my mind, it's highly questionable messaging someone that you met as a work contact like that anyway, let alone an attached someone.

You've messaged her twice, in the space of ten minutes? I very much doubt you'll be doing any business with her either.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. No no no no no no no no NO!

You've messaged her twice, in the space of ten minutes? I very much doubt you'll be doing any business with her either.

Tea"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. No no no no no no no no NO!

You've messaged her twice, in the space of ten minutes? I very much doubt you'll be doing any business with her either.

Tea"

Oh well that's life. I fell for her big time and I can't help that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. No no no no no no no no NO!

You've messaged her twice, in the space of ten minutes? I very much doubt you'll be doing any business with her either.

Tea

Oh well that's life. I fell for her big time and I can't help that

After meeting her today?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You haven't answered whether you exchanged numbers for work or for personal reasons OP? If the former then the thought of texting her for any other reason shouldn't have even crossed your mind.

Likewise having seen she was attached.

I also hope you don't take the same approach when messaging ladies on here in terms of sending a message and then when there's no reply sending another ten minutes later - am sure it won't go down well if you do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. No no no no no no no no NO!

You've messaged her twice, in the space of ten minutes? I very much doubt you'll be doing any business with her either.

Tea

Oh well that's life. I fell for her big time and I can't help that

After meeting her today?"

Yes she was nice. But Il get over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You haven't answered whether you exchanged numbers for work or for personal reasons OP? If the former then the thought of texting her for any other reason shouldn't have even crossed your mind.

Likewise having seen she was attached.

You again lol

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