FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Winks browse or delete

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you look at them ladies ? Should us guys bother !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Nah don't bother ....just delete, meaningless

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check out who sent it..

Usually the complete opposite of what I'm looking for so i ignore it.. that way they can't reoffend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do now xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do now xx

"

Why now what changed it for you ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah don't bother ....just delete, meaningless "

Why meaningless ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have a quick scan down the list, but 99% of the time just delete.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I check out who sent it..

Usually the complete opposite of what I'm looking for so i ignore it.. that way they can't reoffend "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bulk delete here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer winks ... I check out all the ones that aren't miles away! Why oh why ...

Wink back if I actually want to talk ... much less hassle than all this messaging

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We check but most of them are from men. We wouldn't mind if it was what we were looking for lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer winks and like other people you can look before messaging and wink back if you like the look of someone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at them, if they dont interest me then I'll delete

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women answering our messages or winks make us jump x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I don’t understand the ones who wink and then ignore you completely if you wink back or message. Why bother?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Winks are better for me than ‘how r u’ or ‘meeting?’ at least I don’t feel guilty about ignoring them and in both case I always check the profile out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I don’t understand the ones who wink and then ignore you completely if you wink back or message. Why bother?"

Yes that gets to me aswell why what's is the point

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"women answering our messages or winks make us jump x "

Haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t understand the ones who wink and then ignore you completely if you wink back or message. Why bother?

Yes that gets to me aswell why what's is the point "

Agree it’s very odd !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We check winks but mostly single men on occasion we wink them back. We get a lot of wink, message and friend request all at once... Why?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We check winks but mostly single men on occasion we wink them back. We get a lot of wink, message and friend request all at once... Why?! "

I think some think that it's the maximum chance of getting attention. Maybe, but not in a good way.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever had one wink responded to and that was from a winking thread on the forum. We did become online friends as a result. But other than that it seems pretty pointless for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only ever had one wink responded to and that was from a winking thread on the forum. We did become online friends as a result. But other than that it seems pretty pointless for me."

Might start a wink thread be a good experiment on my question ! Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are pretty pointless.

I believe they are meant to express the sender has an interest in you.

Wink back though, and then, nothing. People seem to think if they have winked it should provoke a mail response.

Thanks for the wink, let's chat, or whatever.

We now just delete them, the same as random friend requests.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *layful LiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Bi-ville

We are happy to receive winks but recently when we've winked back that's the end of it.

If we send a wink and we get one back we always follow it up with a message, guess some people just like winking!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are happy to receive winks but recently when we've winked back that's the end of it.

If we send a wink and we get one back we always follow it up with a message, guess some people just like winking!! "

This ^^^

It says on my profile to wink ... I do wink back those that interest me and BAM no reply! Weird lol fab never ceases to amaze me!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are happy to receive winks but recently when we've winked back that's the end of it.

If we send a wink and we get one back we always follow it up with a message, guess some people just like winking!!

This ^^^

It says on my profile to wink ... I do wink back those that interest me and BAM no reply! Weird lol fab never ceases to amaze me! "

;)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Have to admit to being abit of a winker... I plead guilty to it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you look at them ladies ? Should us guys bother ! "

If you are in the categories we are looking for then I (Luke) appreciate them and find them useful. Anybody not the sort we're looking for is most likely wasting their time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do you look at them ladies ? Should us guys bother !

If you are in the categories we are looking for then I (Luke) appreciate them and find them useful. Anybody not the sort we're looking for is most likely wasting their time. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top