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Is being picky stoping you having your best night ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a discussion with a mate recently on the best sex we ever had and Interestingly both where with women we wouldn’t normally go for, it had me wondering are we alone? Like the really sought after beautiful ones commonly turn out to be dead fish, and the one your afraid to admit being with turn into pornstars. It’s changed my perception and I’m far from shallow before I’m called that, I’m talking about one night stands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe, but it doesn't alter my decision.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I had a discussion with a mate recently on the best sex we ever had and Interestingly both where with women we wouldn’t normally go for, it had me wondering are we alone? Like the really sought after beautiful ones commonly turn out to be dead fish, and the one your afraid to admit being with turn into pornstars. It’s changed my perception and I’m far from shallow before I’m called that, I’m talking about one night stands. "

Well ain't we a charmer.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know when a woman gets me and if she does get me and I fancy the pants off her and get her that’s when we have the best times. That means that I find very few partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there’s no attraction there, then what’s the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a discussion with a mate recently on the best sex we ever had and Interestingly both where with women we wouldn’t normally go for, it had me wondering are we alone? Like the really sought after beautiful ones commonly turn out to be dead fish, and the one your afraid to admit being with turn into pornstars. It’s changed my perception and I’m far from shallow before I’m called that, I’m talking about one night stands. "

I think that’s a major difference between most men and most women, guys will generally meet someone who isn’t their “type” but women generally will wait for their “type” to come along - and why shouldn’t they? Why should anyone settle for anything less than what they want - not just on here but in the real world too.

How many times have you heard one of your mates say “any hole’s a goal”? I’ve never heard women use an equivalent saying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

What stops me is being fugly, apparently.....

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"If there’s no attraction there, then what’s the point. "

Every holes a goal but the OP denies it after the fact.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'd never sleep with someone I'd be embarrassed to admit to, those people are not people I'd have chemistry with since the only reason I'd be embarrassed would be if they were a douchebag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best night ever. It's only going to happen if it's with the best person ever.

Then one night would never be enough...

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"No. I'd never sleep with someone I'd be embarrassed to admit to, those people are not people I'd have chemistry with since the only reason I'd be embarrassed would be if they were a douchebag. "

This exactly,we have to find the attractive or its not happening and wouldn't be attracted to someone I/we were embarrassed of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a discussion with a mate recently on the best sex we ever had and Interestingly both where with women we wouldn’t normally go for, it had me wondering are we alone? Like the really sought after beautiful ones commonly turn out to be dead fish, and the one your afraid to admit being with turn into pornstars. It’s changed my perception and I’m far from shallow before I’m called that, I’m talking about one night stands.

I think that’s a major difference between most men and most women, guys will generally meet someone who isn’t their “type” but women generally will wait for their “type” to come along - and why shouldn’t they? Why should anyone settle for anything less than what they want - not just on here but in the real world too.

How many times have you heard one of your mates say “any hole’s a goal”? I’ve never heard women use an equivalent saying....

"

This is a sweeping generalisation, I would say generally most blokes wouldn’t meet someone that don’t fancy, you’re confusing real life with some of the desperados on Fab.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I haven't had sex in over two years, because I can't find someone on here I am attracted to both body and mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a discussion with a mate recently on the best sex we ever had and Interestingly both where with women we wouldn’t normally go for, it had me wondering are we alone? Like the really sought after beautiful ones commonly turn out to be dead fish, and the one your afraid to admit being with turn into pornstars. It’s changed my perception and I’m far from shallow before I’m called that, I’m talking about one night stands.

I think that’s a major difference between most men and most women, guys will generally meet someone who isn’t their “type” but women generally will wait for their “type” to come along - and why shouldn’t they? Why should anyone settle for anything less than what they want - not just on here but in the real world too.

How many times have you heard one of your mates say “any hole’s a goal”? I’ve never heard women use an equivalent saying....

This is a sweeping generalisation, I would say generally most blokes wouldn’t meet someone that don’t fancy, you’re confusing real life with some of the desperados on Fab."

I did say it was a generalisation, however most of my mates have at some point gone through a phase of trying to f*** anyone female and with a pulse - and a few haven’t been fussy about the female part but I’m pretty sure I have no necrophiliac friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a type, but I know who I like or not. It's as simple as that for me, I don't really see how it can be any different.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How would I know I'd missed the best night ever?

I'm picky and I'm shallow when it comes to casual sex. I'm never going to have the best night ever with someone I don't find attractive because my head wouldn't be in the right place.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I dont have a type, but I know who I like or not. It's as simple as that for me, I don't really see how it can be any different. "

I agree.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No!!! My vagina would shrivel up!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I had a discussion with a mate recently on the best sex we ever had and Interestingly both where with women we wouldn’t normally go for, it had me wondering are we alone? Like the really sought after beautiful ones commonly turn out to be dead fish, and the one your afraid to admit being with turn into pornstars. It’s changed my perception and I’m far from shallow before I’m called that, I’m talking about one night stands.

I think that’s a major difference between most men and most women, guys will generally meet someone who isn’t their “type” but women generally will wait for their “type” to come along - and why shouldn’t they? Why should anyone settle for anything less than what they want - not just on here but in the real world too.

How many times have you heard one of your mates say “any hole’s a goal”? I’ve never heard women use an equivalent saying....

"

You mean 'any poles a goal?'

And, no in answer to your OP.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Only if the person I don't fancy turns out to be a generous , celibate , GAY millionaire whose passion it is it treat older women like godesses as long as they sat and did fuck all .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont have a type, but I know who I like or not. It's as simple as that for me, I don't really see how it can be any different. "

Same for me too

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I just got dead fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i had it once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope the best sex I've had is with someone who I'm attracted to, who gets me, who I have a emotional connection with, who I know I can request to try new things with and who I trust to know that the things he wants to try with me he will be watching for my reactions and taking me at the pace I can handle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

If im not into her 100% im not going to have the best night of sex ill be honest. Shes got to be the full 100%.

im not desperate for sex and not going to jump into bed with someone just to get my end away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I would never have sex with someone I wouldn't usually go for. They have to have looks and the type of personality I go for, or I'd just not bother

Holly

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