FabSwingers.com forum: Well I never.....

By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

What has surprised you about fab/the fab community the most or is all as you expected it to be?

For me, I guess 3 things... how hard it is for a woman to meet a woman 2 how lovely most people are and 3 how you can "bump into" people you know....

How about you?

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's how shallow and one sided most are.

Forums are full of amazing people.

The amount of hate single males get.

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

For me it has to be making friends for life that we love dearly.

This was not at all what we expected when we started out on this madness

Wouldn't have it any other way though.

T xx

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By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Yes it does seem hard for single males tbf x

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By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"For me it has to be making friends for life that we love dearly.

This was not at all what we expected when we started out on this madness

Wouldn't have it any other way though.

T xx "

It's great isn't it....that's what we hoped for...we seem to be finding it too.... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m amazed at the amount of people I meet outside of fab that end up being fabbers!

Must attract a certain type!!

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

Well I never. If fab was around 30 years ago. I would have been able to tick a lot of boxes. As I would have had a partner back then. You lucky lot in the prime of your life.

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By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"I’m amazed at the amount of people I meet outside of fab that end up being fabbers!

Must attract a certain type!!"

It's strange isn't it...I always thought people into this lifestyle were few and far between

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

"For me it has to be making friends for life that we love dearly.

This was not at all what we expected when we started out on this madness

Wouldn't have it any other way though.

T xx

It's great isn't it....that's what we hoped for...we seem to be finding it too.... x"

It's sooo good

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

"For me it has to be making friends for life that we love dearly.

This was not at all what we expected when we started out on this madness

Wouldn't have it any other way though.

T xx

It's great isn't it....that's what we hoped for...we seem to be finding it too.... x

It's sooo good

xx "
. I’ve not met anyone I actually know outside of the site but I think I’d be shocked if I found someone I actually knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined, I thought that it was going to be like a big Liberal community, where people were open minded about different aspects of sexuality and welcoming of diverse tastes.

Yeah...

I was dissuaded of my preconceptions pretty quickly!

Tea

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By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"When I first joined, I thought that it was going to be like a big Liberal community, where people were open minded about different aspects of sexuality and welcoming of diverse tastes.

Yeah...

I was dissuaded of my preconceptions pretty quickly!

Tea"

Oh no, have you found that? I must admit we haven't come across that yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. How a lot of men think that women have no say in who they have sex with or have no right to say no because "this is a sex site".

2. Different people have very different views on what swinging actually is.

3. People rarely read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the people I met would be more open to a ‘friends with benefits’ arrangement. Most just seems happy to fuck and go.

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By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"I thought the people I met would be more open to a ‘friends with benefits’ arrangement. Most just seems happy to fuck and go."

Gosh yeah that is a suprise x

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By *ltcouple666 OP Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"1. How a lot of men think that women have no say in who they have sex with or have no right to say no because "this is a sex site".

2. Different people have very different views on what swinging actually is.

3. People rarely read the profile.

Definitely comes across many who don't read our profile.... single women have to deal with alot i imagine x

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

"What has surprised you about fab/the fab community the most or is all as you expected it to be?

For me, I guess 3 things... how hard it is for a woman to meet a woman 2 how lovely most people are and 3 how you can "bump into" people you know....

How about you?

K x"

I’m with you on the finding a woman thing

I newbie thought it would be so difficult to find someone to have naughty chats to lol

Also the lack of imagination when trying to get to know someone

S x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love Fab, and it works well for me but it does surprise me how "judgey" some people feel they need to be, and how much whinging goes on.

Daft.

Positivity is much more sexy

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