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How many women struggle to cum on a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening. "

I do.. eventually i tell my meet to get on with it or we'd be here all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do on the 1st meet..very rarely on a second or subsequent meet in fact! Definite mental block as I'm fine on my own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks God ! I am feeling less bad about myself now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do on the 1st meet..very rarely on a second or subsequent meet in fact! Definite mental block as I'm fine on my own!"

Same here

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Oh I'm exactly the same... mentally I need to switch right off and that hasn't happened for me yet x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

How much of it is down to you struggling and how much because of the lack of skills in certain partners?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Have wand, will travel lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Only happened twice for me

If the chemistry and connection is there prior to a meet, it’s going to happen

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Have wand, will travel lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much of it is down to you struggling and how much because of the lack of skills in certain partners? "

Personally?

Mental block. I know why. It's a work in process.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening. "

So much depends on psychological factors and a host of subconscious nuances that I suppose can determine your ability to just relax and let go completely.

I'm sure you still have a good time op. Sex is pleasurable even without climaxing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have wand, will travel lol

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I have found that even the wand struggles to do the trick when I'm with someone else..it's all in my head!

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Personally, I've cum during a meet just once. It's a mental block that takes a while to get through for me with another person. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy what's happening. "

Not impossible but rarely Orgasm usually is not my goal as I could give one to myself in minutes Usually just enjoy giving and reviewing pleasure and attention

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Ermm, I have on a couple of meets. But if the chemistry is all there and I can truly relax with that person, I normally can't stop myself from orgasming a lot.

If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ermm, I have on a couple of meets. But if the chemistry is all there and I can truly relax with that person, I normally can't stop myself from orgasming a lot.

If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me."

Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Not had sex in 12 months so god knows

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Thanks God ! I am feeling less bad about myself now! "

I'd cum here, there and everywhere for you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hate the pressure. I personally don't struggle, but for me an orgasm is about the person having it and not about or for anyone else. Let's just all try to enjoy each other without worrying about ticking off boxes set by porn.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Have wand, will travel lol

I have found that even the wand struggles to do the trick when I'm with someone else..it's all in my head!"

Luckily I dont have that problem

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.

Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met? "

I'm on a current wand time out - manual stimulation only for the forseeable future. But yes, we should.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.

Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met?

I'm on a current wand time out - manual stimulation only for the forseeable future. But yes, we should. "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"If I do or don't, it's not terribly important, it's more about the overall thing for me.

Shall we see what would happen if both our wands met?

I'm on a current wand time out - manual stimulation only for the forseeable future. But yes, we should. "

Oh my gawd, it’s like Ghostbusters - don’t let the streams cross!!

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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago

Sussex


"Have wand, will travel lol

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Lmao I take my everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to orgasm quite easily through penetration so I don’t think I haven’t not, some more than others though

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't always cum...I'd like to ( I tend to help myself if it's not working) I need my head and body stimulating. A bit of passion.. sensuality. I have evolved and tend to choose my meets differently now. I like real intimacy. I didn't realise I'd been missing that til recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, do women have orgasms too?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Wow, do women have orgasms too? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow, do women have orgasms too? "

Not sure

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If I wasn't orgasming on a meet I wouldn't be bothering.

I know what gets me off, I know how to get me off.

I had plenty of Meh sex in my 2Os. The upside of that is I'm confident in asking for what I want or showing someone what I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, do women have orgasms too?

Not sure "
Yep us men can struggle too, but at least there are plenty of folk who understand

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I prefer meeting a lady more than once as sometimes you can’t quite read them on the first meet.

For myself I love hearing and looking at them so I can see I am touching the right spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?

Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?

Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended) "

Absolutely.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?

Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended)

Absolutely. "

I like this

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Same issue for both men and women, too much expectation to "perform" perhaps?

Isn't it as much about the journey that discovery of what both enjoy rather than racing to cum as an end in itself (pun intended) "

Precisely !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past, I suppose that's why I prefer regular meets

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Wow, do women have orgasms too?

Not sure Yep us men can struggle too, but at least there are plenty of folk who understand "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's very rare I'll orgasm with anyone until they've got to know how to push my buttons..which takes time...and a map!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't always need or want to cum from sex, its sort of a pleasant but fleeting moment, I get more from the actual feelings of sex itself and all its attendant delights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have in the past, I suppose that's why I prefer regular meets "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never managed to make a woman orgasm, I'd like to keep that streak

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