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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why can't i get a reply am I doing something wrong tia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you saying in the messages?

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Just about to say it all depends what your messages are to begin with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you reading profiles and arw you what they are looking for?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"What are you saying in the messages?"

Maybe they dont like being called Tia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you saying in the messages?

Maybe they dont like being called Tia "

Mariaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't i get a reply am I doing something wrong tia "

Yeah,you must be

Try changing your approach and who you message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X marks the spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tia thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you "

Click reply+quote so we know who you’re replying too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tia thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea just think may be am not good-looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you saying in the messages?"
just start by asking how the lady is doing as a conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It starts with a decent profile and pics OP.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Tia thanks in advance "

that could be your clue there! not all of us were born into the age of text speak most of us still use words! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't i get a reply am I doing something wrong tia "

When you message people they tend to look at your profile first so it would help if you wrote one... oh and dick pics for avatars won't help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
thank you for the advise

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
to add to this I've been been told and read on status's that the amount of messages women get on here is ridiculous so uve got to get there attention in the first place ... a simple how are you doesnt cut it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. to add to this I've been been told and read on status's that the amount of messages women get on here is ridiculous so uve got to get there attention in the first place ... a simple how are you doesnt cut it."

Most women don’t get the hundreds of messages that men seem to think they get. Yes some do, but many, many don’t. They use their filters affectively.

Even if I’m on the hot pics and I do get hundreds of messages, I’ll be sure to read the messages when I have the time. If this means hiding my profile for 20 mins or so to do so, that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you reading profiles and arw you what they are looking for?"
yes I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"X marks the spot"
what do you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. "
yea I try my best to be as polite as possible I just don't seem to have any luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. yea I try my best to be as polite as possible I just don't seem to have any luck "

It’s not really about luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't i get a reply am I doing something wrong tia

When you message people they tend to look at your profile first so it would help if you wrote one... oh and dick pics for avatars won't help "
thanks for the advice

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

to be fair OP, 2 weeks is but a blink of an eye for a single male on fab, you are one in a huge shoal of fish on here and need to be patient

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By *unniebee1970Woman
over a year ago

The Hive


"Tia thanks in advance

that could be your clue there! not all of us were born into the age of text speak most of us still use words! lol "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your thread title an indication of the type of message you send? If it is, then it's very short, irrelevant and gives no info about who or what you are. Be descriptive, stand out from the crowd, grab someone's attention so much that they can't ignore you (but not in a creepy stalker way!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is your thread title an indication of the type of message you send? If it is, then it's very short, irrelevant and gives no info about who or what you are. Be descriptive, stand out from the crowd, grab someone's attention so much that they can't ignore you (but not in a creepy stalker way!)"
thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. yea I try my best to be as polite as possible I just don't seem to have any luck

It’s not really about luck "
thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t give it.

Messaging wise, are you reading the persons profile before messaging them? Are you ensuring that you feel that you are what they are looking for? Are you being respectful, non pushy etc?

Even if you do all of these, you are not owed or guaranteed a reply.

People will only reply to you if they are interested, or to say no thank you. Some people (like me, for example) won’t reply at all if they aren’t interested in you. to add to this I've been been told and read on status's that the amount of messages women get on here is ridiculous so uve got to get there attention in the first place ... a simple how are you doesnt cut it."
I think I lack confidence to be honest and don't know how to strike a conversation

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By *anilla no kinkWoman
over a year ago

plymouth


"Tia thanks in advance "

Haha love a bit of sarcasm even better when it goes over someone’s head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you read FAQ, the section about messages? No reply in Fab terms means the person you sent the message to is not interested in chatting/meeting. Just move on.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"It starts with a decent profile and pics OP. "

That's ok Lady V, I'll address my profile and hopefully will be more successful @@@@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind me, I just enjoy tapping the X.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Don't mind me, I just enjoy tapping the X."

Aw Jim xx

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