FabSwingers.com forum: Are we doing something wrong !!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi we are a happily married genuine couple ,but are finding it hard to meet other couples,not just for play but to enjoy the social side of things also,

Is it our profile, is it because we are straight, is it because I'm a bbw or my husband too old?

We are at a loss.

We have been to socials,and a club but found clubs weren't really for us

Any advice would be grateful

Tia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems nice too me but im single good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's certainly not because you're BBW a lot of people are very keen to meet women who identify as such. Your partner is in the age bracket where meets start to drop off but I don't think that's too much of a problem.

It's possible that your line saying you have to be very selective prevents people from contacting you.

Otherwise I can't see why you're not attracting attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi we are a happily married genuine couple ,but are finding it hard to meet other couples,not just for play but to enjoy the social side of things also,

Is it our profile, is it because we are straight, is it because I'm a bbw or my husband too old?

We are at a loss.

We have been to socials,and a club but found clubs weren't really for us

Any advice would be grateful

Tia

On your profile alone, we’d be happy to meet you, however you’re in Bristol so that’s why we wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be one or all of those things, it could be none... It could possibly be all the bareback pics that say "with friend" or could just be the laws of attraction... Who knows

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"but are finding it hard to meet other couples,not just for play but to enjoy the social side of things also"

You have 42 veris - I think by many people's standards, you're doing very very well! So I guess the question then is what is it you think is not happening...?

I guess the usual applies (and applies to us too!) - it doesn't say that you're looking for the social side of things, nor does it say why someone should contact you, just why they shouldn't.

Good luck!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Looks fine to me and you have many verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree I find your profile confusing, the tarquin and friend annotations on most pics makes me think you are not a genuine couple, or you are a genuine couple but you play separately and mostly the male plays as there are more pics with the annotation than pics without.

I always look at pics first, then read the profile so if the pics have turned me off, i don't bother to read the profile, especially if it's a long one.

Mrs.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Just as a personal preference you might want to consider, most of your photos on the first page (which I would usually make up my mind on) are explicit and close-up. I (Luke) find attraction from looking at the whole person, and the explicit side doesn't usually help me decide anything. I like to get an idea of somebody's over-all body shape and I'm struggling with your profile. Fully-clothed, full-length photos can tell us a lot about attraction.

It's just a personal preference but you may think it helps.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Me and my partner find this difficult to find too. It's rather logical when you think about, we are all very different. It's hard enough to find great people we fancy to play with and be freinds with on a one to one basis. But to find a mutral four way or more way thing is always going to be difficult. It's nothing to do with dress size or shape believe me. We are just starting to make some good swinger friends our selves. It's just about persistence and getting your self out there. You'll find your fab freinds.

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