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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever meet someone they haven’t seen a picture of?

A guy messaged me and explained he NEVER sends face pictures but that he has had lots of meets and he did have over 10 veris from meets.

It’s not something I would personally ever do, but wanted to know others thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done twice worked out ok

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Does anyone ever meet someone they haven’t seen a picture of?

A guy messaged me and explained he NEVER sends face pictures but that he has had lots of meets and he did have over 10 veris from meets.

It’s not something I would personally ever do, but wanted to know others thoughts."

No chance. I would meet for social without face pic in public place but than I would think twice. There is really no good explanation for not sending picture and makes you very suspicious that something is not clear.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not unless it was at a club or something!! I wouldn't feel comfortable with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no, and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why a single woman would take the risk. So many men who are happy to share photo's, why risk one who won't ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Only if it was a group social setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have done ,we'd chatted and found that we laughed and then just cemented the connection when we met, now have a best friend too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No would always ask to see face pics, as a single female your safety comes first,

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Only in a club or a group setting where I was with someone I'd met before.

Privately with someone whose face I haven't seen, including one on one social? Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

But that's just work. On here, improbable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see why a single woman would take the risk. So many men who are happy to share photo's, why risk one who won't ?"

My thoughts exactly! Just thought it was very bizarre, as I understand being discreet, but actually meeting blind; no way!

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Nope. You'd have to be a bit nuts, why wouldn't they show there face beforehand

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

No way!

It's different if we're meeting at a group social or club but wed never plan to play without a pic

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My time to meet is limited and therefore I'd want to know there was an element of attraction there before wasting both our time.

Saying he has ten veris, as some kind of 'proof' of his attractiveness actually strikes me as quite arrogant too - just because others did, doesn't automatically mean you would.

There's also the safety angle to consider if you know nothing about someone, including how they look, beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always ask for a face pic if there isn't one on their profile or they haven't sent one.

Firstly how do you know if there is a potential attraction.

Secondly if you agree to meet, how do you know who you are meeting?

S x

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Not on your nelly, except for this:


"Only if it was a group social setting."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My time to meet is limited and therefore I'd want to know there was an element of attraction there before wasting both our time.

Saying he has ten veris, as some kind of 'proof' of his attractiveness actually strikes me as quite arrogant too - just because others did, doesn't automatically mean you would.

There's also the safety angle to consider if you know nothing about someone, including how they look, beforehand."

He was very arrogant and when I politely declined he insisted it was my loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't see why a single woman would take the risk. So many men who are happy to share photo's, why risk one who won't ?

My thoughts exactly! Just thought it was very bizarre, as I understand being discreet, but actually meeting blind; no way!"

Lots of people ask for all sorts of crazy stuff here.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Not a chance . Smacks of desperation to me . Though I appreciate personality and banter can be a huge sway

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My very first social I forgot to send a picture (genuine oversight haha). We're still seeing each other over a year later though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way. I'd want to know if there was attraction before even thinking about arranging to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet with a paper bag in my head and insist they do the same

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It certainly wouldn’t be my preference. If it was a quick social and I hadn’t gone too far out of my way it might be possible if the messages had been good. But unlikely.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Nope nope nope.....

Safety first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I also won’t meet someone when every single pic has some kind of filter added

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

You must be joking. Not a chance.

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By *i explorer and steveMan
over a year ago

Boston and Higham Ferrers

Never take the risk the 10 veris are easily obtained. Social 1st in a public place

Stay safe x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Id be looking at who verified them and if my imsgination.was captured then maybe. I'd make it clear a social only..have they seen your face pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Id be looking at who verified them and if my imsgination.was captured then maybe. I'd make it clear a social only..have they seen your face pic?"

The conversation didn’t get that far, I just politely declined and was told it was my loss, but it got me thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he ticked all the boxes I'd meet for a social. Worst case scenario, I'd just leave straight away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I would take chance for a social....

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'd say no but then I only meet in clubs so a face picture isn't always necessary. I definitely wouldn't arrange to meet someone outside of a club if they refuse to show their face before hand. Maybe he's on some most wanted list? Lol

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I wonder how he meets anyone ...

Or has he cornered the market in carnations ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if I'd planned to meet them at the gloryhole

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No never would. I like to know who I’m meeting and it’s a safety thing too

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