FabSwingers.com forum: If you have over 30 verifications.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You seem angry. Would you like a milkyway and a glass of milk OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You seem angry. Would you like a milkyway and a glass of milk OP?"
Not angry, just putting up a proposal I want to see what people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who has upset you today!

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Na your alright we will stick to what works.

On another note make sure the person who pissed on your parade washes their hands after please

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Who told you I have a hyper righteous attitude? Let me at ‘em!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"You seem angry. Would you like a milkyway and a glass of milk OP?"

This!

Av xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm good thanks. (some might say I'm very good. I'll see myself out)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I vanished all my veris along with it back to 1 again

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

No, I think they should get a silver blue Peter badge.

Every credit for doing something right and enjoying themselves and obviously enjoying other people.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah boss you could be right...Why 30??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!"

I asked why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all veris are sexual meets. I have 8 and only one is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah boss you could be right...Why 30??

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Didn't want to set the bar too low or high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet someone with all those verifications. Each to their own.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Dunno, I asked why but haven’t received an answer

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Original poster....the person who started the thread

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Either someones knocked him back, or he's got PMT.

Maybe both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how the 2 are related

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked why"
Most of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Think this applies to anyone and everyone irrespective of their veri quota - it’s not going to happen anytime soon though

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Original poster....the person who started the thread "

Too early in the morning for me too. Thought you wanted to know what OP meant, not what THE OP meant.

I have no idea on the second bit

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment."
--- 2cents have no value in the swinging economy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better 30 safe ones than one that shows you like playing Russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Think this applies to anyone and everyone irrespective of their veri quota - it’s not going to happen anytime soon though

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

No, I think they should get a silver blue Peter badge.

Every credit for doing something right and enjoying themselves and obviously enjoying other people. "

this

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

I've 29 ,I'm borderline

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

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Sounds good.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

I’ve got tons of veris op! A lot of social but a fair few are from people I’ve shagged!

I don’t think I have a hyper righteous attitude though! The only thing I disapprove of is multiple bareback partners - for pretty obvious reasons! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Original poster....the person who started the thread

Too early in the morning for me too. Thought you wanted to know what OP meant, not what THE OP meant.

I have no idea on the second bit

Still too early. Made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

I’ve got tons of veris op! A lot of social but a fair few are from people I’ve shagged!

I don’t think I have a hyper righteous attitude though! The only thing I disapprove of is multiple bareback partners - for pretty obvious reasons! Xx"

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

I've 29 ,I'm borderline

Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

I've 29 ,I'm borderline

Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream

You go girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked why

Most of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment."

I don’t have 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment."

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

Tea

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

we have 27 we been here 10+ years so that less that 3 a year damn i must stop being righteous!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

Tea"
So if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we have 27 we been here 10+ years so that less that 3 a year damn i must stop being righteous!!!! lol "
No prizes for numbers but prizes for good attitude handed out later.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

I've 29 ,I'm borderline

Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream

Ah now when you get to 300 you're ten times more hyper righteous than when you get to 30

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

I've 29 ,I'm borderline

Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream

Ah now when you get to 300 you're ten times more hyper righteous than when you get to 30

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Could that be true?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Guilty as charged. I've the most righteous attitude imaginable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Guilty as charged. I've the most righteous attitude imaginable

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Describe that attitude, it may be commendable?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

No cos all my verys are just social only verys

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By *ack-rayMan
over a year ago

worthing

Only got 11 veris, so have I only got attitude ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

No cos all my verys are just social only verys

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You have now stepped into the pool of the hyper righteous without knowing it!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

No cos all my verys are just social only verys

You have now stepped into the pool of the hyper righteous without knowing it!

sounds about right.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Most of ours are from meeting people at clubs who we never played with.

Lots of verifications doesn't mean you've fucked them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"
gaviscon it's the only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'? "

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. "
holyer than thou

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Phew. I was worried I could be hyper righteous but I only have eight veris so hopefully that means I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. "
Meaning:Justified morally.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on who's justifying what and when, surely. I have heaps of opinions on morality. But given I don't see casual sex (taking care of my health/ safety) as wrong, why would it constrain any of my views?

It'd be a problem if I thought anyone who slept around was inferior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

They would never admit to having such an attitude. They are always right.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

What does only having one veri mean?

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Why does alot of veris necessarily mean your self righteous? Isn't meeting other to play ultimately why people are here?? I'd say those people are just doing what they joined here for...better than those who are just all talk surely? Good for them. I find those who describe themselves as "the bees knees" & then require "perfect" physique in whatever way then they seem that to be more self righteous

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

What's the number of veris mean ?

Probably that you're socially gregarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does alot of veris necessarily mean your self righteous? Isn't meeting other to play ultimately why people are here?? I'd say those people are just doing what they joined here for...better than those who are just all talk surely? Good for them. I find those who describe themselves as "the bees knees" & then require "perfect" physique in whatever way then they seem that to be more self righteous

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Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. "
Which I must also add you are exploring in your comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yikes - I’m on the event horizon

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Good question. What is a hyper righteous attitude anyway? How does it manifest itself?

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. Which I must also add you are exploring in your comment."

attitude is everything in our opinion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't aware I had a righteous attitude.... I do try to offer advice, and brews where I can though, does that count ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its not about the numbers, numbers are irrelevant. You can have no veris, ten veris or 300+ It's more an exploration of attitudes. Which I must also add you are exploring in your comment.

attitude is everything in our opinion...."
I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too early on a morning for me. What does the OP mean

Good question. What is a hyper righteous attitude anyway? How does it manifest itself? "
Manifests itself in over the top judgments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Surely the ones who need to modify their attitude is those with less than 3?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Surely the ones who need to modify their attitude is those with less than 3?

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Maybe I'll do another post about numbers and pride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pound all the people I meet though

Sometimes I just cum into their hair

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"I don't pound all the people I meet though

Sometimes I just cum into their hair "

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Gah ... veris are so often smoke and mirrors anyway. The ones that go unpublished or are bought out on special occasions only, the ones from numerous meets that were never written in the first place, the near useless ones where the author never actually met or spoke to the person concerned but apparently 'saw' them across a crowded room and are therefore happy to confirm they exist (probably in the hope they get a similarly banal veri in return).

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Oh crumbs! Well, it depends on the veris! If they’re bad veris don’t worry! But if they’re good ones?

Anyone with more than 30 decent veris on here has earned the respect of the rest of us! They are in the first league, only surpassed by those in the Premier league with over 100 or even 1000 veris! Those are your ulti-mates! The awesome fabbers that make the Ancient Roman Orgyites look pretty tame! They are the ones who have truly attained the Holy Grail of eternal lust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally."

Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly?

Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there?

Tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh crumbs! Well, it depends on the veris! If they’re bad veris don’t worry! But if they’re good ones?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gah ... veris are so often smoke and mirrors anyway. The ones that go unpublished or are bought out on special occasions only, the ones from numerous meets that were never written in the first place, the near useless ones where the author never actually met or spoke to the person concerned but apparently 'saw' them across a crowded room and are therefore happy to confirm they exist (probably in the hope they get a similarly banal veri in return).

In other words, if you try to surmise attitudes typically displayed by those with this or that number of verifications - or the *type* of verifications for that matter - you could be totally barking up the wrong tree anyway! You're either a judgemental sort or not and your veris are unlikely to change that regardless of quality or quantity."
The number quoted (30) show activity on Fab. The verifications themselves are of no use in having an idea of the attitude of the person receiving them, that's obvious.Their profile which carries those verification numbers does.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Oh dear did someone jizz in your coffee this morning? Or is it the lack of jizz going anywhere for you the problem? Verifications are to show appreciation to whoever it was you met. Doesn’t have to be sexual all the time.

However we do read through them and when we come across a profile (couples mostly) that have over 25 we are cautious in case they’re a quantity over quality type.

S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh dear did someone jizz in your coffee this morning? Or is it the lack of jizz going anywhere for you the problem? Verifications are to show appreciation to whoever it was you met. Doesn’t have to be sexual all the time.

However we do read through them and when we come across a profile (couples mostly) that have over 25 we are cautious in case they’re a quantity over quality type.

S x "
It's interesting that a few people presume a post comes off the back of lack of 'activity'.

Many men are 'handled' that way on this site.

You mentioned sexual/non sexual I never highlighted either of those in my original post. Now whose got sex on their brain?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

When you have 30 veris will you move the bar to 50?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

However we do read through them and when we come across a profile (couples mostly) that have over 25 we are cautious in case they’re a quantity over quality type.

S x It's interesting that a few people presume a post comes off the back of lack of 'activity'.

Many men are 'handled' that way on this site.

You mentioned sexual/non sexual I never highlighted either of those in my original post. Now whose got sex on their brain?

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This is an exploration of attitudes!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Attitude about what?

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

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By *slite1Man
over a year ago

ludgershall

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally.

Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly?

Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there?

Tea

Tea"

I understand what you are getting at and I agree.people on there profiles say not fucking my way through site. Then they say they want nsa, well I reckon if you only stay with a couple of friends eventuly there will be strings. And one thing people are forgetting this is a swingers site. We all have different needs and quirks. Why Do some have to be so judgmental. Just do what we all like and get on like one big family. Does it rely matter if you sleep with whole or not, if you have you lucky fucker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

When you have 30 veris will you move the bar to 50?"

No lower it to ten!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally.

Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly?

Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there?

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

Does having lots of verifications preclude being righteous?

There are quite a few presumptions in your question OP.

Firstly; what are they veris from? Attending socials can garner several of not lots in one go.

Secondly; over what time frame? Some people have been here for years, 30 over 6/7 years isn't a lot.

Thirdly; what are they being 'righteous' about? One person's rational and logical standpoint is another's extreme and righteous stance.

TeaSo if you only do socials your more 'righteous'?

You need to clarify what you mean by the term righteous. It's very vague. Meaning:Justified morally.

Yes, I know what the actual word means. I'm seeking the context in which they're being righteous. Righteous regarding what exactly?

Or am I meant to just make assumptions and go from there?

Tea

Tea"
cmon make an assumption

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?"

I think that was the point the OP was trying to make or leading to.

I've been around this site for about 7 years now, in that time I've probably had well over a hundred verifications, possibly about 20 a year, 90% socials.

If people want to get judgemental about my choices regarding my body and my time then that's their issue.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't pound all the people I meet though

Sometimes I just cum into their hair "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Iv never met anyone that has that kind of attitude and i dont have that kind of attitude either even though i have lots more than 30 veris on my couples profile !

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?"

Because collecting veris is at the heart of the whole game! It’s about proof to the site that you’re good at doing what you say you’re good at! A CV is pointless unless you’ve got referees who can vouch for your ability to do the job. Obviously, the more, the better! Then people know you’re not just hot air. Would you prefer an electrician who says they’re good or one who’s recommended by someone else?

So, ppl like me who don’t have veris are treated with suspicion and rightly so, whether or not we deserve it. Incidentally, I had three very nice veris a few years ago but deleted my account and haven’t yet met since returning. But obviously it’s not easy getting a meet without veris, and quite right too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. "

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

Shame that as most of the people I’ve met have had no veris and they were the nicest people ever. I never understand why people filter folk with no veris. I prefer it personally. 50 sexual veris or none. I’d go for the none.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

We don't have a righteous attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

How?

. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough. "

I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers.

Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers.

Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up.

Tea"

Exactly and as for explicit ones, Not for me thanks. Whenever I’ve met someone we leave a social veri. If you meet again I don’t see the point in another one to be honest. I’ve asked people not to do them.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment."

you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement....

its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't stop going off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

How?

. Just my opinion "
Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I must admit I rather enjoy reading veris, shame alot of people choose to hide them.... Especially if it's due to the attitude of others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement....

its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't stop going off.

"
Reasonable judgments v over the top judgments 2 different things. We even judge various judgements. No problem with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What I'm really getting at is the more experience a person has on Fab shouldn't it make them less jugdmental. Not in having an opinion or exercising choices, but in the over the top quick to judge style of doing things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

How?

. Just my opinion Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement"."

I was saying that. As long as I know they’re not fake before I meet them, which is easy to ascertain, then I don’t see the issue. Hence me not understanding why so many people filter out those with no veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

How?

. Just my opinion Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm really getting at is the more experience a person has on Fab shouldn't it make them less jugdmental. Not in having an opinion or exercising choices, but in the over the top quick to judge style of doing things."

I don’t judge people for what they choose to do

and how they choose to use fab as it doesn’t affect me in the slightest. If I were thinking of meeting them then yes I will make my own judgements and this may include how many sexual veris they show on their profile and even who they’ve met before.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've got less than thirty veris...does this mean I can be as hyper righteous as I like?

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

Well, as it happens, Nora, I currently have none!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I've got less than thirty veris...does this mean I can be as hyper righteous as I like?"

Guess so! With no veris I have a right to be more righteous than everyone else here! Right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

Well, as it happens, Nora, I currently have none!

Haha awww. Well as it happens I’m not meeting at the moment. I have what I need. Good luck though

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I've got less than thirty veris...does this mean I can be as hyper righteous as I like?

Guess so! With no veris I have a right to be more righteous than everyone else here! Right!

"
you can be more righteous than me if you like

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

What about over 230?

Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

What about over 230?

Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards?"
Not saying that ,just thinking of the hyper types who sound like they hate all mankind via their profiles!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement....

its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't xstop going off.

"
It's all in the perception! Quote: "I'm having a good time" Quote: not "heavy or bad" Quote:" two cents of light-hearted judgment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm having a good time on here, I'm looking at the early responses. Now most of you presumed something heavy and bad happened. Without considering the question!

I asked whyMost of you, not you, I agree. It's a little thing I notice with some profiles very judgmental but busy left right and centre. So I put in my two cents of light-hearted judgment.

you are being as judgemental as the people you are complaning about being judgement....

its an irony paradox....the irony alarm in my house won't xstop going off.

It's all in the perception! Quote: "I'm having a good time" Quote: not "heavy or bad" Quote:" two cents of light-hearted judgment."
".

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By *anilla no kinkWoman
over a year ago

plymouth

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Oh dear who turned you down lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

What about over 230?

Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards?"
with 100 veris you can only be a little bit righteous..but more righteous than the 230 people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Oh dear who turned you down lol"
No one, best read the whole thread if your interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Oops just checked ours were on 29

Do we stop meeting or could we delete a few.

By the way can you describe hyper righteous need to look out for symptoms after our 30th veri

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By *anilla no kinkWoman
over a year ago

plymouth

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Oh dear who turned you down lolNo one, best read the whole thread if your interested!"

Not really interested was just replying to your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Lol

you have issues

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better 30 safe ones than one that shows you like playing Russian roulette

Well said sir !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Well Bill and Ted were Righteous....party on dudes

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

I've over 200 veris and am righteous. 97% of my veris are in relation to socials or events I've hosted so can be as righteous as I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers.

Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up.

Tea

Did we just agree again?!

That's it, I'm off to start a contentious thread

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers.

Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up.

Tea

Did we just agree again?!

That's it, I'm off to start a contentious thread

Tea"

Haha I’m loving this you and I keep agreeing thing! Who’da thunk it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

I agree with you. Veris are often filled with gratuitous hyperbole anyway. Once you've been verified as genuine then the rest is just numbers.

Personally I don't really need to see what some random guy thought of a person, I'm perfectly capable of making my own mind up.

Tea

Did we just agree again?!

That's it, I'm off to start a contentious thread

Tea

Haha I’m loving this you and I keep agreeing thing! Who’da thunk it!!!

Isnt it in Revelation as a portent of the end of days; " vi: and yay when Tea Monkey and Nora doth agree, the skies shall darken. vii: rain shall pour in June and men shall weep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More verifications = more people they've met, more experiences to back up their decisions and opinions. Good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More verifications = more people they've met, more experiences to back up their decisions and opinions. Good or bad."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Calm down tired. Not everybody has attitude on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Oops just checked ours were on 29

Do we stop meeting or could we delete a few.

By the way can you describe hyper righteous need to look out for symptoms after our 30th veri "
hyper righteous; It means frenzied over the top jugdments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Calm down tired. Not everybody has attitude on FAB."
Some people have though and it's revealed in their attitude!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

No. Next question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

Lol

you have issues "

Do you read much?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!"

I'm at 140+

Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation.

Thirsty work......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it..."
Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Dare not look how many we have, so dislike any basic form of “ism”

Especially projection- ism.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Dare not look how many we have, so dislike any basic form of “ism”

Especially projection- ism."

I've got an attitude of Dont Give A Fuck-ism

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"What is it though? Their opinion your objecting to? Because of their number of veris,s?....I'm not getting the gist of it...Steel Heels said it perfectly a few posts above you. That's all it's about. Nothing too deep."

I'm asking you as the OP your thread...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!

I'm at 140+

Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation.

Thirsty work......

I’m on 295

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking you as the OP your thread..."
Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good.

The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number.

I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good.

The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number.

I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no."
Good as in being less judgmental, expressed in a hyper frenzied sort of way.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

What about over 230?

Are you trying to say that, the more veries a profile has, the more hypocritical they are if they say they have standards? with 100 veris you can only be a little bit righteous..but more righteous than the 230 people"

100 visible, the rest were from folks who have since moved on....its a shame we have to loose their veries when they go.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good.

The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number.

I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good.

The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number.

I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no.

Do they chuff......and who makes anyone better or wiser than anyone else......we are not all wired the same...my perspective on something will be completely different from yours dsnt mean either of us are wrong or right...."
The exercising of wisdom, may help a person to be wise...and the same for the foolish in their realm, some things never change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good.

The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number.

I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no. Good as in being less judgmental, expressed in a hyper frenzied sort of way."

I think it depends on their experiences. Bad experiences may make them more critical sooner. Good experiences may make them more trusting and hence possibly also less judgemental.

Lots of hyper frenzy on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Would I be viewed as hyper righteous with my 7 veris???

I have actually met more... But not everyone brothers to leave veris. Lazy fuckers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking you as the OP your thread... Do Numbers bring wisdom? So the more a person is involved in a thing will it influence their actions for good.

The number 30 could have been 0,5,10,50,or any reasonable number.

I understand now through posting this the answer is probably no. Good as in being less judgmental, expressed in a hyper frenzied sort of way.

I think it depends on their experiences. Bad experiences may make them more critical sooner. Good experiences may make them more trusting and hence possibly also less judgemental.

Lots of hyper frenzy on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will! Promise!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!

I'm at 140+

Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation.

Thirsty work......

I’m on 295

You got game girl!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd didn't even shag our one veri (we don't shag anyone but each other, maybe that makes is righteous or whatever it was). Our solitary veri just cock blocks us on the regular so we assumed giving her some exclusivity as our veri/third wheel might placate her impulses to sing through Saff's letterbox......

This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"We'd didn't even shag our one veri (we don't shag anyone but each other, maybe that makes is righteous or whatever it was). Our solitary veri just cock blocks us on the regular so we assumed giving her some exclusivity as our veri/third wheel might placate her impulses to sing through Saff's letterbox......

This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?

X "

And you’ve not even veried me back!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?

And you’ve not even veried me back!!!

Don't challenge me!

You were too scared to display my last one about the shitting incident....

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

My veris are my business. And I don't have to justify myself to anyone here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I need to bring the popcorn

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?

And you’ve not even veried me back!!!

Don't challenge me!

You were too scared to display my last one about the shitting incident....

Can you stop with the poo......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!

I'm at 140+

Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation.

Thirsty work......

I’m on 295

You got game girl!!!!!

Sadly it’s from the socials!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are we shaming people for many (or few for that matter) verifications?

I don’t see them as like a CV. I see them as proving someone is genuine. I have a green tick to prove that and that’s enough.

Understood although some ppl like to see at least 3 veris before they will meet. Sometimes a green tick is not enough. Veris aren’t a CV - your profile is. Veris are mire like a job reference.

How?

. Just my opinion Sorry, I misread your statement. I was thinking you were saying you gladly meet people with no veris, which I found refreshing. Hence "A powerful statement"."
I chat to people and if we get on I meet them socially veris mean nothing but everyone will see something in them eg too many and omg, from certain people omg, from TVs or CDs omg, from someone you've met like and still meet or did omg

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?

I'm on 55 verifications, just wait until I hit 60!

I'm at 140+

Currently drinking from the cup of righteous indignation.

Thirsty work......

I’m on 295

You got game girl!!!!!

Sadly it’s from the socials!

Do you fancy making 296 a shag?

*no need to answer.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I shouldn't post what I am thinking as I'll be in trouble. Safe to say the O.P. knows nothing and is trying to draw attention to himself to increase his own verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post reminds me of that phrase about never going shopping while you're hungry, I'm not sure how though.... ....never post while you're, idk....?

And you’ve not even veried me back!!!

Don't challenge me!

You were too scared to display my last one about the shitting incident....

Can you stop with the poo......

Thats what I said.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you come to the conclusion that 30’s the benchmark?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've cultivated this attitude for a long time. I'll be fucked if I change it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about time you dropped that hyper righteous attitude you have?"

Depends what the veris are. Some maybe social. Club. Dnt all have to be fuck meets or are they. You need to go lay down and take deep breaths OP

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

I'll let you know in 30 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 30 I think, and not a sense of hyper righteousness in sight

I've 29 ,I'm borderline

Sorry, just recounted, I've 299...oops! Living the Fab dream

Ooooooh you trollop. Anybody think you were on a swinging site hehehe

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Be yourself and use fab however works for you. We're all so different and there's nothing wrong with getting 30 sex veris in one day, or more. As long as you adhere to site rules, generally showing respect for everyone, then I'd consider this to be living.

Live your own life, whilst you have it.

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