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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was listening to the radio the other day and there was a feature about back handed and strange compliments, the best I heard was...

Your tongue is overwhelmingly big for your beautiful face

What’s the best you’ve heard or received on here?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Not the best I've had, but had it nonetheless.

"Wow, you look good for your age!"

Is that what you mean OP?

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the

You look good, considering.......

Ones that get me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not the best I've had, but had it nonetheless.

"Wow, you look good for your age!"

Is that what you mean OP?

Jo.Xx "

Yes, a compliment that makes you go

‘Er, hang on, is that a compliment...’

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

“For a fat/tall lass you’re not bad looking”

Yeah? Cheers!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

My later mother in law said...

"I dont care what the others say I love you" bless her she had dementia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You look great for your age"

Considered a compliment that will immediately make me roll over with my legs apart, apparently.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have a great body for my age

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Nice arse...shame about the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm used to the never mind that your fat your really pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man....and a mature student at the time...went into class with shorts on (very hot day)...a young and very attractive lady said to me ....

“Wow, you have great legs......like a woman!” Deflated !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You look great for your age"

Considered a compliment that will immediately make me roll over with my legs apart, apparently.

"

Look at pics...then looked at age.

You do look great. Was surprised by age. So, simply, ya look great full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!"

Do you have a face only a mother could love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You look great for your age"

Considered a compliment that will immediately make me roll over with my legs apart, apparently.

Look at pics...then looked at age.

You do look great. Was surprised by age. So, simply, ya look great full stop "

It's the knowing when to stop, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!"

Oh dear! My parents were also skilled in the art of giving with one hand while taking away with the other

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!"

I took a fella i was dating home for tea, he went to the loo and my nan hissed at me “is that the best you can do?!” i felt awful on his behalf! She had altzheimers so was just grateful she didn’t say it to his face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I’ve met women in their 20s with worse bodies”!

I don’t even know if that counts as back handed or just an insult?!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"“I’ve met women in their 20s with worse bodies”!

I don’t even know if that counts as back handed or just an insult?!"

That counts as no style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I got divorced at 27 after a 3 year marriage, in the pub with my dad. Don't worry son you will find someone more suitable to you. She was far more upmarket than you will ever be . Cheers Dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

I took a fella i was dating home for tea, he went to the loo and my nan hissed at me “is that the best you can do?!” i felt awful on his behalf! She had altzheimers so was just grateful she didn’t say it to his face!"

My future ma in law said to the wife....well I guess he has a nice personality!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You look great for your age"

Considered a compliment that will immediately make me roll over with my legs apart, apparently.

Look at pics...then looked at age.

You do look great. Was surprised by age. So, simply, ya look great full stop

It's the knowing when to stop, isn't it? "

Does “you have the body of a 30 year old” sound ok....I said that to the Mrs and she was happy with that.....I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

I took a fella i was dating home for tea, he went to the loo and my nan hissed at me “is that the best you can do?!” i felt awful on his behalf! She had altzheimers so was just grateful she didn’t say it to his face!"

Ha ha! Well she was complimenting you really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not the best I've had, but had it nonetheless.

"Wow, you look good for your age!"

Is that what you mean OP?

Jo.Xx "

I get that as well. Quite a lot of men find it disgraceful to find someone my age attractive, so slag off us young ones then pm me to say actually, I’m sexy and they’d fuck me okay honeypie, you do you x

I also get the ‘id still fuck you even though you’re pregnant’ aw that’s so nice and thoughtful thanks xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told "you are very cleaver" followed by "not sure I like it, I thought you where just attractive and sexy"

Yes I caught him out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Your cheekbones are so nice for someone with a chubby face’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

Oh dear! My parents were also skilled in the art of giving with one hand while taking away with the other"

Mine didn’t usually bother with the giving part!!

To be fair, wife is out my league. How many times people said we don’t go together or wow...is that your wife?? How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You look great for your age"

Considered a compliment that will immediately make me roll over with my legs apart, apparently.

Look at pics...then looked at age.

You do look great. Was surprised by age. So, simply, ya look great full stop

It's the knowing when to stop, isn't it?

Does “you have the body of a 30 year old” sound ok....I said that to the Mrs and she was happy with that.....I think"

Honestly, no. Just compliment the person as they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Your cheekbones are so nice for someone with a chubby face’ "

Oh my god!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

Oh dear! My parents were also skilled in the art of giving with one hand while taking away with the other

Mine didn’t usually bother with the giving part!!

To be fair, wife is out my league. How many times people said we don’t go together or wow...is that your wife?? How? "

I think that's an incredibly rude thing to say to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘You don’t look pregnant’

It’s supposed to be a compliment, that’s how they intended it...but it’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘I thought hot girls with short hair were meant to be interesting’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“I’ve met women in their 20s with worse bodies”!

I don’t even know if that counts as back handed or just an insult?!"

Could have been phrased better but kind of thing I say when meant .....compliment. I said to wife....” you have the body of a 30 year old” and I’m guessing that’s ok???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A seven year old said I’d look better in a dark room, def not a compliment, but I let it slide as he was 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

Oh dear! My parents were also skilled in the art of giving with one hand while taking away with the other

Mine didn’t usually bother with the giving part!!

To be fair, wife is out my league. How many times people said we don’t go together or wow...is that your wife?? How?

I think that's an incredibly rude thing to say to someone. "

Me too! I have feeling too!! Got used to it though and take it as a sort of compliment......sort of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A seven year old said I’d look better in a dark room, def not a compliment, but I let it slide as he was 7"

Out of the mouths of babes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wait...how about this.

About my wife...”she is so pretty, I never thought you’d get anyone that good looking!” This was from my own mother!!!!!

Do you have a face only a mother could love "

To be fair...yes. And the wife too I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘I thought hot girls with short hair were meant to be interesting’ "

Haha That's so harsh, but it did make me laugh

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've been told a fair few times recently I remind people of/look like Meghan Markle. In that photo shoot where she'd given birth a couple of days ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been told a fair few times recently I remind people of/look like Meghan Markle. In that photo shoot where she'd given birth a couple of days ago. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘You’re better looking than I thought you’d be’ which is always a random thing to say before someone has seen / met a person

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I've been told a fair few times recently I remind people of/look like Meghan Markle. In that photo shoot where she'd given birth a couple of days ago. "

Yes..I can see the resemblance

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"You're quite wrinkly but I love you,mummy"

From my 9 year old. Erm thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

"

Haha oh man why would someone think that's a good thing to say to a woman and btw who compares a woman's attractiveness to their mom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

Haha oh man why would someone think that's a good thing to say to a woman and btw who compares a woman's attractiveness to their mom? "

The same type of men who compares a woman’s attractiveness to their daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

Haha oh man why would someone think that's a good thing to say to a woman and btw who compares a woman's attractiveness to their mom?

The same type of men who compares a woman’s attractiveness to their daughter "

I've got ask where are you meeting these men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

Haha oh man why would someone think that's a good thing to say to a woman and btw who compares a woman's attractiveness to their mom?

The same type of men who compares a woman’s attractiveness to their daughter

I've got ask where are you meeting these men? "

I’m not meeting them.

And well, I’m on fab....so you can probably take a good guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

Haha oh man why would someone think that's a good thing to say to a woman and btw who compares a woman's attractiveness to their mom?

The same type of men who compares a woman’s attractiveness to their daughter

I've got ask where are you meeting these men?

I’m not meeting them.

And well, I’m on fab....so you can probably take a good guess. "

So someone on here actually said something along the lines of you're more attractive than my daughter? ... I shouldn't be shocked on here, but come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re way fitter than my mum, she’s your age..”

Haha oh man why would someone think that's a good thing to say to a woman and btw who compares a woman's attractiveness to their mom?

The same type of men who compares a woman’s attractiveness to their daughter "

That’s just plain wrong.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You're quite wrinkly but I love you,mummy"

From my 9 year old. Erm thanks!"

My son once asked my father why his face was all cracked - there wasn't even an attempt at a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're deceptively attractive.

Every day I love you more than the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You're quite wrinkly but I love you,mummy"

From my 9 year old. Erm thanks!

My son once asked my father why his face was all cracked - there wasn't even an attempt at a compliment"

That's a really great picture of you! It doesn't look like you at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""You're quite wrinkly but I love you,mummy"

From my 9 year old. Erm thanks!

My son once asked my father why his face was all cracked - there wasn't even an attempt at a compliment

That's a really great picture of you! It doesn't look like you at all!"

Pmsl

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I always get you look good for your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For an older woman your fit n sexy lol scarlet woman mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy here told me yesterday I have good boobs for an 'aul one'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy here told me yesterday I have good boobs for an 'aul one' "

And you haven't jumped on his cock yet... No pleasing some women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the hairdresser and £60 lighter.

'wow, your hair looks SO much better now than it did before!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy here told me yesterday I have good boobs for an 'aul one' "

Love a woman with the Irish accent mmm

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"For an older woman your fit n sexy lol scarlet woman mmmm"

That a back handed compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For an older woman your fit n sexy lol scarlet woman mmmm

That a back handed compliment "
you’ve got a cracking arse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look so pretty without glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're quite fit..

For an old bird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly, if two females are sitting together, they can't both be pretty AND smart.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I often receive something between these lines “I usually go for fit girls but I cannot stop looking at your pictures”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got told on a meet several years ago; "I love a belly on a guy"

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not quite as much of a twat as I thought you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

these are awesome....just proves some people dont need to try to be assholes, it just comes naturally

i wouldve thought they needed to get up a hour earlier each morning to practice

it would seem i am wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm used to the never mind that your fat your really pretty "

They probably also assume you will be grateful for such a compliment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often receive something between these lines “I usually go for fit girls but I cannot stop looking at your pictures” "

Wow! There are no other words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are very elegant and classy looking, it's such a shame about your accent!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It's a shame you're mad you have such nice eyes

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I often receive something between these lines “I usually go for fit girls but I cannot stop looking at your pictures”

Wow! There are no other words! "

I usually have no words either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like those type of clothes but on you it is okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like those type of clothes but on you it is okay "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost forgot my ex-husband's classic:

Considering the rest of your family, it's amazing you're as normal as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple good friends this regularly happens with. Like a grenade thrown in lol. It takes a special twist to make it a good backhanded compliment and you need to know someone really well for them to accept the superficial, true part of the compliment and recognize the sting and smile. Both need a sarcastic wit to bounce off each other comfortably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking of grenades, but reflects my twisted humour when I heard this and laughed (I knew the one being spoken too very well). He's a personal instructor and someone was making small talk...

The way you’ve overcome your disability is so inspiring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're quite fit for an "oldie"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got told on a meet several years ago; "I love a belly on a guy"

Tea"

I feel your pain brother lol I've had "I love a big guy" whilst rubbing her hands down my belly... if she'd have done it on my cock and said that all good but on my belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're quite fit for an "oldie" "

Bet they were in their 40s.

I've had you look very well for your age! Feckn drop the age bit I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're quite fit..

For an old bird "

Haha what's worse is he probably thought you'd still have sex with him.

On a side note you're very good looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You look great in that photo, I didn’t recognise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're quite fit..

For an old bird

Haha what's worse is he probably thought you'd still have sex with him.

On a side note you're very good looking "

You missed the punch line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're quite fit..

For an old bird

Haha what's worse is he probably thought you'd still have sex with him.

On a side note you're very good looking

You missed the punch line "

Well it's in the back handed compliments thread so it's implied right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're quite fit..

For an old bird

Haha what's worse is he probably thought you'd still have sex with him.

On a side note you're very good looking

You missed the punch line

Well it's in the back handed compliments thread so it's implied right? "

One with a twist of not knowing... Deadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look so pretty without glasses "

Worse if they mean without wearing their glasses to see you with!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It's the

You look good, considering.......

Ones that get me lol"

I love to put them on the spot and ask “considering what”

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

‘I don’t care what everyone else says, I think you’re sexy’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not the insert comment here in the world. But I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look so pretty without glasses

Worse if they mean without wearing their glasses to see you with!"

Maybe they were wearing and he wasn't and didn't notice...lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm...was told i was a fine vintage!

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