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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

"

Unsure what the question is but no it's not how we talk here.

For some people. Maybe they get the impression by the profile that kind of talk turns the woman on, but it's still not on.

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

Unsure what the question is but no it's not how we talk here.

For some people. Maybe they get the impression by the profile that kind of talk turns the woman on, but it's still not on."

There's no impression on my profile, well definitely none intended

I just found it quite degrading TBF and wanted to rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I skim read the 1st line along with the avatar & username - usually tells me all I need to know without having to read it all = delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he was hoping to create a strawberry smoothie?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

"

Oh yes, its the reason I always take a couple of sticks of dynamite to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly men seem to think it's acceptable to act like that and say whatever they want. Under the guise Of, "it's a sex site".

Well, it is, but kind Of, so isn't.

Not all men, I hasten to add.

Like most things, you get out, hopefully what you put in.

Most of them think, men, women and couples will fuck anyone, if they're on here.

Thats the difference between "swingers" and Joe from down the street. That thought, I'll join, I'll have people "begging" for my cock

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I just kind of laugh at the futility of those types of messages now. They dont get anywhere with me. I have no desire to be destroyed or ruined.

What has made me comment though is one I have received today suggesting along the lines of he will dig out my pussy... dig so much I'll feel it in my spine.

I can give some points for originality and it just sounds so absurd I had to laugh.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"Oh yes, its the reason I always take a couple of sticks of dynamite to a meet."

A sledge gamer seems more personal.

But really, I’ve never understood the whole ‘destruction’ thing. It doesn’t sound particularly enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much porn, too little social skills

Doesn't bother me, just shows we won't be a match, that's the case with 99% anyway

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I suspect it's one of those things that some people are into.

Personally, there are things that I'm into that others might find distasteful. I don't want to hear it in a first message (or second or third), because I want to make sure that we're on a similar wavelength and respect each other before I open myself up with that kind of vulnerability.

But picking your moment seems to be beyond a lot of people here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Or, I want to know something about you so I can tell whether you mean filthy fun times or GBH.

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"Perhaps he was hoping to create a strawberry smoothie?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what the success rate of that kind of message is...?

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"I just kind of laugh at the futility of those types of messages now. They dont get anywhere with me. I have no desire to be destroyed or ruined.

What has made me comment though is one I have received today suggesting along the lines of he will dig out my pussy... dig so much I'll feel it in my spine.

I can give some points for originality and it just sounds so absurd I had to laugh. "

I totally get you there

I'm just amazed at what they think us ladies are here for . And yeah have to laugh it off

I do wonder of these messages.get.the response they so want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

Unsure what the question is but no it's not how we talk here.

For some people. Maybe they get the impression by the profile that kind of talk turns the woman on, but it's still not on."

So close.....

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd be tempted to say something along the lines of "Only if I can destroy your ass first"! Having said that, it'd be just my luck he'd agree!

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"I'd be tempted to say something along the lines of "Only if I can destroy your ass first"! Having said that, it'd be just my luck he'd agree! "

Lol yeah me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

"

No its now how people talk to people, i find anyone who speaks like that on here or FL arent worth meeting as they have been watching to much porn

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

"

That’s not how I talk. I stand block and wave goodbye

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

"

You've got me curious. Where is "here"? It's not anywhere I've been.

I've been broken before. But that's only because I stop working when my batteries go flat. They just need recharging to fix me. Destroyed sounds a bit final. I don't think I'd like it.

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

Nope, I always try to treat people with respect.

Weather you want to have sex or not doesnt matter a jot!!

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By *hotstuff69Man
over a year ago

cheshire

I get countless amounts of messages from gay men telling me that they would love to do this and that to my cock even though on my profile it doesn’t state that i’m looking for single guys. I get my hopes up when I see a message thinking it’s a lady and boom, it’s another guy.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I don't blame you, I have done exactly the same....thought it was going well and then a totally off putting message like that and it's all over

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do wonder of these messages.get.the response they so want "

Well I send approximately 200 of that type of message each and every day.

So far I have destroyed zero pussies and an identical number of arseholes.

Even if I do get an invite to wreak havoc on a lady’s private areas I doubt I will turn up.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

I blame porn..

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By *iss pleasuring OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"

I do wonder of these messages.get.the response they so want

Well I send approximately 200 of that type of message each and every day.

So far I have destroyed zero pussies and an identical number of arseholes.

Even if I do get an invite to wreak havoc on a lady’s private areas I doubt I will turn up."

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend


"I had a great message earlier

He said hello etc.. Related to my profile and said about himself I though yeah good, but I I reply something as with much effort then boom. Totally killed it with saying he wanted to destroy my pussy n ass hole..

After asking.. do you respect women

The response was, it's how we talk here

Just been curious now, anyone in of been destroyed

Oh yes, its the reason I always take a couple of sticks of dynamite to a meet."

Fire in the hole...

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