FabSwingers.com forum: Dirty

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

It’s probably just me but I really don’t like describing sex as dirty. As long as it’s consensual then sex is fun, sometimes sensual, sometimes kinky or rough. Dirty implies there’s something wrong or forbidden about it when it’s something natural and good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Naughty’

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Filthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you on this one OP

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"With you on this one OP

Phew! Not just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest. "

What type of sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reason I prefer not to use it is because of the associations it has had Dirty Old Men in Flasher Macs Dirty Slapper etc.....

I prefer to use more descriptive terms - like in another thread where I used the term sexually imaginative as an alternative to dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

What type of sex? "

No-douche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

What type of sex?

No-douche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

What type of sex?

No-douche

I giggled myself at that one

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

So if a woman said she wanted to come and see you and fuck you all night long and have dirty, no holes barred sex, you'd say no thank you, I'm only here for good clean wholesome fun?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"So if a woman said she wanted to come and see you and fuck you all night long and have dirty, no holes barred sex, you'd say no thank you, I'm only here for good clean wholesome fun? "

Dunno, give it a try

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

What type of sex?

No-douche

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"So if a woman said she wanted to come and see you and fuck you all night long and have dirty, no holes barred sex, you'd say no thank you, I'm only here for good clean wholesome fun? "

Don’t be silly!!

I’d just think, I don’t see anything dirty about that!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm with you OP.

Unless it's an invitation for naked mud wrestling, sex is not dirty.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) agree, OP.

I feel similar about naughty, but it's milder.

I think it's just terminology that gets a point across in a way that's understood, which is OK, but I'd prefer something less pejorative.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest. "

I agree. It’s an of the moment description. But also, not everyone likes that kinda sex - each to their own. Overthinking the use of the term makes me feel like sex can’t be wanton, debauched, hedonistic and all consuming. Filthy/dirty just describes that oooooft rawwwwwrrrr primal urge type sex to me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

I get what you mean when you describe that primal urge. I am interested why that conjures up words like dirty or filthy to describe something so natural. I wonder if it’s a hangover from more puritanical times when carnal drives were seen as bad.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm with you op. I also really shudder when someone sees me eating a cake and says "ooo naughty" it's not naughty, it's food and I'm enjoying it.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Prefer to use the word Nawty rather than dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scruffy

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't really mind it, I think it describes a certain type of sex rather than the negative connotations you suggest.

Possibly. But I love that idea. So I’m reclaiming the word filthy and dirty to describe some of the sex I crave.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm with you op. I also really shudder when someone sees me eating a cake and says "ooo naughty" it's not naughty, it's food and I'm enjoying it. "

That made me chuckle! I did that with an affected hand over mouth and raised eyebrows “ooooo naughty!”

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

There will be words that you prefer and others don't as long as you get the point. It is just a terminology used as a euphemism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There will be words that you prefer and others don't as long as you get the point. It is just a terminology used as a euphemism.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"There will be words that you prefer and others don't as long as you get the point. It is just a terminology used as a euphemism.

That’s true enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh you filthy, dirty bastard" Right after you've just cum inside me. Hmmm, I dont mind it so much

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I like it in a way. Craving excitement, pushing the limits of acceptability and what's possible, just giving in to those urges and disposing of your usual manners. Sex isn't inherently dirty, but there's a frisson of unacceptability which I enjoy tapping into.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like a bit of filth.

The dirtier the better

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I quite like dirty. I find fun more annoying, fun to me is going bowling or something.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Prefer to use the word Nawty rather than dirty"

Nawty is something else that grates on me

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Dirty sex to me isn’t the same as implied in the op. It’s that rough, sweaty, animalistic, raw get your fucking clothes off sex that makes your hairs stand on end and all the nerves in the body tingle with anticipation and complete in the moment wanton lust. Can’t get enough of it actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it, goes with rampant dirty sex and I like that x

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Dirty sex to me isn’t the same as implied in the op. It’s that rough, sweaty, animalistic, raw get your fucking clothes off sex that makes your hairs stand on end and all the nerves in the body tingle with anticipation and complete in the moment wanton lust. Can’t get enough of it actually. "

Don’t misunderstand, I fucking love that type of sex. I just wouldn’t use the word dirty to describe it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Theres a difference between dirty and grubby....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a woman said she wanted to come and see you and fuck you all night long and have dirty, no holes barred sex, you'd say no thank you, I'm only here for good clean wholesome fun? "

No of course not I just prefer to use different words personally.

Women never say that to me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll stop butt sexing anuses next week

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'll stop butt sexing anuses next week "

Don’t ever put a plug in it.

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