FabSwingers.com forum: How hard is it to find

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One person for a friends with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how fussy you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh....lots of factors play a part.

I've been lucky with the people I've met over the years. I know others who have really struggled to find someone for regular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find when im looking i always managed with the wrong kind.

so im happy going with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very difficult as it's a very complex relationship really. I've had one in the past but it's hard to not become attached long term.

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston

I found we ended up a lot more than friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very difficult as it's a very complex relationship really. I've had one in the past but it's hard to not become attached long term. "

i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. My first time on fab I met a guy who was ideal within a week.

This time it's proving much more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not easy at all. I’m working on it, but often our definitions of what a FWB is difffer considerably. I also wouldn’t want just the one

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Same here struggling to find someone roo

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Still looking. Live in hope

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Many find it extremely difficult.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m no good..... too emotional

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wink wink "

OP is straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not easy at all but it’s possible.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've got a fb, but she's an ex g/f and cooks a mean breakfast, does that count as a benefit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still looking. Live in hope

If only you where in the north east

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Still looking. Live in hope

If only you where in the north east "

I live in Derby, and most of the ladies that I've met off here seem to come from the South Coast

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

A meet is hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About as tricky as it would finding a boy/girl friend I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About as easy as winning the lottery, why did i change my numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not hard at all.

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By *ndybuzz1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Im struggling

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I found two swinging partners very easily when I first started. I now realise how lucky I was.

My secret is unending respect and consideration for what the other person wants. It goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding friends is probably the hardest part...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for one here for C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard. I'm way too fussy.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Finding someone is proving to be very difficult

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Finding someone is proving to be very difficult "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that hard really

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

For me.....nigh on impossible !!!

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham

"One person for a friends with benefits "

Near bloody impossible these days! Had a great one for 3-4 years but that was a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still looking. Live in hope

If only you where in the north east "
the north east is a bit hit and missy .. not many lasses around unfortunately . And some they have some crazy high expectations

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

You don't mention you're looking for a fwb, so are viewers supposed to be mind readers?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I've got a lovely lady for this but to be friends with benefits there is an emotional connection. We go out do stuff together and sleep together it's almost boy and girlfriend but we live apart and still have separate lives but the relationship is very honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't mention you're looking for a fwb, so are viewers supposed to be mind readers?"

Will add that in good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont find them it just happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't think it's an easy feat tbh. You can both want fwb but your not compatible.

My fwb told me from day one he wasn't interested in a fwb situation.... 7months on and here we are. We had regular meets, spent more time with each other then found we were contacting each other daily. And here we are. It's been much better it developing into this rather than being forced how it's felt in the past with others. It's our personalities that won each other over and great sex

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Very hard...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I honestly think it depends where about in the country you are, some places are more backward than others and thus makes things more difficult, especially if you personally are not from there, just my take on it.

Because you will probably not mesh with anyone local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One person for a friends with benefits "

Think it's about not looking!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Over time I have had a couple of fb's.thia suits me as I'm not looking for serious.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

It's certainly possible. Usually when you least expect it of someone. Don't get too demanding and don't anticipate that everyone is a potential FWB. You will know when someone fits the

bill and take it from there.

Two and a half years and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had nothing but proper fwbs for 25 years and they are all brilliant! My longest was for 14 years and my shortest is 2 years ... it's about finding others that don't do relationships. I've never looked it just happens tbh don't give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One person for a friends with benefits "

Easy enough if you are not fussy and even easier if you get a boob job lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not hard at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how fussy you are"

This is so right

I beat myself up because I never meet anyone but then again not many are my type, so i shouldn't bothered about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not hard at all."

Sure not hard for women

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Not hard at all.

Sure not hard for women "

Wrong. Volume does not mean success!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fuck buddy would be nice, one who becomes a lover would be even better.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Friends with benefits are out there , I'm just waiting in the que for one to find me ,

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We both met on our singles profiles, For almost four years we chatted and finally Penny caved and decided to meet me in person!

With in a few months the feelies had started to grow, we set up the couples page and now we are in love,

Smitten with each other and make the best team!

Keep your mind open and dream do come true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not hard at all.

Sure not hard for women "
not hard for guys either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One person for a friends with benefits

Think it's about not looking! "

This! And a bit of luck, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible, in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost impossible if you go looking for that specifically.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I live in hope

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

Bloody impossible, still looking though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are out there.. just the other end of the country

Considering moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hard . I'm struggling. None in my part of the world.

Men here want fck and goes or a blow job in their car. Nowt for the women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very hard . I'm struggling. None in my part of the world.

Men here want fck and goes or a blow job in their car. Nowt for the women .

Damn I will give a woman loads

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Very difficult to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard like the cock of an impotent man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I guess I am very lucky then.

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

Its very hard to find the right person...who is not also married

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Very hard . I'm struggling. None in my part of the world.

Men here want fck and goes or a blow job in their car. Nowt for the women .

Oh I definitely know how that feels, despite my profile being extremely blunt and saying that is NOT what I am looking for, yet everyday I still get the same shitty 'looking for a free escort' fecking messages

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It's probably easier to find a needle in a barn full of haystacks

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