FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?! "

I do not need other peoples validation, I know my worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say that I do anymore.

When I first joined I did, I used it as a confidence boost after being in a place nobody should end up.

Now I truly believe I have worth I don't seek it. I know I'm important, not to everyone of course, but I am important and I do have worth.

Don't get me wrong I enjoy making people laugh, but I don't need validation

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

I do not need other peoples validation, I know my worth.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t need it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mirror mirror on the wall,

Am I the best behaved of them all?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't believe this is anything I have ever done, even though when I first joined, there were some formidable characters on the forum I just joined in tentatively and held my breath

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t need it

I don’t need it either, you never see me start a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the validation of my fellow human, it comforts me, but if I have the validation of someone online I figure we're probably friends and I'll go drinking with them at some point.

Tends to be my experience anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont need or crave validation to know my worth....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't believe this is anything I have ever done, even though when I first joined, there were some formidable characters on the forum I just joined in tentatively and held my breath

I thought it was just typing in a box and pressing ‘post message’

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Simple, I don't crave it - of course it's nice to get it when it's offered naturally and unexpectedly, regardless of the location (physical or virtual) but it's not something I have ever set out to seek as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?! "

Why do you?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I don’t need it....... but I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence isn't great and fab can be the double edged sword for that. The nice comments do help and the means ones hinder. I have no idea why I care but I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people don’t realise they do crave it, or see the impact of this world on them. Baffles me how they don’t, but it’s not uncommon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Why do you?"

Totally

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Cada loco con su tema, James.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Why do you?

Totally "

*Nods*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cada loco con su tema, James. "

I like to grind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say that I do anymore.

When I first joined I did, I used it as a confidence boost after being in a place nobody should end up.

Now I truly believe I have worth I don't seek it. I know I'm important, not to everyone of course, but I am important and I do have worth.

Don't get me wrong I enjoy making people laugh, but I don't need validation

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il tag along on yours its a better way of putting what i wanna say

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I don't crave the validation of strangers or people that I know...why should I?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I just like making men hard.

My self worth is ok for a shy bird.

I post a lot of pics but because i like taking “erotic” pics and you can’t post them on certain other sites anymore.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I don’t need it

I don’t need it either, you never see me start a thread."

Nope never you lurker you

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I love the validation of my fellow human, it comforts me, but if I have the validation of someone online I figure we're probably friends and I'll go drinking with them at some point.

Tends to be my experience anyway"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly I crave a bit of peace and the ability to talk shit and giggle on the forums without ppl getting their panties tangled with misinterpretation, insecurity or gossip.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need validation from anyone, I'm comfortable with who I am!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Good question - I really don’t know

I crave to be loved but I know I’m basically unloveable

It’s all very odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't crave it. It really isn't something I need or particularly want. That said over the years many people who I've respected on here have given me their validation and while I've never sought it of course it's a good feeling. People who you respect returning the compliment can only be a positive thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't need validation from anyone, I'm comfortable with who I am!

We all need validation, some just won’t admit it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't need validation from anyone, I'm comfortable with who I am!

We all need validation, some just won’t admit it."

Oh course but you said from strangers on the internet, I don't need validation from strangers on the internet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?! "

Because I think that the world will stop turning if fab doesn't get to hear about my missing bootlace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm human? Acceptance is important to us as a social species.

That said I wouldn't say I crave it, it's just nice to be liked. I don't understand people who deliberately go out of their way to do the opposite, I think those are the people you need to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Because I think that the world will stop turning if fab doesn't get to hear about my missing bootlace. "

When you find it start a thread, I’ll start part 2 if it fills up and you’re offline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but I give no fucks what people think of me now, I am who I am and it really doesn’t bother me if anyone likes me or not, I’m a fucking delight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?! "

I don't... do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Because I think that the world will stop turning if fab doesn't get to hear about my missing bootlace.

When you find it start a thread, I’ll start part 2 if it fills up and you’re offline. "

Found it.

I've cheated death by deranged psychopath tonight, every day's a bonus for me.

Go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see it as validation I dont think, it's just joining in isnt it.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?! "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Because I think that the world will stop turning if fab doesn't get to hear about my missing bootlace.

When you find it start a thread, I’ll start part 2 if it fills up and you’re offline.

Found it.

I've cheated death by deranged psychopath tonight, every day's a bonus for me.

Go!"

The second psychopath I think I find scarier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Good input

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

I don't... do you? "

Only ironically

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Many block you - so you get the opposite of validation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

I don't... do you? "

He totally does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

I don't... do you?

Only ironically "

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?! "

To be fair, I do meet most of them.I like to keep my hand in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Because I think that the world will stop turning if fab doesn't get to hear about my missing bootlace.

When you find it start a thread, I’ll start part 2 if it fills up and you’re offline.

Found it.

I've cheated death by deranged psychopath tonight, every day's a bonus for me.

Go!

The second psychopath I think I find scarier."

You might have a point...the trigger to the gun?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"...crave the validation of strangers on the internet, most of who, you will never meet ?!

Because I think that the world will stop turning if fab doesn't get to hear about my missing bootlace.

When you find it start a thread, I’ll start part 2 if it fills up and you’re offline.

Found it.

I've cheated death by deranged psychopath tonight, every day's a bonus for me.

Go!

The second psychopath I think I find scarier.

You might have a point...the trigger to the gun?"

Just, the loud ones you know where they are and why state they’re in - silent ones, unpredictable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'm more scared, I'm going up armed from hereon.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I don't crave validation, I just enjoy sharing opinions.....And pi tures of my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't crave validation, I just enjoy sharing opinions.....And pi tures of my arse

Nice arse.

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