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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

When OH when can we have a ‘hide profile from this user’ button OR ‘hide profile except to friends .... how difficult can it be ?

If you unfortunate enough to have acquired a stalker, And I mean a stalker in the real sense of the word .... affecting your life in real time and fab time, being able to hide from them would be sooooo useful, not to mention reassuring.

Blocking doesn’t work, they can still see your profile bio and avatar, and when you were online only needs a hotlist entry for them to keep tabs on you.

C’mon fabs..... please please please sort something out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also if you are having issues report it to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a stalker affecting your real life, threaten/get police.

What if the stalker has another profile?

just remember, fab is not a police force,there is only so much that can be done.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts. "

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"When OH when can we have a ‘hide profile from this user’ button OR ‘hide profile except to friends .... how difficult can it be ?

If you unfortunate enough to have acquired a stalker, And I mean a stalker in the real sense of the word .... affecting your life in real time and fab time, being able to hide from them would be sooooo useful, not to mention reassuring.

Blocking doesn’t work, they can still see your profile bio and avatar, and when you were online only needs a hotlist entry for them to keep tabs on you.

C’mon fabs..... please please please sort something out "

whilst most on here would have sympathy for you and agree in principal the suggestions would do nothing to stop the determined "stalker" getting to you multiple profiles will always exist and deleting and making a new profile happens all the time ( not always for subversive reasons)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place. "

Really!! well I was sure that wasnt the case. That's the whole point of blocking.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

If you hide your profile from search engines they shouldn’t see any of that. Only when your online I believe.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place. "

This is true I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you hide your profile from search engines they shouldn’t see any of that. Only when your online I believe."

That's what I thought, but it seems I'm wrong if the other posts on this thread are to go by.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place.

Really!! well I was sure that wasnt the case. That's the whole point of blocking. "

Yes, you would think, but not the case !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place.

This is true I’m afraid "

How can a blocked profile see your updates?

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"a stalker affecting your real life, threaten/get police.

What if the stalker has another profile?

just remember, fab is not a police force,there is only so much that can be done."

Already done, several times and in depth down the legal route. I appreciate that fabs is not a police force.... but even Facebook has a blocking facility that completely blocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy blocked me months ago, just to test I've tried to find him but can see nothing, not status updates or if he's online, not his profile or anything yet I know he's still here as I sometimes see him on forums. So I would have to disagree as I tested and I can see nothing whatsoever.

He blocked me after months of friendship after I refused to enter a relationship with him, not because I stalked him or anything lol x

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place.

This is true I’m afraid

How can a blocked profile see your updates? "

It’s not the status updates that concern me, it’s when online is visible and any avatar photo and bio is visible ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is no matter how good the blocking is there's nothing stopping him from just setting up a new profile and seeing everything again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place.

This is true I’m afraid

How can a blocked profile see your updates?

It’s not the status updates that concern me, it’s when online is visible and any avatar photo and bio is visible .... "

They can't see your bio or avatar. Unless they are using other accounts to do so.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"A guy blocked me months ago, just to test I've tried to find him but can see nothing, not status updates or if he's online, not his profile or anything yet I know he's still here as I sometimes see him on forums. So I would have to disagree as I tested and I can see nothing whatsoever.

He blocked me after months of friendship after I refused to enter a relationship with him, not because I stalked him or anything lol x"

I would love to know how he’s managed that .... could it be that if you are the one that is doing the blocking you can still see their profile summary... but if you are the one having been blocked you see nothing .... if that is the case I am slightly reassured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t find the blocking options that useful on here, especially as they can still see status updates and when you’re online. It would be great if blocked meant blocked like it does on Facebook/instagram/every other social media site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy blocked me months ago, just to test I've tried to find him but can see nothing, not status updates or if he's online, not his profile or anything yet I know he's still here as I sometimes see him on forums. So I would have to disagree as I tested and I can see nothing whatsoever.

He blocked me after months of friendship after I refused to enter a relationship with him, not because I stalked him or anything lol x

I would love to know how he’s managed that .... could it be that if you are the one that is doing the blocking you can still see their profile summary... but if you are the one having been blocked you see nothing .... if that is the case I am slightly reassured "

If you have blocked someone then you shouldn't be able to see their profile either. All you can see is there avatar, location and tagine and last online if you look at your blocklist.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"When OH when can we have a ‘hide profile from this user’ button OR ‘hide profile except to friends .... how difficult can it be ?

If you unfortunate enough to have acquired a stalker, And I mean a stalker in the real sense of the word .... affecting your life in real time and fab time, being able to hide from them would be sooooo useful, not to mention reassuring.

Blocking doesn’t work, they can still see your profile bio and avatar, and when you were online only needs a hotlist entry for them to keep tabs on you.

C’mon fabs..... please please please sort something out

whilst most on here would have sympathy for you and agree in principal the suggestions would do nothing to stop the determined "stalker" getting to you multiple profiles will always exist and deleting and making a new profile happens all the time ( not always for subversive reasons) "

Maybe I have it wrong ... not in the right frame of mind to think clearly and having a rant out of frustration ... if I’m wrong I’m reassured which is all good

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"A guy blocked me months ago, just to test I've tried to find him but can see nothing, not status updates or if he's online, not his profile or anything yet I know he's still here as I sometimes see him on forums. So I would have to disagree as I tested and I can see nothing whatsoever.

He blocked me after months of friendship after I refused to enter a relationship with him, not because I stalked him or anything lol x

I would love to know how he’s managed that .... could it be that if you are the one that is doing the blocking you can still see their profile summary... but if you are the one having been blocked you see nothing .... if that is the case I am slightly reassured

If you have blocked someone then you shouldn't be able to see their profile either. All you can see is there avatar, location and tagine and last online if you look at your blocklist. "

So what would you see if you are the blockee not the blocker ? .... anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t find the blocking options that useful on here, especially as they can still see status updates and when you’re online. It would be great if blocked meant blocked like it does on Facebook/instagram/every other social media site."

And the accompanying delay in changing your mind. Can’t unblock within a week.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I don’t find the blocking options that useful on here, especially as they can still see status updates and when you’re online. It would be great if blocked meant blocked like it does on Facebook/instagram/every other social media site."

Yes yes yes this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy blocked me months ago, just to test I've tried to find him but can see nothing, not status updates or if he's online, not his profile or anything yet I know he's still here as I sometimes see him on forums. So I would have to disagree as I tested and I can see nothing whatsoever.

He blocked me after months of friendship after I refused to enter a relationship with him, not because I stalked him or anything lol x

I would love to know how he’s managed that .... could it be that if you are the one that is doing the blocking you can still see their profile summary... but if you are the one having been blocked you see nothing .... if that is the case I am slightly reassured

If you have blocked someone then you shouldn't be able to see their profile either. All you can see is there avatar, location and tagine and last online if you look at your blocklist.

So what would you see if you are the blockee not the blocker ? .... anyone ? "

As far as I know, you would see nothing other than forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest you make a new profile with a different name and slightly alter your age and location. Then if he does have other profiles it will be harder to find you.

If you hide your profile when you first join you won't show up as a newbie on updates and draw attention.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I don’t find the blocking options that useful on here, especially as they can still see status updates and when you’re online. It would be great if blocked meant blocked like it does on Facebook/instagram/every other social media site.

And the accompanying delay in changing your mind. Can’t unblock within a week."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy blocked me months ago, just to test I've tried to find him but can see nothing, not status updates or if he's online, not his profile or anything yet I know he's still here as I sometimes see him on forums. So I would have to disagree as I tested and I can see nothing whatsoever.

He blocked me after months of friendship after I refused to enter a relationship with him, not because I stalked him or anything lol x

I would love to know how he’s managed that .... could it be that if you are the one that is doing the blocking you can still see their profile summary... but if you are the one having been blocked you see nothing .... if that is the case I am slightly reassured

If you have blocked someone then you shouldn't be able to see their profile either. All you can see is there avatar, location and tagine and last online if you look at your blocklist.

So what would you see if you are the blockee not the blocker ? .... anyone ?

As far as I know, you would see nothing other than forum posts. "

Unless you counter-block then you can see the same info in your block list.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"When OH when can we have a ‘hide profile from this user’ button OR ‘hide profile except to friends .... how difficult can it be ?

If you unfortunate enough to have acquired a stalker, And I mean a stalker in the real sense of the word .... affecting your life in real time and fab time, being able to hide from them would be sooooo useful, not to mention reassuring.

Blocking doesn’t work, they can still see your profile bio and avatar, and when you were online only needs a hotlist entry for them to keep tabs on you.

C’mon fabs..... please please please sort something out "

you informed police about this real stalker??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP, I have just added you to my hot list, if you can now block me, and let me know I am blocked here I will let you know what I can see.

Currently can't PM you as outside age range. And can't see your profile as it is hidden.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"When OH when can we have a ‘hide profile from this user’ button OR ‘hide profile except to friends .... how difficult can it be ?

If you unfortunate enough to have acquired a stalker, And I mean a stalker in the real sense of the word .... affecting your life in real time and fab time, being able to hide from them would be sooooo useful, not to mention reassuring.

Blocking doesn’t work, they can still see your profile bio and avatar, and when you were online only needs a hotlist entry for them to keep tabs on you.

C’mon fabs..... please please please sort something out

you informed police about this real stalker??"

Yes I have in the past, as have others .... but I am reluctant to report anything from on fabs for obvious reasons

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Hi OP, I have just added you to my hot list, if you can now block me, and let me know I am blocked here I will let you know what I can see.

Currently can't PM you as outside age range. And can't see your profile as it is hidden."

Okeys ...

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Hi OP, I have just added you to my hot list, if you can now block me, and let me know I am blocked here I will let you know what I can see.

Currently can't PM you as outside age range. And can't see your profile as it is hidden.

Okeys ... "

Your profile is hidden I see nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi OP, I have just added you to my hot list, if you can now block me, and let me know I am blocked here I will let you know what I can see.

Currently can't PM you as outside age range. And can't see your profile as it is hidden.

Okeys ...

Your profile is hidden I see nothing "

You should still be able to block me.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Hi OP, I have just added you to my hot list, if you can now block me, and let me know I am blocked here I will let you know what I can see.

Currently can't PM you as outside age range. And can't see your profile as it is hidden.

Okeys ...

Your profile is hidden I see nothing

You should still be able to block me."

yes blocked

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids

Ok, so I have also asked a friend to block ME to see what I can see of them and I cannot see them AT ALL. Vanished from my friends list, hotlist and a search reveals a ‘sorry user cannot be found’ Message ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so I have also asked a friend to block ME to see what I can see of them and I cannot see them AT ALL. Vanished from my friends list, hotlist and a search reveals a ‘sorry user cannot be found’ Message ...."

That's great and exactly what I thought. Hopefully that's reassured you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, that took you off of my hot list, so can't see you on there anymore.

But if I view your profile page from this forum link, although it is hidden I can see your verification numbers. Going to search for your username now.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Ok, that took you off of my hot list, so can't see you on there anymore.

But if I view your profile page from this forum link, although it is hidden I can see your verification numbers. Going to search for your username now."

Thank you, I really appreciate this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You no longer come up on searches for your name.

So blocking seems to work quite well. Though obviously if I was to set up a second account that would not be blocked.

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"You no longer come up on searches for your name.

So blocking seems to work quite well. Though obviously if I was to set up a second account that would not be blocked. "

Appreciate that, thank you. I am constantly on my guard and always wary so not much more I can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No if you block they can't see anything other than forum posts.

You can still see when last online, status updates if you look in the right place.

Really!! well I was sure that wasnt the case. That's the whole point of blocking. "

I can't see anyone at all that I've blocked!

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Ok, so I have also asked a friend to block ME to see what I can see of them and I cannot see them AT ALL. Vanished from my friends list, hotlist and a search reveals a ‘sorry user cannot be found’ Message ....

That's great and exactly what I thought. Hopefully that's reassured you. "

Yes it has ... massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You no longer come up on searches for your name.

So blocking seems to work quite well. Though obviously if I was to set up a second account that would not be blocked.

Appreciate that, thank you. I am constantly on my guard and always wary so not much more I can do "

Not 100% but if it was me, I would block all known iterations of stalker THEN change my username, so they couldn't follow the change or find me with a new profile... being paranoid I would also delete all verifications in case they have those noted down.

I have temporarily unhidden my profile, can you see it even though I am on your block list?

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"You no longer come up on searches for your name.

So blocking seems to work quite well. Though obviously if I was to set up a second account that would not be blocked.

Appreciate that, thank you. I am constantly on my guard and always wary so not much more I can do

Not 100% but if it was me, I would block all known iterations of stalker THEN change my username, so they couldn't follow the change or find me with a new profile... being paranoid I would also delete all verifications in case they have those noted down.

I have temporarily unhidden my profile, can you see it even though I am on your block list? "

I may well follow your suggestions ...

I can see your avatar, that you are online now and your bio ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You no longer come up on searches for your name.

So blocking seems to work quite well. Though obviously if I was to set up a second account that would not be blocked.

Appreciate that, thank you. I am constantly on my guard and always wary so not much more I can do

Not 100% but if it was me, I would block all known iterations of stalker THEN change my username, so they couldn't follow the change or find me with a new profile... being paranoid I would also delete all verifications in case they have those noted down.

I have temporarily unhidden my profile, can you see it even though I am on your block list?

I may well follow your suggestions ...

I can see your avatar, that you are online now and your bio ... "

Try now, I have just blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block removed. Profile back in hiding, going to the beech for a beer

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By *ilks xXx OP   Woman
over a year ago

East Mids


"Block removed. Profile back in hiding, going to the beech for a beer "

Sorry my lovely missed last post

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