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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a hunter or prey when it comes to meeting on fab?

Do you approach others or wait for them to come to you? Once you get chatting do you actively seek to woo the other person or do you let them do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately always the Hunter, I’d love to be someone’s prey tho

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Neither, I'm very much go with the flow, interact with people and see where it leads without any preconceived agenda or ultimate aim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm most deffo a prolific hunter so watch out haha

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think I'm the hunted but every now and then I'll check out new members in my area or updates etc.

I have no problem contacting guys that I like the look of

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Single guys have to take the initiative.... I'm selective about who I'll message though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hunting , don’t think many women would see me as good enough to message

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I think I transcend the food chain in this respect. I appear to an inanimate object.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

On Fab, men--unless they are *truly* exceptional--are essentially required to be hunters to have any reasonable hope of meeting. Or at least that’s my impression.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My experience has been a 50/50 split I think, some guys have messaged me first and others I initiated the messages which then lead to meeting, you can’t always sit around and wait for them to come to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always more a trapper

Rarely chased bated with treats then caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to hunt, trap and lock them away somewhere to be used for my personal pleasure as and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to hunt, trap and lock them away somewhere to be used for my personal pleasure as and when. "
kinky haha

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"On Fab, men--unless they are *truly* exceptional--are essentially required to be hunters to have any reasonable hope of meeting. Or at least that’s my impression."

That is not to say women don’t approach men, as _andybeach says for example, but the odds are dramatically reduced for men who are passive, given the amount of lads on here.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I like to hunt, trap and lock them away somewhere to be used for my personal pleasure as and when. "

Noratheconquerer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fab it's been more a case of being hunted. Not always, but more often than not. Real life was always the other way around.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"On Fab, men--unless they are *truly* exceptional--are essentially required to be hunters to have any reasonable hope of meeting. Or at least that’s my impression."

I honestly think it comes down to the individual person and their expectations and perceptions of the site.

Seeing it as a "hunt" isn't necessarily the way to go though, yes you have to be pro-active and take steps to stand out to get noticed (but that applies equally to men and women), but it also doesn't have to be quite as cold and clinical as a hunt would suggest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to hunt...sneak up and nip their ankles in the hope they chase me back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We let them come to us as we have found the ones we have spoken to, to start with to be ghosting fake twats.

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By *ewkesbury cowboyMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Forever the hunter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hit B with cupid's arrow, after a little flirt-sparring from both directions.

It was very much a mutual thing.

There really are some predators on here who you can watch and predict their next move they're so transparent.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to hunt...sneak up and nip their ankles in the hope they chase me back "
very nice pictures and funny shirts , and ankle biting? Haha

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"On Fab, men--unless they are *truly* exceptional--are essentially required to be hunters to have any reasonable hope of meeting. Or at least that’s my impression.

I honestly think it comes down to the individual person and their expectations and perceptions of the site.

Seeing it as a "hunt" isn't necessarily the way to go though, yes you have to be pro-active and take steps to stand out to get noticed (but that applies equally to men and women), but it also doesn't have to be quite as cold and clinical as a hunt would suggest."

Yes, I dislike the term hunt. But I took it to mean here as simply proactive, not just waiting.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Are you a hunter or prey when it comes to meeting on fab?

Do you approach others or wait for them to come to you? Once you get chatting do you actively seek to woo the other person or do you let them do it? "

My hunting has been pretty much unsuccessful so I kinda sit back and wait.

And wait.

And wait.

And wait.

And wait.

And wait.

And wait.

You get the picture......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait in the grass then strike penetrate hold squeeze and devour

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We usually are the prey. But we will contact couples and single women first. Single men however have to work on us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hit B with cupid's arrow, after a little flirt-sparring from both directions.

It was very much a mutual thing.

There really are some predators on here who you can watch and predict their next move they're so transparent.

P"

It's actually really funny leaving and coming back to fab and seeing some people approach and use the same lines they did before. It's like a routine.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Neither, I'm very much go with the flow, interact with people and see where it leads without any preconceived agenda or ultimate aim."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm the hunted but every now and then I'll check out new members in my area or updates etc.

I have no problem contacting guys that I like the look of "

Thank you

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m more of a hey!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A bit of both, if someone catches my eye or stimulates my mind, I’ll send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im both . if someone messages me great or i would message them

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I hit B with cupid's arrow, after a little flirt-sparring from both directions.

It was very much a mutual thing.

There really are some predators on here who you can watch and predict their next move they're so transparent.

P

It's actually really funny leaving and coming back to fab and seeing some people approach and use the same lines they did before. It's like a routine. "

They don’t even need to leave, all to often you get the same cut and paste message that you didn’t respond to before haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m more of a hey! "

Not a punter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hit B with cupid's arrow, after a little flirt-sparring from both directions.

It was very much a mutual thing.

There really are some predators on here who you can watch and predict their next move they're so transparent.

P

It's actually really funny leaving and coming back to fab and seeing some people approach and use the same lines they did before. It's like a routine. "

Calculated. I don't like it one bit.

P

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A bit of both, if someone catches my eye or stimulates my mind, I’ll send a message"

Exactly that, a pic or a forum post may lead someone to catch your eye, maybe take a look at their profile but it's only when you start to talk and find a connection and chemistry and like minds that are on the same wavelength that you can really *know*

Hence my earlier response to the OP about taking a more laid back, go with the flow and see where it leads approach, rather than seeing myself as hunter or prey

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I hunt for what I like. I'm nobody's prey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit of both, if someone catches my eye or stimulates my mind, I’ll send a message

Exactly that, a pic or a forum post may lead someone to catch your eye, maybe take a look at their profile but it's only when you start to talk and find a connection and chemistry and like minds that are on the same wavelength that you can really *know*

Hence my earlier response to the OP about taking a more laid back, go with the flow and see where it leads approach, rather than seeing myself as hunter or prey "

Exactly this.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely hunt. I'd like to be a woman's prey but I'm convinced they don't go looking for prey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First come first serve anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to mix it up

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’m more of a hey!

Not a punter? "

Aye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very passive and rarely approach anyone. On here and in real life. I'm amazed I ever have sex to be honest.

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Hunting or hunted, I like both, just like on the Discovery Channel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m more of a hey!

Not a punter?

Aye!"

Love a good punt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a scavenger and have the leftovers

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I like to hunt. It’s a control thing.

Lex

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"A bit of both, if someone catches my eye or stimulates my mind, I’ll send a message

Exactly that, a pic or a forum post may lead someone to catch your eye, maybe take a look at their profile but it's only when you start to talk and find a connection and chemistry and like minds that are on the same wavelength that you can really *know*

Hence my earlier response to the OP about taking a more laid back, go with the flow and see where it leads approach, rather than seeing myself as hunter or prey "

The expanded version of my synopsis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say a bit of both but I do like the person to be able to flick my switch and stimulate my mind xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A bit of both, if someone catches my eye or stimulates my mind, I’ll send a message

Exactly that, a pic or a forum post may lead someone to catch your eye, maybe take a look at their profile but it's only when you start to talk and find a connection and chemistry and like minds that are on the same wavelength that you can really *know*

Hence my earlier response to the OP about taking a more laid back, go with the flow and see where it leads approach, rather than seeing myself as hunter or prey

The expanded version of my synopsis "

Well you know me...why use one word when twenty could be used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The prey, I’m sure every women gets 1000s of messages a day so there’s no point, if they like you I’m sure they will message and if there lucky I’ll reply

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"A bit of both, if someone catches my eye or stimulates my mind, I’ll send a message

Exactly that, a pic or a forum post may lead someone to catch your eye, maybe take a look at their profile but it's only when you start to talk and find a connection and chemistry and like minds that are on the same wavelength that you can really *know*

Hence my earlier response to the OP about taking a more laid back, go with the flow and see where it leads approach, rather than seeing myself as hunter or prey

The expanded version of my synopsis

Well you know me...why use one word when twenty could be used "

Haha indeed, you have a way with words and know how to write an essay, albeit an interesting read

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in between perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to hunt...sneak up and nip their ankles in the hope they chase me back "

I had a collie like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the fantastic Mr fox

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Probably erring towards hunter. If I like someone I prefer to let them know, I'm crap at the passively waiting to be chased thing. Sometimes it quickly becomes apparent we're not that compatible and I let things fizzle but generally I'm quite good at knowing what I like and if we'll be compatible.

I might try being a bit more nonchalant and prey like for a hoot though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prey. My lack of photos mean they want to fuck my personality. It boosts my ego and makes me feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The prey, I’m sure every women gets 1000s of messages a day so there’s no point, if they like you I’m sure they will message and if there lucky I’ll reply "

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