FabSwingers.com forum: Reply’s and deletes

By *avethefish400 OP Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Anyone else find they either get blocked or deleted when a conversation is flowing or so I thought?

It’s very frustrating and disappointing as getting a response is extremely unlikely considering the ratio of men to women.

I would understand it if I had said something extreme or answered a question not to the lady’s liking.

Maybe it’s just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s easier to block someone than to explain you’ve lost interest.

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By *avethefish400 OP Man
over a year ago

Chichester

The last time this happened we had arranged to meet up on her suggestion so maybe she got a better offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get this , as I get a lot of deleted messages without reading myself , but the likelihood is that the message may have got lost in the amount of others the user has been sent , I do like it when people reply even if not interested to let you know , but I can understand that with the silly amounts of messages some people get everyday that it’s tiresome to reply to all

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By *avethefish400 OP Man
over a year ago

Chichester

"I do get this , as I get a lot of deleted messages without reading myself , but the likelihood is that the message may have got lost in the amount of others the user has been sent , I do like it when people reply even if not interested to let you know , but I can understand that with the silly amounts of messages some people get everyday that it’s tiresome to reply to all "

I agree and it is nice to have a reply even if it’s a “no”

Getting a first message right is a mine field!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it like a bullet dodged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very much so, there are some nice people on here tho, I got a reply saying thank you for the compliments I sent the other day, I have however said some nice things genuinely and been greeted with a “deleted”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if a lady does reply to her hundreds of mails you still get a lot that still want to converse so it isn't as easy as just reply with no thanks, also I and probably most the ladies have had abuse from saying no so it is much easier to just delete even if it isn't nice to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is obligated to mail anyone back at the end of the day. If your message is boring or you're not what they want then you run the risk of your message being ignored and deleted. It's what happens on here with the large volume of messages users can receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can get quite shitty if one messages them to say no thanks, I do do it often though. Mostly I block and delete after to avoid further messages. I have been known to say thanks for a compliment xxx

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By *avethefish400 OP Man
over a year ago

Chichester

"very much so, there are some nice people on here tho, I got a reply saying thank you for the compliments I sent the other day, I have however said some nice things genuinely and been greeted with a “deleted” "

I often compliment on a ladies pictures.

Sometimes in the hope to start a conversation and others just because the look great!

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