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Is it ok to have double standards?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no.

Ppl do whatever they want yet when they do the opposite of what they ask or say... They are probably retarded

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes it is OK. It might put some people off, but if they want to take that risk it's up to them. People can ask for whatever they want, it doesn't mean they're going to get it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never lower your standards, even if you don't know what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course. It’s preference (hate that word!). I’m a bisexual woman who doesn’t meet bisexual men. I don’t see how it’s double standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never lower your standards, even if you don't know what they are."

I like that.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes it is. It doesn't mean that people won't make an opinion about them doing so but it's really down to what someone wants to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes of course. It’s preference (hate that word!). I’m a bisexual woman who doesn’t meet bisexual men. I don’t see how it’s double standards. "

I reckon people say it's double standards to try and 'shame' people into agreeing to meet them after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We're all here for our own hedonistic pleasures, you don't need to compromise on what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know where i stand with people with double standards

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If that's how some people see fit to run their profile then I say good luck to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes of course. It’s preference (hate that word!). I’m a bisexual woman who doesn’t meet bisexual men. I don’t see how it’s double standards.

I reckon people say it's double standards to try and 'shame' people into agreeing to meet them after all. "

Maybe. Wouldn’t work with me though. I like what I like. I don’t see the need to explain reasons either which people often demand.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

I think it’s perfectly acceptable. I’m not sure they are double standards. At least, bi women not meeting bi men is not a double-standard, as far as I’m concerned.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

Let’s be honest here for a moment .

If it wasn’t ok to have these double standards , the ratio of women to men would be even worse than it already is !

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not sure how bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard - they're completely different things.

Of the other things listed - of course it's ok people can choose to have whatever preferences they want on here so long as they aren't driven by hatred or bigotry - and shouldn't be attacked for them, neither should they be surprised if having those preferences work against them.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

Everybody has preferences for things they won’t do, or people they won’t meet. It’s hardly double standards just because a third party doesn’t like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is okay! Unless I say it is. Or think otherwise later.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Most people have flexible standards.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Most people have flexible standards. "

Are you flexible?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s perfectly acceptable. I’m not sure they are double standards. At least, bi women not meeting bi men is not a double-standard, as far as I’m concerned.

"

I don't think it is either, I just used it as an example because some people do say it's a double standard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure how bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard - they're completely different things.

Of the other things listed - of course it's ok people can choose to have whatever preferences they want on here **so long as they aren't driven by hatred or bigotry** - and shouldn't be attacked for them, neither should they be surprised if having those preferences work against them."

** I'm still (always) trying to get my head round this comment (that gets mentioned by many people in various threads). Your comment on my other thread is helping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everybody has preferences for things they won’t do, or people they won’t meet. It’s hardly double standards just because a third party doesn’t like them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes of course. It’s preference (hate that word!). I’m a bisexual woman who doesn’t meet bisexual men. I don’t see how it’s double standards. "
ooooo Nora has blue eyes, so cute ... Sorry I like pretty eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My standards are the same in real life as here.

I admit beer goggles have made me a few epic fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much have no standards.. . As long as you're a woman with a decent personality and we get on well ... I couldn't give a flying monkey if you're fat thin tall small hairy old young black white Asian ..... Alien with 3 tits? .... I'd be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then again is that a double standard?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

You can't stop people having 'double standards' (often a subjective term anyway). If you notice them and don't like them then you are of course free to avoid the person(s) concerned, just as you would for any other unattractive feature they possess. They really don't take up any of my headspace

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

Women who don't even have a penis who won't meet men with less than 8 inches.

If somebody has standards, such as pics or verification showing, which they don't confirm with on their own profile it doesn't matter unless the people they want to meet have the same rules.

And we know that some people (mostly men) would email an empty profile, if the box marked woman is ticked.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Yes it’s ok. You can ask for whatever you want, it’s their choice whether they get in touch.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm quite fat but I don't find fat men sexy. I don't think that is a double standard. It's up to the slim man to decide if he fancies me or not.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Depending on what you mean by "OK", I'd say people can make their own choices on this matter. If it puts people off and lowers their chances of finding people they would otherwise like, that's their problem.

If they aren't preachy, live and let live.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Never lower your standards, even if you don't know what they are."

I fully agree with this ....

We all make our own decisions, have our likes and dislikes.

I always go on gut instinct ..

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Best to do whatever works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's not confuse standards with preference

There is a difference

You can have standards (double or otherwise) and you can also exercise preference

As long as I fit both their standards and preference and they meet mine, I'm happy to meet

If, however, during the course of that meet they said or did something I was uncomfortable with, I'd happily call it quits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Pointed out to my mom the other day when she hit me, we ran from my father because of domestic violence, yet the only thing I can remember is her hitting me around the head, at full whack with hands, shoes, hairbrush, and belts (buckle end. Told her that's why had I had kids, I wouldn't have left them with her - the bitter battle goes on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"double standards" usually used on here by those who don't get what they want or things don't go their way. There is no entitlement and a person has the right to have their standards and preferences as to how they run their profile ect. Accept it or move on I say ??

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Most people have flexible standards.

Are you flexible? "

I can touch my toes!

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

No, it’s absolutely not ok; however, the fact that it’s not ok is completely different from the fact that you have the freedom to put whatever you want on your profile. People are similarly free to reject your double standards or approach you in spite of them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Not sure how bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard - they're completely different things.

Of the other things listed - of course it's ok people can choose to have whatever preferences they want on here **so long as they aren't driven by hatred or bigotry** - and shouldn't be attacked for them, neither should they be surprised if having those preferences work against them.

** I'm still (always) trying to get my head round this comment (that gets mentioned by many people in various threads). Your comment on my other thread is helping. "

There's nothing to get your head round really - it's quite simple - if someone says they have a preference not to meet me, not a problem - however say they don't want to meet me because I'm a fat 54 year old bloke who likes to play with cocks and am therefore likely to have an STI then they'll get both barrels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pointed out to my mom the other day when she hit me, we ran from my father because of domestic violence, yet the only thing I can remember is her hitting me around the head, at full whack with hands, shoes, hairbrush, and belts (buckle end. Told her that's why had I had kids, I wouldn't have left them with her - the bitter battle goes on!"

She hit you recently? Hope you're ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""double standards" usually used on here by those who don't get what they want or things don't go their way. There is no entitlement and a person has the right to have their standards and preferences as to how they run their profile ect. Accept it or move on I say ??"

I think that's usually what people mean when they call something double standards. They are trying to guilt the person into changing their mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?

No, it’s absolutely not ok; however, the fact that it’s not ok is completely different from the fact that you have the freedom to put whatever you want on your profile. People are similarly free to reject your double standards or approach you in spite of them."

Why is it not ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure how bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard - they're completely different things.

Of the other things listed - of course it's ok people can choose to have whatever preferences they want on here **so long as they aren't driven by hatred or bigotry** - and shouldn't be attacked for them, neither should they be surprised if having those preferences work against them.

** I'm still (always) trying to get my head round this comment (that gets mentioned by many people in various threads). Your comment on my other thread is helping.

There's nothing to get your head round really - it's quite simple - if someone says they have a preference not to meet me, not a problem - however say they don't want to meet me because I'm a fat 54 year old bloke who likes to play with cocks and am therefore likely to have an STI then they'll get both barrels."

But it's the same outcome. It's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

Yeah, only if you are a hypocrite though

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Not sure how bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard - they're completely different things.

Of the other things listed - of course it's ok people can choose to have whatever preferences they want on here **so long as they aren't driven by hatred or bigotry** - and shouldn't be attacked for them, neither should they be surprised if having those preferences work against them.

** I'm still (always) trying to get my head round this comment (that gets mentioned by many people in various threads). Your comment on my other thread is helping.

There's nothing to get your head round really - it's quite simple - if someone says they have a preference not to meet me, not a problem - however say they don't want to meet me because I'm a fat 54 year old bloke who likes to play with cocks and am therefore likely to have an STI then they'll get both barrels.

But it's the same outcome. It's a no.

"

Yes it's the same outcome and that outcome should be accepted regardless - however what should not be accepted or tolerated is the way the second example was expressed

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?

No, it’s absolutely not ok; however, the fact that it’s not ok is completely different from the fact that you have the freedom to put whatever you want on your profile. People are similarly free to reject your double standards or approach you in spite of them.

Why is it not ok?"

Because the person who applies the double standards e.g. hiding their verifications while expecting other people to show theirs on their profile, is insulting other people’s intelligence. And as I said before, one is free to do what they want in their profile but also other people are free to think that one is an arsehole.

To give you another—slightly more extreme—example, I have the freedom to say in my profile “I don’t meet blacks, I only find white people attractive”. It is my freedom to do so, but that doesn’t mean I am not an arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes/no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are within their rights to have preferences. So that is okay. I wouldn't want to be involved with someone who embraced double standards though. I knew someone who wanted an MFF because they had a fantasy of being with two women, but rejected an MMF because they hated the idea of not being enough for a woman, despite not understanding that the women may feel that she is not enough. That type of double standard person can piss off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about men that don't want to meet bisexual females then??

The bisexual arguments are always aimed at women on Fab. That in itself is a double standard.

X

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"What about men that don't want to meet bisexual females then??

The bisexual arguments are always aimed at women on Fab. That in itself is a double standard.

X

"

Yes, it is absolutely a double standard and it is a stupid one! For example I, as a man who prefers men and has no problem with a woman’s body, am not aroused by lesbian sex in person, like lots of heterosexual men are, but I have never been turned off by bisexual women! And I wouldn’t reject them!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

No, it’s not okay. But it happens all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure how bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard - they're completely different things.

Of the other things listed - of course it's ok people can choose to have whatever preferences they want on here **so long as they aren't driven by hatred or bigotry** - and shouldn't be attacked for them, neither should they be surprised if having those preferences work against them.

** I'm still (always) trying to get my head round this comment (that gets mentioned by many people in various threads). Your comment on my other thread is helping.

There's nothing to get your head round really - it's quite simple - if someone says they have a preference not to meet me, not a problem - however say they don't want to meet me because I'm a fat 54 year old bloke who likes to play with cocks and am therefore likely to have an STI then they'll get both barrels.

But it's the same outcome. It's a no.

Yes it's the same outcome and that outcome should be accepted regardless - however what should not be accepted or tolerated is the way the second example was expressed "

Got it. I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not the best place to ask this question for a decent answer, but of course everyone can do what they choose on here. Consequences always apply mind.....

Steve x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, it’s not okay. But it happens all the time. "

Why is it not ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe not the best place to ask this question for a decent answer, but of course everyone can do what they choose on here. Consequences always apply mind.....

Steve x "

What consequences?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"No, it’s not okay. But it happens all the time.

Why is it not ok?"

Because it’s hypocritical, which I don’t think is a good thing. It is something we all are though (hypocrites) about all manner of things either consistently or occasionally.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We choose our own rules and standards in life and often live with our own conflicting positions. It's probably better to have coherent standards with unity rather than conflict. Some people will manage ok whatever mash-up they use, others not. Personal evolution is likely based on our experience but some will still remain with double standards - it's then up to the rest of us to select out what we don't accept.

I'm not particularly tolerant of people who want to impose what I perceive to be imbalanced standards. People who take more than they give I let go of quite quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can’t get my head around the way some people think on here! So unless you’re willing to meet anyone you’re a hypocrite or have double standards!!

So a bisexual woman who prefers not to meet bisexual men

A fat woman who prefers not to meet fat men

A white woman who prefers not to meet white men

A bald man who prefers to not meet bald women

A skinny man who prefers curvy women.

All hypocrites then with this line of thinking?

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook


"I really can’t get my head around the way some people think on here! So unless you’re willing to meet anyone you’re a hypocrite or have double standards!!

So a bisexual woman who prefers not to meet bisexual men

A fat woman who prefers not to meet fat men

A white woman who prefers not to meet white men

A bald man who prefers to not meet bald women

A skinny man who prefers curvy women.

All hypocrites then with this line of thinking?

"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can’t get my head around the way some people think on here! So unless you’re willing to meet anyone you’re a hypocrite or have double standards!!

So a bisexual woman who prefers not to meet bisexual men

A fat woman who prefers not to meet fat men

A white woman who prefers not to meet white men

A bald man who prefers to not meet bald women

A skinny man who prefers curvy women.

All hypocrites then with this line of thinking?

"

100% true.. god forbid people have sex with someone they just fancy!! It's that simple.

Saff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my fave phrase is do as i say not as i do to my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people who only have double standards are really not trying hard enough.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"No, it’s not okay. But it happens all the time.

Why is it not ok?

Because it’s hypocritical, which I don’t think is a good thing. It is something we all are though (hypocrites) about all manner of things either consistently or occasionally. "

People will undoubtedly personalise an answer in the purest sense as being a chastisement of how they live. I don’t think for a second that a) bisexual women not meeting bisexual men is a double standard nor that anyone should meet anyone that they don’t want to (and have never posted otherwise). Phrase the OP with same question title and different examples, you’d have got different answers from many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

These examples aren’t double standards.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?

These examples aren’t double standards. "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Double standards are a rule or principle which is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups.

... someone who won't meet people with no pics but does meet two people with no pics

... someone who won't meet people who hide their verifications, but does meet one person who hides theirs

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men but do meet those three bisexual men

I think you’ll agree these are hypocritical people, albeit we all do it sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?

These examples aren’t double standards. "

What are then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really can’t get my head around the way some people think on here! So unless you’re willing to meet anyone you’re a hypocrite or have double standards!!

So a bisexual woman who prefers not to meet bisexual men

A fat woman who prefers not to meet fat men

A white woman who prefers not to meet white men

A bald man who prefers to not meet bald women

A skinny man who prefers curvy women.

All hypocrites then with this line of thinking?

"

Can't win either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

Just because someone has no pics on their profile doesnt mean they dont have private ones they can send.

Just pointing that out

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

In the spirit and nature of the kind of double standards you are talking about here yes.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Sure, id fuck someone on here that i wouldn't ever consider having a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sure, id fuck someone on here that i wouldn't ever consider having a relationship with. "

You know that's against forum rules, right?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Sure, id fuck someone on here that i wouldn't ever consider having a relationship with.

You know that's against forum rules, right? "

Lol

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By *trangeleftyMan
over a year ago

London

But are you a bisexual women who won't meet bisexual women or don't get off by them... that's

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Human nature to have double standards its imprinted in our dna

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By *rown_Bread78Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Is it ok to have double standards?"

It's okay for me, but not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Is it ok to have double standards?

It's okay for me, but not for you"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But are you a bisexual women who won't meet bisexual women or don't get off by them... that's "

Me? Or that other woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Is it ok to have double standards?

It's okay for me, but not for you"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Sure, id fuck someone on here that i wouldn't ever consider having a relationship with.

You know that's against forum rules, right? "

Anyway, i thought it was only against forum rules to admit it!!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Why stop at only double standards? I have loads of different standards for different circumstances and I don’t expect that I should have to stick to them.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Some have standards they be low but they still have standards.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"For example-

... someone has no pics on their profile but won't meet people with no pics.

... someone hides their verifications but won't meet people who hide theirs.

... bisexual women who won't meet bisexual men.

... etc

Is it ok to have double standards?"

Ever heard about private photos or direct send?

The thing about bisexual women is just a question of personal choice. They do not find bisexual men attractive.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's not double standards.

If your standard.

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