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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive "

Me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

Me"

crazy aint it...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Me. Nearly did 2 weeks ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us lol

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

What makes it so addictive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Me as well. But where else to go?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I haven’t. I have hidden my profile a couple of times when I’ve been focusing on other things in life though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I feel that way I just hide my profile until it passes. Otherwise it only means making a new profile.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Quite often then say leave it until renewal time and see, keep thinking it’s fun it’s course but then somebody surprises us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the chat Fi

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I take a break every now and then for a few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i think about it.been on my mind again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just back after a 4 month break .. and I'm thinking about going again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just back after a 4 month break .. and I'm thinking about going again soon "

When you check out someone's profile and think 'Hmm, classy. I think I might stick around afyer all!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have left twice and come back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have left once and come back under a new name...

but not having any luck lately...

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By *he massuseMan
over a year ago

newport

I'm surprised that as a couple you're not having any luck. I thought that was just a single guy thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm surprised that as a couple you're not having any luck. I thought that was just a single guy thing!"

nope. we have struggled for a while that why we left for a bit. maybe its cos we want a female mainly but will consider couples if we click

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive "

All of us at some point I’d imagine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just back after a 4 month break .. and I'm thinking about going again soon

When you check out someone's profile and think 'Hmm, classy. I think I might stick around afyer all!""

Classy lassie could be my name when i return...again!

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

https://youtu.be/GoyLmJfYZ-8

You can check out anytime but you can never leave..

When the real stuff takes over I disappear, until something real and lasting comes along I'll be here.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yep most of the time nowadays

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep most of the time nowadays"

im surprised with that from u...

we had u as friends on our old account and u seem to do well on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's too addictive lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bored...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"bored..."

I've been here about 13 years and have never left. If I get bored, as others have said, I just hide ma profile for a few weeks or months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bored..."

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

Me"

Nora is only here as she enjoys my sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep most of the time nowadays"

I'll miss you spider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

Me

Nora is only here as she enjoys my sarcasm "

I know nobody likes you but I actually do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I'd seen this thread I'd updated my status about how addictive I'm finding this site. My photo's seem to be getting naughtier...so yes me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive "

If things go to plan in "real life" I'll leave this place behind without a second thought. I haven't been on much this past three months and can honestly say I haven't missed it.

Just pop on occasionally for my messages, and a browse through the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

Me

Nora is only here as she enjoys my sarcasm

I know nobody likes you but I actually do "

I'm a bad influence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not leave but sometimes hide my profile and take time out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

Me

Nora is only here as she enjoys my sarcasm

I know nobody likes you but I actually do

I'm a bad influence"

I am uninfluenceable. Another word I made up. I’ll stick that in the Nora dictionary

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

I take a sabbatical every now and again... but do enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often feel like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often feel like this but when I see F&B I forget about wanting to leave and bash my bishop furiously"

Happy to help without helping X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any single females wanna kiss me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take a sabbatical every now and again... but do enjoy it "

I’m glad you’re still here

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

For what reasons do people want to leave?

I've only been on the forum a week and I'm glad I decided to get involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive only joined the forum today...

its good actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For what reasons do people want to leave?

I've only been on the forum a week and I'm glad I decided to get involved "

I'm not thinking of leaving because of the forums, although they aren't as much fun as they used to be, but I still maintain that if I left I would never look back unless my circumstances change drastically x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often, but it's good to chat to a few people on here. It does waste a lot of time though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it and came back dammm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so I guess its more addictive then i thought

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes think about it a lot.

It’s definitely addictive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m deffo of thinking of leaving having no luck at all lol x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I just hide my profile when I get a bit bored,then come back when I feel like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am as I have not meet anyone from here since I have been on fab just met a woman on Pof and its going great we have just clicked going to stay at her place on Saturday she knows I am a naturist and wants to try naturism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just back after a 4 month break .. and I'm thinking about going again soon

When you check out someone's profile and think 'Hmm, classy. I think I might stick around afyer all!"

Classy lassie could be my name when i return...again!"

Don’t be leaving without stopping over in pm and saying hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive "
Me!, I know I've got to do it one day though, getting far too old now

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Before I'd seen this thread I'd updated my status about how addictive I'm finding this site. My photo's seem to be getting naughtier...so yes me too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was ready to leave earlier in the year but someone special changed my mind.

I am so glad she did as we have blossomed into a very happy and loving relationship since then.

We have stuck around Fab even though we are 100% exclusive to each other for fun we have in the forums.

I have deleted my singles profile as i have no use for it and i love our couples profile so much more.

LJ

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have come close to leaving a couple of times but have chosen to take a break for a couple of months. It has help us come back refreshed and with a renewed vigor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ppl who feel like leaving really should, especially if it's causing unhappiness or stress or eating into real life too much....

....an account takes five minutes to set up if they change their minds. The addictive fomo aspect soon disappears and is replaced by healthy behavior.....

Reality is REALITY, aka the shit that's there when you put your phone down. It can be all too easy to become addicted to fake praise from ppl looking to get their end away or looking for a status boosts or likes in here...

Steve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was ready to leave earlier in the year but someone special changed my mind.

I am so glad she did as we have blossomed into a very happy and loving relationship since then.

We have stuck around Fab even though we are 100% exclusive to each other for fun we have in the forums.

I have deleted my singles profile as i have no use for it and i love our couples profile so much more.

LJ"

Plus this

A couple profile is a wonderful way to use fab because it keeps you both in check with reality, and you know that if you send a stupid twatty message then your OH will see it and kick your arse

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We mainly keep our profile to chat with people we meet at clubs and parties and to find said clubs and parites.

We've not had a huge amount of luck with private meets, etc. Hundreds of offers from single guys and the like but not much happening with couples and ladies. We're not against single guys but hubby wants some fun too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was ready to leave earlier in the year but someone special changed my mind.

I am so glad she did as we have blossomed into a very happy and loving relationship since then.

We have stuck around Fab even though we are 100% exclusive to each other for fun we have in the forums.

I have deleted my singles profile as i have no use for it and i love our couples profile so much more.

LJ

Plus this

A couple profile is a wonderful way to use fab because it keeps you both in check with reality, and you know that if you send a stupid twatty message then your OH will see it and kick your arse "

So true!!

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

aww thats amazing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye felica

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was ready to leave earlier in the year but someone special changed my mind.

I am so glad she did as we have blossomed into a very happy and loving relationship since then.

We have stuck around Fab even though we are 100% exclusive to each other for fun we have in the forums.

I have deleted my singles profile as i have no use for it and i love our couples profile so much more.

LJ"

lovely....i want that grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was ready to leave earlier in the year but someone special changed my mind.

I am so glad she did as we have blossomed into a very happy and loving relationship since then.

We have stuck around Fab even though we are 100% exclusive to each other for fun we have in the forums.

I have deleted my singles profile as i have no use for it and i love our couples profile so much more.

LJ lovely....i want that grr"

and i nearly deleted this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On occasion

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Nah...if we were thinking of leaving we would just leave, never to be seen again.

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Have thought about it. Have had periods of several months when I’ve been to busy to sign in. I think it’s easy to underestimate the effort you need to put in on sites like Fab in order to get the best out of them. Ok so the profile itself needs work, but if you aren’t prepared to communicate on areas like the Forums you are unlikely to do well, particularly if you are male. Sad facts are that there are more allegedly single males on here than females and not all couples are looking for MMF meetups. Then there’s the practicality of distance and ability to provide a place to meet. When you start to tot it all up, it’s a miracle that so many people do actually meet up.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive

Me

Nora is only here as she enjoys my sarcasm "

Come with me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how many of you think of leaving.. but then cant cos this site is soo addictive "

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time I may as well as I've not met anyone for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get the urge to leave I just hide my profile

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